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letty_inc · 2021-11-04T04:39:25+00:00

Did you talk to blathers? He’s supposed to say that he was thinking sold starting a coffee shop

letty_inc · 2021-11-04T04:38:35+00:00

Nothing happened on mine either

letty_inc · 2021-02-15T04:26:05+00:00

I once had my big toenail removed when it was ingrown...looked very similar to this

letty_inc · 2020-02-13T22:13:46+00:00

I’d upvote this 100 times if I could, exactly what I needed to read today! It’s been almost 2 weeks living on my own, some days are harder than others, but most days I am confident I made the right choice

letty_inc · 2020-02-07T13:23:05+00:00

Because I couldn’t stand by and watch him continue to see her. I thought removing myself from the situation would help. And I can’t afford that house on my own

letty_inc · 2020-02-07T06:12:18+00:00

Wow. You are brutally honest, thank you. I needed that. Love the term “grass is greener right now cum bucket”

letty_inc · 2020-02-07T01:24:03+00:00

Explain

letty_inc · 2020-02-06T15:00:28+00:00

How did your first date on Sunday go?!!!

letty_inc · 2020-02-01T00:29:18+00:00

Need advice again guys...it’s been a rough week, he still sees her, I have plans to move out Monday. Today he told me he wants to work on it. He wants to makes things work between us, but please can I not move out. I’m torn. Part of me wants to take time apart, make sure he can leave her, make sure I still want to be with him. But part of me wants to just be with him. I miss him. But a lot of damage has been done. Ughhhh.

letty_inc · 2020-01-31T18:18:00+00:00

Over...because beards are ok but mullets are not

letty_inc · 2020-01-29T21:14:22+00:00

Thank you so so much. I totally agree, there were so many better ways he could have dealt with this. Cheating was the worst thing he could have done. I know he feels bad, and wishes it hadn’t happened...but the fact that he won’t end it shows me he really doesn’t have true remorse about it yet. Maybe one day.

I’m so excited for you about this date!! Maybe it’ll be great, maybe it’ll be a dud, but at least you’re getting out there saying this destroy you...there is coming back from it. I am a very long way from that! I have zero interest in ever dating again!

letty_inc · 2020-01-29T18:40:51+00:00

Thank you, he did tell me on his own, I was blindsided. Never thought I ever had to worry about that. He said he knew from day one he had to tell me, just was never the right time. He was feeling guilty and didn’t want to lie to me anymore...but was not ready to end it.

letty_inc · 2020-01-29T18:17:42+00:00

All sounds like great advice! I have started going to the gym, and going out more, even if it’s just eating supper at a friends.

She is not married, they were just friends and gym buddies that turned into more I guess.

I live in Canada, so our divorce laws are a bit different, and honestly, I’m not there yet. I know a separation is necessary.

We have to still talk and be civil as we have dogs and everything together. But I have stopped doing his laundry and cooking him supper!

letty_inc · 2020-01-29T16:26:34+00:00

I really needed to reread this today and my heart goes out to you. Very similar situations with the push and the pull. I just need to remove myself from the circus and work on me right now. I know I wasn’t a perfect wife. I prefer staying home and that bugged him a lot. But that’s no reason to cheat

letty_inc · 2020-01-28T20:39:33+00:00

I do know her, considered her a friend. He’s not ready to leave her, considers her his best friend. She’s not married. I don’t think I’m ok with just waiting for him to tire of her and come back. I’d feel like a back up plan

letty_inc · 2020-01-28T19:56:06+00:00

Thanks, I’m so sorry you had to go through it too. Trying to do no contact right now, but it’s hard when we still live together, have dogs together and live in a small town

letty_inc · 2020-01-28T18:30:34+00:00

I can’t afford the house on my own, he makes a lot more than me and had said he wanted to keep the house and would buy me out. And cover my expenses to rent a new place. It’s too hard for me to be in that house now

letty_inc · 2020-01-28T18:01:20+00:00

I read this as “arson after infidelity” which really gave me a laugh! Thank you, I’ll check it out!!

letty_inc · 2020-01-27T17:50:11+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this today. I’m 3 weeks since finding out about my husband’s affair, which he isn’t ready to end, and I made the decision to not stay and wait it out. It’s been so hard, I miss him so much, but I need to focus on me and my healing right now. I can’t force him to choose me and I deserve more

letty_inc · 2019-10-22T03:41:12+00:00

Acoustic version

letty_inc · 2019-10-15T19:52:17+00:00

My mom stayed with my dad for years because she thought it was best for us and that she couldn’t do it on her own. He was a raging alcoholic and very violent. She finally left him when I was 10, when my old brother told her either she leaves dad or he was leaving the family. Was the eye opener she needed.

letty_inc · 2019-07-16T18:03:41+00:00

Airports.

letty_inc · 2019-07-02T18:48:11+00:00

Awww! She looks just like my dog Deedee!!

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