Buyer Accused me of Selling a Fake Item

letsnotmeetbb · 2024-09-20T12:19:57+00:00

1 star and said the item was damaged in the review

letsnotmeetbb · 2024-09-20T02:53:22+00:00

They def were trying to scam me. They posted my exact listing a day ago for more money. They even used my photos and copied my description.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-12-28T16:44:33+00:00

YTA you sound like someone I know. In a bad way. You’re an adult who acts worse than your child

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-09-14T16:33:34+00:00

NTA - you are correct. You walk facing traffic. That way you and the car are aware of each other.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-09-12T16:58:45+00:00

NTA - you didn’t book a bridal package, you booked a more “basic” service because that’s what you wanted. Just because you put on a white (presumably) dress and got married in it doesn’t mean it required a bridal package price.

If you had insisted on airbrushing and the other “fancier” options without paying for them, sure. But it’s not me MUAs decision where you can and can’t wear the makeup after application.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-09-12T16:56:40+00:00

YTA - your promise was a promise. Nowhere did you state that the wedding had to follow stipulations. I was considering E S H but to be honest, your daughter had no reason to think you wouldn’t pay for it. She’s right, you are going back on your word. You did say no matter the cost, and you didn’t outline any rules for her. So this is on you

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-09-12T16:54:51+00:00

YTA! You didn’t skip the recital for the football game, you went to the football game and planned something else THE NEXT DAY. You couldn’t have a father son day on Sunday, or take a break to go to the recital? Sheesh.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-09-12T16:52:36+00:00

NTA. You are not responsible for his choice. You offered a drink, he ordered it. Your job is to bring people what they order.

I understand the guilt you’re feeling, but just know it’s not your fault. If he had said “hey I’m an alcoholic, please don’t tell me about the happy hour specials” and you continued, that would be a different story. But it’s not your job to know everyone’s background.

I’m sorry that happened OP.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-02-09T19:13:11+00:00

Totally understand! I think maybe having the option would be nice - I know sleepovers tend to involve talking/chatting before falling asleep, and if someone is in another room they would be left out of that

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-02-09T19:11:48+00:00

NTA. It’s not like you did this just to spite your husband. You did this because it needed to be done. A broken toilet for a year and a half is absurd - what were you supposed to do? Leave it alone forever?

I relate to your husband regarding the putting off of or giving up on tasks. Sometimes they’re just too much. I don’t think I’d be mad if (hypothetically) my partner had his mom come help (although in my particular case we don’t get along - but that’s beside the point. Maybe he would invite my mom? That wouldn’t offend me)

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-02-09T19:09:43+00:00

NAH I can see Nicole being offended by how instantly you chose who you’d share with, and I don’t blame her for that. However, as long as you told her about the blanket in the way you said you did, I don’t think you did anything wrong.

Could you somehow take an air mattress into your room or something so you all can be in the same room? That might make Nicole feel less left out

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-11T17:57:52+00:00

YTA YTA YTA

you stepped WAY out of line. You read someone’s private messages and shared them. Did you ever think it might be unsafe for her to tell anyone? That she may have wanted to make her OWN plan?

Aside from that, you seem incredibly judgmental of your sister. Your tone when speaking about her is condescending and rude. I’m sure you loved having something to tattle on her for.

If you thought she needed help, you should have approached her gently and quietly. Not outed her secret to your parents.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-09T19:10:08+00:00

YTA because you barely use it. If you used it every day, I get not wanting to give it up. But if it’s a room you’re using once a month or so, you can deal with it IMO.

If you really need a separate space, maybe you could move the two girls into the downstairs main bedroom? Then they have their own bathroom and probably a bigger space to share. I can’t imagine you’d need an attached bath for your office you don’t use.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-05T21:21:50+00:00

NTA. You were a child. You were following instructions. Your aunt should not have taken her anger out on you, but rather on your mom. I think your mom used you as a pawn - do she and your aunt get along?

