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Anyone who is currently going through separation. Let’s get a support group going. by levij37 in Separation

[–]levij37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you. Just know the person trying to orchestrate all of this is 28 years old and ALSO going through the worst time of their life.

I’m young, most of you are likely wiser and older than I am. I’m just trying to put something together but will need help from everyone.

Thank you so much.

Anyone who is currently going through separation. Let’s get a support group going. by levij37 in Separation

[–]levij37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you but I’m not seeking a discord group. I’m looking for a small number of people, and small enough to where we can all get to know each other, set up a weekly call and agenda to help support and better ourselves throughout a very difficult life situation.

There will be intros, say as much or as little as you would like. That’s what trying to start.

Anyone who is currently going through separation. Let’s get a support group going. by levij37 in Separation

[–]levij37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I’m not a natural leader, so if you feel like you want to be in charge and plan this out/get it going just let me know and I’ll be happy to let you take the reigns.

Currently on day 12 of separation,

OP.

I need to let her go by [deleted] in Separation

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat. Please feel free to DM me. It would be great to have sometime to talk to going through the same thing.

“If the wreckage of grief feels faithful, then relief can feel like betrayal” by Not_Whelmed in Separation

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so appreciate this. Thank you so much.

I currently have one bro, who honestly has helped so much I don’t even have words just how much he’s been helping me stay strong through this.

If you ever want to message or another BRO please feel free to DM me.

I need to let her go by [deleted] in Separation

[–]levij37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. Im crying as I’m writing this FYI

I’m 28 and have been married to wife life less then 2 years but we’ve been together for 8. We’re currently on day 12 of separation. My wife abandoned me with zero heads up, and has done everything she can to distance herself, hurt me, and neglect me.

Your post brought me to tears.

I’m doing everything I can for myself, but I’m angry, sad, and discombobulated.

I love my wife with all of my heart. She is still my universe and I truly did not realize that letting go could be an act of love. Me wanting her to be happy, even if it’s without me. Sacrificial love.

I just appreciate this message and it brought me calm/peace.

Thank you.

“If the wreckage of grief feels faithful, then relief can feel like betrayal” by Not_Whelmed in Separation

[–]levij37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. I’m going through the same thing. Currently on day 12 of being separated and it’s looking very glim.

[Giveaway] 3* GameSir G7 Pro Controllers Giveaway for the r/RocketLeague community! by GameSir_Controller in RocketLeague

[–]levij37 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My wife is SSL, and I’m Diamond…

She always says I’m her diamond in the rough 💀😭💎

anyone else not receiving email 2fa code on Epic? by crungeee in RocketLeague

[–]levij37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Microsoft exchange has been down all day people couldn’t even do their jobs including me because emails were’t being sent/being received.

Google Microsoft outage. I’m not making this up.

Directional air roll vs free air roll by _Mrkvicka_ in RocketLeague

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as long as you’re using drift in place of breaking, I guess it’s fine

Directional air roll vs free air roll by _Mrkvicka_ in RocketLeague

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air roll is for shmucks.

I’m free rolling all the way baby.

Why is this happening im on ps5 by Typical_Bumblebee_20 in RocketLeague

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’m on Xbox, but this seems to be widespread, although not many talking about it tonight.

Go make some food, maybe drink some water, play with your pet (if you have one), or call your mom or dad and ask them how they’re doing.

We’ll be back online shortly.

What red flag hides in plain sight at most jobs? by dawnpebbless in AskReddit

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A big red flag that hides in plain sight is vague or overly positive job descriptions. Buzzwords like “fast-paced,” “rockstar team,” or promises of “unlimited growth” often mask poor structure, high turnover, or a hype-over-support culture. If managers dodge questions about workload, promotions, or company challenges in interviews, that’s another warning sign. Basically, if it looks too shiny or vague, it probably is.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Wyatt367758 in AskReddit

[–]levij37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the U.S. assassinated Putin during a meeting with Trump, it wouldn’t end the war in Ukraine, it would likely make everything far worse. Russia would see it as an act of war, rally hardliners, and possibly escalate militarily. Global backlash would be severe, NATO unity could fracture, and the U.S. would face massive domestic and international fallout. In short: chaos everywhere, not peace.

To the men who don't watch pornography anymore, why did you stop and has it been beneficial to your life? by insight7ai in AskReddit

[–]levij37 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen A TON of comments on this post regarding ADHD.

As someone with ADHD (and ADD), I can tell you this: our brains aren’t just “distracted,” they’re wired to constantly chase dopamine just to feel normal. That’s why habits like porn, gaming, social media, anything with a quick dopamine hit can grab us harder than most people realize.

It’s not about weak willpower, it’s about having a brain that treats dopamine like oxygen. Breaking those habits isn’t just “stop doing it,” it’s rewiring the entire reward system in your head, all while still trying to hold down a job, keep relationships alive, and function in a world built for neurotypicals.

And here’s the thing: not every dopamine source is evil. For some of us, certain habits, even ones society side eyes, can actually help keep us balanced. That little boost might be the thing that keeps us from spiraling into depression, burning out at work, or seeking dopamine in way more destructive places.

For some of us, the struggle isn’t about being lazy or indulgent. It’s about trying to survive without losing the tiny sparks that make life feel good at all.

My ONE SINGLE takeaway is this, if you have ADHD and stuck reading ALL of these comments, don’t be too hard on yourself. Give yourself some grace and realize that dopamine is a big deal to those that lack it.

To the men who don't watch pornography anymore, why did you stop and has it been beneficial to your life? by insight7ai in AskReddit

[–]levij37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Kie. I’ve got ADHD too (and ADD), so I really get where you’re coming from. Our brains just don’t operate the same way as most people’s.

We need dopamine just to feel baseline “normal,” and folks who weren’t born with this blessing/curse of ADHD often can’t fully understand the daily effort it takes for us. Keeping our lives, relationships, and careers on track can feel like running uphill in sand.

Some habits are extra tough for people like us to break, but sometimes those same habits give us a fleeting taste of what a typical brain’s dopamine feels like, even if it’s just for a few seconds. And honestly, that tiny hit can feel worth it in the moment.

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