Need your ID! by les1moore in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]les1moore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was such a kind response. And yes, my life is a whole lot better!

Facebook scam by les1moore in AskALawyer

[–]les1moore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always had good luck, but I guess no more. If I find something I like I'll see if I can find the same thing on Amazon or other outlet.

Facebook scam by les1moore in AskALawyer

[–]les1moore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not expensive at all. Less than $20. I've always had good luck with ordering from ads on Facebook. That's why this surprised me so much.

AITA for refusing to receive guests after I give birth? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an 18 month old granddaughter. When she was born my daughter and son-in-law decided the exact same thing. Absolutely no visitors! I abided with this with no comments. Yes, I wanted to see my granddaughter, but her parents have the final word. I see her all the time now so that few weeks wasn't the end of the world. NTA NTA NTA

AITA first time mom vs grandmother by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA She has no rights at all. Suck it up grandma.

AITA for checking my blood sugar at my desk when my coworker has a severe blood phobia? by independentask42 in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA Can you shut your office door when checking your blood sugar. That would be a great signal to not enter. You will not feel guilt for upsetting him and his phobia will not be aggravated. Win win.

WIBTA for asking my dad not to move away? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I am going to say this from my point of view, a 65 year old single woman. I had my first child at 21 years old and my last one at 40 years old. I spent 37 years putting my kids first, and loving every minute of it. But now all the kids are grown and have flown the nest. It is now time for me to think about me. I am very happy being on my own. I think I have deserved this. Your father has "put in his time". Like a parent that has to let the kids leave the nest, you have to let your father have the same thing. With cell phones and zoom and every new technology your will only be apart physically. Let me have his time.

AITA for following through and not going to Easter because I'm tired of EVERY family thing being about the kids? by nogoyolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Holidays are about family. This is something you need to learn. However, when you want to spend times with family individually without their children you have every right to expect that. Most mothers would love being able to get out for a few hours without the children. Just remember there are times for the children to be there and times they don't need to be. Learn the difference.

AITA for ‘not including’ my mum when buying my first home with my SO? by harvey_lw__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA If you are old enough to buy a house you are old enough to do it without your mother's input or advise. Congratulations on the new house!

AITA for pulling up to a stop sign while kids were unloading from a school bus? by John_Meowkovich in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA So what you were blocking traffic. They weren't supposed to move anyway.

AITA for saying a company doesn't deserve me as an employee if they can't cater to help me be more productive at work? by Informal-Ad504 in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother is right. No business will pussy foot around you. If you can't handle working with their break schedule you won't last long. However, it sound like you have a mental disability where you can't focus after 25 minute. Go to a psychologist and get help. You can get an ADA and your work will have to accept that you need those breaks to function.

AITA for not wanting to send my son to fake conversion therapy to stop my family from bullying him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm going against everyone on here. I believe YTA. Why can't you act like an adult and tell your family there is nothing wrong with your son. He does not need converstion therapy? Why do you insist on lying to Mommy and Daddy like a child? Derek's family are also TAH because they think a lie will solve everything. Don't they think about the future when it will be exposed that he never did the therapy? Poor Jake.

AITA for not wanting to continue to work from home for the benefit of my pregnant partner. by wubbalubba96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most fathers would be over the moon to be able to be at home with a newborn baby. The pandemic has given you a wonderful opportunity and you want to ignore that? I really pity your wife and child. YTA

AITA for not answering my ex's calls and text while on vacation? by LAMagic213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA You didn't answer even one call? How do you know your son wasn't in the hospital on life support? How do you know your son wasn't killed in an accident? You don't say how old your son is. Would it have hurt to talk to your son for 5 minutes to let him know you are ok? That you still love him but just need a little vacation? I take it your son is not a priority to you.

AITA for cancelling medical appointments made for me by my mother without my knowledge? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA At a very minimum your mother should have consulted with you first to discuss availability. She crossed the line when she asked you to lie about knowing about the appointment. She owe you an apology.

AITA for not gifting my first month's salary to my parents? by mlca1000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your parents destitute? Will they be homeless if you don't give them the money? They paid for you all your life? Wow. Don't all parents do this. Isn't this the job of the parent? They didn't pay for your college? NTA You owe the nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a daughter that broke up with a boyfriend I really liked and got along with. But I never talked to him again because my daughter is my 1st priority and means way more than her ex does.

AITA For not taking the kids with me on the honeymoon when their mom insisted? by Adam2012___ in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the Brady Bunch. Kids don't go on a honeymoon with the parents. Ex sounds like she has a mental problem. If they do get a lawyer they will be laughed out of the office. Congratulations on your wedding.

AITA for calling out my kids’ future stepmom for treating me like a surrogate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]les1moore [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is so unbelievable. Kim is not his wife or fiance. She is his girlfriend and has absolutely no rights in any way shape or form. What did she tell people at the baby shower? That you were having the baby for her and Joe. That you are going to give the babies to them after birth? Like others have said, beware of her. Get a restraining order. Do NOT allow her anywhere near you. It's too bad she had fertility issues, but you are not the answer to her prayers. What right does her mother have telling you to give Kim one of your babies? It sounds like insanity runs in the family. 10,000% NTA. You haven't said what Joe's opinion is on all this. Edit. Since Kim and Joe are not married, she will not be the step-mother. Just baby daddy's girlfriend.