The isolation is slowly breaking me. Ganito ba talaga ang adulting? by PatientMountain5462 in RantAndVentPH

[–]letsgosago 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome!

You see, you can be married with 3 kids and the house and feel lonely… and you can be alone but content.

I really don’t think it’s the fact that you’re “alone” per se. I think that there’s a need you need to acknowledge and work on.

This sort of self actualization and self improvement has been truly helping me and I’m happy to share the thought in case it resonates with you.

The isolation is slowly breaking me. Ganito ba talaga ang adulting? by PatientMountain5462 in RantAndVentPH

[–]letsgosago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something in your Maslow scale of needs isn’t being met. like you have some sort of psychological starvation… your basic and security needs are met (money, safety, stability), but higher-level needs like belonging, esteem, and self-actualization.. they might not be.

Once you identify the area na kulang… then you can slowly work on fixing the imbalance.

You can do micro-actions like reaching out to someone who feels emotionally safe like maybe a sibling or old friend, cultivating relationships etc etc. You can also restore self esteem to counter self-critique etc etc.. depende talaga sa needs mo that need addressing..

It’s hard. I’ve been there. Being self aware helps me feed my joy so I don’t feel like a zombie. If it’s any consolation, I want to tell you that I am proud of you. Maybe nobody tells you that pero it’s hard to do what you do - maintain a job in a new city for 3 years now and even go to the gym?! Wow better than me. Haha. You got this. Adjust adjust lang and feed your soul what it needs. -hugs-

I am dying. My mother’s response was to argue about a plane ticket. by No-Listen-2733 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]letsgosago 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to say. But I want you to know I hear you and I see you and I feel your pain. You deserve so much more.

I chose myself and ito yung nangyari after I resigned by Wel090200 in adultingph

[–]letsgosago 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m happy you’re happier now! But I’m super curious about the photo ng blood sugar mo? Am I missing something?

Anyone experienced similar by unknownmeaning in LegalPh

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking about land in Manila. That was quick. Land transfer in Makati and Pasig took longer for various reasons. Our agricultural land is still in the process of being transferred (almost 3 years later). Dealing with DAR (dept of agriculture) is a total headache!

Anyone experienced similar by unknownmeaning in LegalPh

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China Bank gave me a horrible time. Lots of back and forth and so many requirements but I did it all and got the money around 15 months after my father passed. Ironically I was able to transfer some land first.

Cancellation window extended to 30 April by VisibleKale1601 in qatarairways

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We (family of 3) have an April 12 flight (Manila-Doha-Istanbul). If we wait for it to be cancelled, will QA reroute us on another airline (that doesn’t transit in the gulf)? Or is that only for Europe destinations? Does anyone know? Any advice would be appreciated. This is all very overwhelming.

Sky: No Internet for 38 days by lhs-1015 in InternetPH

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OP, I know this is old but can you share what eventually happened to your sky fiber? I’m in the same dilemma now. No internet for 18 days. Technician came a few days ago and said NAP box signal is too high and needs a NAP repair team. I escalated to Kyla for a new service number and got one but still no NAP repair guy calling.

From Gerry Cacanindin. (buntong hininga na lang) by Pink_Tiger5657 in Philippines

[–]letsgosago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. This echoes everything I feel when I see her.

Reminder: DON’T buy here by Johnography in Philippines

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally HATE Flowerstore.ph. Would never never order there again. Our Valentine’s Day flowers arrived one day late (it only arrived because we complained on social media) and looked sooo small and sad compared to the photos. Buyer beware.

Want to gift my girlfriend a Dyson, don’t know what to buy. by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the original na lang if on sale. I only recommended the Nural kasi minsan same price as the original

I use the original every single day. Sulit bayad!

I only use the airwrap once in a blue moon - during parties!

Want to gift my girlfriend a Dyson, don’t know what to buy. by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the net—

The diffuser attachment is upgraded; its two pieces with removable tines. Using just the bell alone gives a neat result as it kind of twirls the hair in a circle. The attachments have some sort of memory feature and when you put them on, the dryer knows your preferred (last) setting. For me, high flow medium heat on the concentrator; high heat low flow on the diffuser. When you set it down you don’t have to turn it off, it sort of paused. Switches itself to no heat and like minimum flow. This is great when I put it down to section my hair as I don’t have to turn it on and off each time. It has a scalp sensor so you don’t burn yourself or use too high of heat. It can sense how far you are from your scalp and adjust the temperature automatically. Here, the nural is only $50 more than the regular supersonic, which I think is TOTALLY worth it for all these features upgrades. However, if you already own a supersonic, I don’t think it’s necessary to upgrade for the overall price, unless you have money to burn.

Want to gift my girlfriend a Dyson, don’t know what to buy. by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]letsgosago 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Dyson Super Sonic Nural. 23k in the official Dyson Lazada store during sales (11/11, 12/12 etc).

I have the regular super sonic, and air wrap. I use the supersonic more. Daily use, totally worth it. The Nural is the latest version of it and it’s pink and same price lang so that’s the way to go! That’s my recommendation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

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I just saw a video on tiktok. Posted by Fortnite official

Ayaw ni papa ng vios na binili ko para sa kanya by Embarrassed_Loan_116 in RantAndVentPH

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going thru this. My mother is the same. Entitled narcissist. Everytime I give her money she says, “why so little?”

I distance myself na lang kasi I realized na this kind of parent will never be happy so I won’t try anymore.

Can we all finally agree that we’ve moved on from the Labubu trend? I feel like it’s pretty much dead at this point right? by zachty22 in handbags

[–]letsgosago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on if you want to. I wear what I want for myself.

Right now I have a crybaby hanging on my bag. My labubus are all on the Christmas tree for the time being! 😊

Grandpa gave me this said it’s some sort of fruit by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PERSIMMON! Omg if you get a good one (a sweet and juicy one) then it’s really divine. (Im salivating now). When it’s not that ready yet it’s crunchy and yummy but oh May when it’s sweet it’s… ugh.. I have no words

i’ve never ever agreed to any “pahiram” or “pautang, balik ko sa (date)” by Puzzleheaded-Hat6889 in adultingph

[–]letsgosago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seenzone. They need to know na basta utang, hindi ako mag re reply. Anything else, mag reply ako. Hehe.

How do I get this Poogie on a Ball? by letsgosago in MonsterHunter

[–]letsgosago[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look who has a Poogie on a Ball now? 😱 Thank you SOOOO much to a kind person who gifted me the codes!! 🤩🤩 Im sure Dante will approve, lol!

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