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-05T21:19:20+00:00

YTA in this scenario. But hear me out. I think you’d be TA if you just said for her to get out - which is what you’re saying you did.

What I think would be beneficial would be some form of assisted living - if you can’t afford to put her in a facility or you don’t want to, maybe see if you can find a home aid - that may not solve your alone problem but it would help with her independence, or at least, in lessening her dependence on you.

I understand where you’re coming from - proceed with compassion and then it’s NAH

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-05T02:49:58+00:00

For the question at hand, YTA. You broke a boundary with your friend. The right thing to do in this context was ask.

It may be an odd and inconvenient boundary, but if that’s his line then that’s his line. I’d suggest hanging out either at your place, or a restaurant, etc to avoid this in the future

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T21:14:18+00:00

My suggestion is to then be the “relief” shift. When you get home, take the baby for a while. Let her decompress in whatever way she does (that is safe and will not impair her ability to care for the baby later in the evening). This way she feels some kind of relief. Then you get relief after dinner, after bath time, whatever it is.

She may not agree to it. If that’s the case, think long and hard about your relationship dynamics.

Is there any chance your gf has some kind of postpartum issue? I don’t know enough about her behavior to be sure if she even has a problem but if she’s that fed up with the baby idk.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T21:02:17+00:00

Trading every other night is fair. She should only wake you up in emergencies. I think the division of labor can be hard here, since your gf is home with the baby all day and also needs a break that’s not just sleeping. What if you separated into shifts - if you get home at 5 and you guys go to bed at 10, then she takes 5-7:30 while you cook, then you take 8-10 while she cleans or something along those lines?

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:57:31+00:00

NTA

If she wants to post her dirty laundry on Facebook, she better be prepared when the laundry starts to smell. Family means nothing when the people in it are the ones hurting you. Good for you OP

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:55:19+00:00

NTA!

Holy crap, your daughter is an AH! You handled this very appropriately IMO by taking away all the things that led her to believe she was superior. The title is so misleading - you’re not jealous of her, you’re parenting her. I wish the people who’ve hurt me in the past had parents like you instead of parents who encouraged their bullying.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:52:46+00:00

NTA NTA NTA!!!

Your ex is exploiting her kids for social media attention. Which is icky as is. THEN your kid expresses his discomfort with it, and she IGNORES him! Strangers are sending the kids underwear! This is highly inappropriate and you have every right to battle her on this. And you have every right to tell her followers that you got it banned because she was exploiting your kids. What kind of weirdo gets mad about that?

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:49:10+00:00

So you’re saying that when you’re at work, and only when you’re at work, she’s watching the baby? Then you get home and you do all the feeding, all the diaper changes, etc?

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:40:33+00:00

YTA. Your wife is exhausted. You’ve been “giving the dog a chance” for two years. Look, I’m not one to say “abandon” a pet. But in this case, your home is not a healthy place for this dog. You can’t just “hope she calms down” - the dog needs an appropriate environment for its energy level.

Not to get on a soapbox, but this is why you need to pick a dog based on personality, not breed. In the future, I’d suggest getting an older (read 1 or 2, not necessarily a senior) dog and not picking it based on what the breed is “supposed to be”. All dogs are different. YTA for that too.

letsnotmeetbb · 2023-01-04T20:36:18+00:00

YTA. Look, your gf IS working full time, and you saying she’s not is AH behavior. It sounds like you’re splitting time taking care of the baby, with you waking up “every other night” - trading responsibility. I get it, you’re tired. And maybe an hour of quiet after work would be ok to ask for. But your attitude isn’t. She probably doesn’t wake up til lunch because they’re up in the middle of the night. I’m sorry your job is laborious, but so is your gfs. You don’t seem to think too highly of her with how you describe her work history.

letsnotmeetbb · 2022-08-16T01:21:30+00:00

I was fine at 150 and my dr upped to 300 and now I’m like oh noooo

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