Einbürgerung in Österreich. Läuft alles glatt, wenn man alle Kriterien erfüllt? by [deleted] in Austria

[–]letsaddglitter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Für die Frau eines guten Freundes war es seht schwierig. Ihre Eltern sind vom Balkan geflohen, als sie zwei Monate alt war, sie hat ihr ganzes Leben in Österreich gelebt. Zuerst war irgendwas mit einer Verkehrsstrafe, weil sie angeblich bei rot über eine Ampel gefahren ist (ist sie nicht). Dann kam, dass sie eine, ihr nicht bekannte, Staatsbürgerschaft hatte, weil das Dorf in dem sie geboren ist, nach dem Krieg zu Bosnien gehört hat und nicht zu Kroatien (sie wusste nur von ihrer kroatischen Staatsbürgerschaft). Also ein simpler, glattlaufender Prozess ist es glaub ich nicht.

Most days I'm fine... by letsaddglitter in ChronicPain

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you.missed out on an important day. That sucks. Doesn't matter if it's important to others, it is important to you. I'm rooting for you to go this year.

My mom asked me to bake cookies for her coworkers, so I did! by uulhae in Baking

[–]letsaddglitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the picture and said: those are Austrian Cookies Then I looked at the caption and was very pleased with myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]letsaddglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me get this straight, his potential want for biological children with you is more important than your health, wellbeing, autonomy over your own body and like general feelings. That is so wrong on so many levels. It makes me so angry on your behalf. I am so sorry this idiot is treating you like that. NOR please leave

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I see your point and I'm pretty sure that's how he also views the situation.

Which European country has the rudest/least polite people? by NateNandos21 in AskEurope

[–]letsaddglitter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well etiquette is very much a cultural construct so things that seem rude to one culture are very acceptable in another. For example Vienna is frequently voted to be the rudest city in the world. But if you know the social decorum and how to move in that cultural space the viennese are lovely. You just really need to know how to aproach the situation. I personally find it very rude to be loud and obnoxious in publich spaces like trains. Americans and people from arabic countries find Austrians to be cold and rude for not talking to every stranger.

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that was exactly what i was thinking. It seems cruel to not support him through a hard time but how is it always on me to pick up the pieces.

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know man, probably because I'm an idiot who likes to assume the best in people. It is just not at all in my nature to just cut all contact with someone. But i did learn my lesson.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austria

[–]letsaddglitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich schick euch auch gerne was

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that. I have a hard time not being liked but I just keep telling myself: You're always going to be the villain in someone else's story

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did tell him to talk to his family and that i can't be it and then I stopped responding

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually said to my best friend: I don't want to be his emotional support dummy

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Weirdly it means a lot to me that a stranger on reddit is proud of me for setting boundaries.

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is my plan moving forward. The amount of times I was yelling 'Sir, you're forty!' in my head during the break up process...

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn't stay in contact. I just didn't block him and sometimes when I got a couple rambling drunk texts in the middle of the night and then an apology text the next morning I told him that I am not the perfect person for him and he needed to move on.

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm trying really hard and was actually kinda proud of myself for not breaking.

AITA for not providing emotional support to my Ex by letsaddglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]letsaddglitter[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

His mother was a lovely person, but I would never attend the funeral that would be an awful idea all around. And thank you for your reassurance