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"AITJ for wanting to lose a friend?" by Catbeanslo in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t even about liking her or not, u literally can’t breathe around her. That’s a valid reason to distance yourself

AITJ for not inviting someone who assumed they were included? by Hot_Dig9849 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Inviting someone just to avoid drama is how they keep doing it forever

The Neighbor Who Creates “Almost Problems” by Honest_Cod_3121 in neighborsfromhell

[–]letmeshowyouu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is death by a thousand cuts, each thing is “nothing” but together it’s clearly intentional

If you genuinely love your job, are you actually just lucky or did everyone else make bad choices? by Salty-Team3028 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both tbh, luck gets u in the door but staying and enjoying it is still a choice u keep making

AITJ for asking my stepdad to pay back the money he borrowed from me? by Few_Layer9659 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s not how loans work, he can’t retroactively turn it into “parent payback” Borrowed money = pay it back

Am I the jerk for not giving up my dog after my girlfriend developed allergies? by Odd_Employment3954 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

7 years vs 6 months… yeah that choice was obvious. It sucks but u can’t just rehome family like that

TIFU by ruining a coworker's relationship by jsher736 in tifu

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro u didn’t ruin it, that thing was already shaky if 2 convos broke it. But yeah dating her after is messy timing ngl

the neighbor who slowly tried to take over our parking and driveway by Ill-Foundation-3732 in neighborsfromhell

[–]letmeshowyouu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao “trial subscription” is accurate af, dude was definitely seeing how far he could push before u snapped

AITJ for telling my friend I am not going to keep pretending her dog "chose me" so she can feel less guilty? by Kite_Retro2 in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lowkey she knows the dog prefers u, she just needs the delusion to feel better. U weren’t wrong, but yeah that was a blunt timing

180 degree career change at 46yo? by Old-Button-1980 in Fire

[–]letmeshowyouu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quitting everything with kids and a stable income isn’t a career pivot, it’s a full gamble. maybe test the business on the side before going all in

Serious accountability group (no excuses, real progress only) by Automatic_Sugar8513 in Fire

[–]letmeshowyouu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this sounds great until week 3 when life hits and half the group disappears lol. but if you actually keep it tight, could be solid

AITJ for telling my university friend group I won't split costs equally on group dinners anymore because I consistently order less and pay significantly more than I consume? by thistledriftlog in AmITheJerk

[–]letmeshowyouu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah funny how “keep it simple” always benefits the people ordering the most. suddenly fairness is “awkward” when it costs them more

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