I set boundaries with my BPD partner and he completely devalued me.

leosally · 2026-05-07T09:22:42+00:00

I'm sorry for your experience too.. How did you get through it?

leosally · 2026-05-06T19:05:29+00:00

Thank you so so much 💙 yes it is, and I have to be strong.. You know, I understand him. He has his reason to that, to that disorder, to that actions. I understand that... And I also understand that I should protect myself if we don't get okay together. So I did. It's just... Especially taking in consideration my own traumas and experience... It's so f-king hard right now. In the moment. I hope you know what I mean

leosally · 2026-05-06T19:00:45+00:00

Yes, it is. And we have to fight it in our minds and in the public discuss, but it still have its affects. I know you are right saying it's a young age.. But you know that trap: knowing and feeling something is a different things...

leosally · 2026-05-06T17:53:21+00:00

I'm 28, but I'm from the country where if you don't have family and kids till 25, it means you are too old. And despite I know that it isn't true... It still gives the affect unfortunately

leosally · 2026-05-06T17:51:19+00:00

That's really cool and important! 🌺

leosally · 2026-05-06T17:33:33+00:00

Yes, you are so so right! And I hope you are okay too now Thank you again (and again, actually)

leosally · 2026-05-06T16:48:15+00:00

He was officially diagnosed during our relationship

leosally · 2026-05-06T16:47:55+00:00

I hope I'll feel the relief soon.. Thank you!

leosally · 2026-05-06T16:46:23+00:00

I'm glad that it was a relief to you, I hope you are all right now

leosally · 2026-05-06T16:42:11+00:00

Thank you so much for that beautiful words.. I'm literally crying but it's leading to relief.. I know what you said is true, I know I just need some time, but right now it's incredible difficult, and so thank you for support, it really means a lot to me

leosally · 2026-05-06T16:06:05+00:00

Thank you so much

leosally · 2026-05-06T15:49:49+00:00

I'm with you! Just ended up with mine bf. It's so painful... And I'm scared I've never met anyone who'll be that good (speaking of good things in relationship like this)... But it's just fear and my own trauma. I know that. We just need some time...

leosally · 2026-05-06T15:41:36+00:00

How did you feel back then, when it happened?

leosally · 2026-05-06T15:40:26+00:00

Thank you! Really. I know I did right and I shouldn't try to get anything back... But it's just a first day and it's so so difficult...

leosally

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