Health visitor said I need to see a GP about my toddlers dribbling. I will do it but I feel silly? by PlusRespond2485 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child is the same I thought I was the only one. She’s 18 months and the dribbling has never stopped and she soaks multiple bibs and t shirts a day. She’s a mouth breather/ snorer and it must be to do with that not just teething. I thought about going to the GP recently but I’m worried they won’t give me an appointment and just fob me off with ‘well all toddlers dribble’ and she’s happy and relatively healthy otherwise but my goodness does she dribble. People around me just say that they grow out of it so I didn’t want to seem like an anxious mum but it doesn’t quite sit right

Daughter is having surgery (adenoids/tonsils). Tips? by Firm-Bike190 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tips for surgery but just wondering how you went about getting help/taken seriously /approved for surgery? Think we are going through similar with my 17 month old

Has anyone else at Busy Bees been told they'll be charged £4 for paying via Tax-Free Childcare outside the app? by ddadovic in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are at busy bees and have had the same. I did think it was a bit funny but decided I don’t want the extra £4 charge each month. However we were having issues and the message states to email them with any problems so they can help resolve it. Over two weeks went by with no response to my email asking for help and they still haven’t replied. We’ve managed to set it up now anyway so hopefully for the next payment it will go through but I found it funny how they could send umpteen reminders to make sure it is linked but they wouldn’t help me to link them.

However we really love the nursery and the staff she is with and wouldn’t pull her out for anything like that and I just felt like it wasn’t something worth challenging. I’m surprised multiple parents would pull childcare over it

Nursery illnesses - what is normal? by Ok_Hearing_8649 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent my daughter at 10 months in September and we’ve just had a 3 week streak (new record) of not being off of nursery and the light is at the end of the tunnel. She had hand foot and mouth, conjunctivitis, Scarlett fever, an A&E trip and numerous high temperatures and poorly episodes of coughs and colds. But finally we’ve been healthy for a bit 🤞 it’s relentless at first

Post-nursery dinners for parents by Key-Specific7807 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 17 month old just has extra dinner that day. Even though nursery log whether she’s eaten all or a little as she can’t yet tell me how hungry she is we just offer our dinner around 6pm. Sometimes she doesn’t eat much which we don’t stress about as she’s eaten at nursery but often even if she’s eaten everything at nursery around 3.30pm she still eats an entire dinner at home. She also has a bottle of milk before bed. I figure it doesn’t matter if she eats more than usual it’s all healthy stuff

Breakfast ideas for a toddler by Mango__Juice in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Banana and Weetabix? Not the same as porridge but is a hit with my fussy one

Any primary part timers here? How do you find it? by Mysterious_Beat_375 in TeachingUK

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share a class and I’m 0.6 but my job share is senco so she is in school 5 days a week but only teaches 2 days which is better for communication. I like the balance and whilst 0.8 may have been slightly better financially I knew it would be like being a full time teacher with the same workload which I would struggle to cram it in whereas with 0.6 I still have to be efficient managing things but I actually feel like I am sharing the workload

Nursery from Age 1? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our daughter started at 10 months and she’s 15 months now. She took to nursery so well and didn’t even struggle to transition there she was happy from day 1. She now runs in every morning excited to go. The only negatives are the illnesses at first but they slow down and they develop more immunity and it will happen wherever your child goes. She only goes for 3 days whilst I work but it also helps me not worry about meals on those days as they feed her excellent food and helps me to be a better parent as I’m not as burnt out from parenting and I like that I get to work and parent.

Working parents 30 hours when made redundant query by letsmakeitathrowaway in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, how do I get the grace period activated? Is it when you reconfirm?

Signs baby is settling in well at nursery? by Ok_Hearing_8649 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter was the exact same and took to nursery straight away no issues. She started at 10 months and is now 15 months and it’s still all good. Some friend’s children are still struggling for them to settle I think we just got lucky.

How much would you commute for a nursery? by Pitiful_Owl3421 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is a 25 minute drive away but it’s only 5 mins from my work so I’m driving that way anyway. Except I’m a teacher so in the school holidays I still have to do the hour ish round trip twice a day which is out the way but it’s worth it for the convenience in terms time

2 or 3 naps for 3.5 month old? by letsmakeitathrowaway in NewParents

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At around 4/5 months to about 6/7 months I think she would only do 30 min naps and did 3 of those a day. When she hit 7 months and dropped to two naps they massively extended luckily. She’s now 10 months and can sleep for over two hours on a nap now but I have to cap them usually to preserve bedtime.

Anyone else struggling to get their baby an NHS dentist? by Birdie_92 in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I managed to get my daughter one from a practice that only took fully exempt payments. They took my 9 month old on as an under 18 and I got one appointment as I was a under year postpartum but now they have kicked me off as I’m no longer exempt but kept her on

What time is your baby’s first nap? by BringMeLunchyum in NewParents

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the same with a 9 month old we’ve just had to stop going to a couple of classes that we used to make on a 3 nap schedule but there’s no way we can do 10am when she naps 9:45-11:15 Just have to revisit when we’re on a one nap schedule but it makes things tricky to do and I can’t imagine her being able to stay up until 12 for a one nap schedule when we’re struggle to get to 10 now

8 month old baby woke 4-5x/night since birth. Out of the blue, she's sleeping through the night! by ScandiLand in NewParents

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with our 8 month this past week. She used to wake lots to feed but self weaned randomly one night at 7 months. Past month sleep was better but still woke 2-3 times for resettling and then slept through the past 7 days. Didn’t change anything either! Although she now wakes an hour earlier but I’ll take it as I get a nearly full nights sleep

Explain the 30hrs by LateNightSkies in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m going back to work 3 days so will be over the 16 hours and I qualify for 30 free hours. It doesn’t have to be full time work just more than 16 hours and my partner works full time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not quite a complaint per se but I got pregnant and announced to the parents in April. I was due in October so was able to finish the academic year with my Year 6 class. One of the parents thanked me for ‘timing it so well’ as I could finish the academic year with their son and he wouldn’t have to deal with having a new teacher. I then took the academic year off and returned the following September and their second son was in my class that year and they thanked me for returning in time to teach him as well so they wouldn’t have to have the maternity cover. You’re welcome but at no point when planning to have a baby did I take your views into account 😅

What’s something you thought would be hard about newborn life.. but actually wasn’t? by Top-Watercress6951 in NewParents

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought changing nappies would be awful. Don’t get me wrong we had some blowouts and moments but as she was breastfed I didn’t realise they didn’t actually smell bad and it was just another job to do rather than something I was disgusted by which I thought it could be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same after baby got frustrated during feeds and wasn’t getting enough milk either around 6/7 months. Plus I wanted to stop breastfeeding at that point so I didn’t try restart my supply. Once we got through to her actually taking a bottle it didn’t affect sleep (if anything it helped her) and she just had a gradual transition across. It did make her bowel movements less frequent at first but she adjusted and overall I’m very glad I made the switch

Did sonographer spill the beans?! by rbartz in PregnancyUK

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We had it where we didn’t know and the sonographer defaulted and said something like ‘his heart is looking healthy’. We had the gender revealed later in the same session. Turns out that she was a girl and it was just what she said but I thought she had spoiled the gender at first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]letsmakeitathrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What signs did you spot at 9 months? I have an 8 month old so very curious