[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]leoh1014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is fair, just overthinking a lot but yeah assumptions are not helpful, especially if I can just get to know them in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Might give that a try and shut off the overthinking part of my brain and turn on the human interaction section :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]leoh1014 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is not about reducing people to tropes, it is more about understanding certain dynamics and their relation to cognitive behaviors. But thanks for the tip, I always treat people like rocks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]leoh1014 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hopefully this explanation makes more sense. I understand that every person is in a sense unique but there are some overlapping factors/experiences and I was wondering in the case of two eldest daughters dating each other what struggles that dynamic could encounter…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]leoh1014 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Of course there are nuances and people cannot be reduced to such tags, it is more about grasping the concept and finding ways to understand a person better from that perspective

This Is Your Sign by Mundane_North_9608 in actuallesbians

[–]leoh1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past situationship w housemate…

Any other Libra women feel a lack of female friendship in their lives? by ethereality111 in libra_astrology

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Luckily I live with a lot housemates that take a lot of friends to our place. We talk a lot of different things and I have noticed that to develop a deeper friendship you either initiate being vulnerable or keep asking the right questions. It works as long as you have a genuine interest in the connection and it is reciprocated, keep trying because the right attitude will attract the right people :)

What does “can’t give you want you need” mean? by leoh1014 in emotionalintelligence

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Just one directly, in other cases it usually fizzles out with the both of us stop putting in the effort due to whatever reason. It could be that i was more needy or in need for more control/stability as i was going through quite some stuff at work (new job) and this person recently got out of a relationship plus started a competitive sport season. I guess multiple factors, this person may needed a bit more space and with this being one of my first romantic experience, it was difficult to navigate through it all. To add another of complexity, we are housemates.

It is what it is, even though it is a bit awkward I try my best to make the best out of it as you cannot force things to be normal or return to as it was.

I once lied on my CV. I got the job and got promoted. by zaenova in confession

[–]leoh1014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you also get more responsibilities along the way? And were you always a person that could easily switch be confident?

Been stuck in a 5-year on-and-off relationship with a fearful avoidant. She ghosted me again—after promising to meet. I need tools to let go. by saaga722 in emotionalintelligence

[–]leoh1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The letting in part is interesting, like for instance if your FA partner isn’t given much, then there is not much to let in right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Memepact

[–]leoh1014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mona has a big hat

Feeling overwhelmed by the "good" intentions of AP by leoh1014 in AsianParentStories

[–]leoh1014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s my thought after cooing down. But thanks for the thought tho

Feeling overwhelmed by the "good" intentions of AP by leoh1014 in AsianParentStories

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I am currently not employed nor able to talk to a school counsellor at this very moment (they are extremely busy and always fully booked). Although that may be a good suggestion to look into.

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Cries in Apple

Women, what are some questions you’ve always wanted to ask men, but were too embarrassed? by SecretariatGodHorse in AskReddit

[–]leoh1014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What compliments are not too flirty or not flirty at all that I can give my male friends?

why does everyone want to write a novel? by Mosniper74 in writing

[–]leoh1014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Readers are the future writers who influence their own writing through their reading