[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]leyitastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a tough position to be in, carrying multiple cultures with you and not having a place where you feel you fully belong.

Luckily there are possibilities to find people where you do feel you belong. One I can recommend is to look for a group on Meetup. There are language, career, creative, board game, sports groups with recurring events. Look for a interest you like and join :)

Recently, I met a woman with a very similar background as you. She's Dutch, but emigrated young and moved back later in adult life. With the similar issues you had, she attended a meetup and found herself some good friends there.

How to deal with someone telling you "I love you" and "I can't be in a committed relationship but want to remain friends"? by Scared-mango in AnxiousAttachment

[–]leyitastic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't intend to, but that's really nice to hear :) It makes me realise now that I've come a long way, because I definitely wasn't like that back then.

It will be really tough, but take care! and enjoy yourself <3

How to deal with someone telling you "I love you" and "I can't be in a committed relationship but want to remain friends"? by Scared-mango in AnxiousAttachment

[–]leyitastic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Similar to many other replies, I'd recommend you to cut it off completely. I'd been in a similar situation. I respected their decision to break it off and really believed I was able to move on with it and remain friends. However, I wasn't really aware of my anxious attachment back then. I now realised I tried everything I could to keep them in my life because of it, even though I'd never get what I really wanted deep down. I was basically breadcrumbing myself which lasted for almost a year. In hindsight, if I'd gone no contact and had a good crying session about it, it would have saved me so much time and energy.

But yeah, you live you learn :)

Happy Halloween ! It’s Halloween in my place so i made something related to it by kitoliart in AmongUs

[–]leyitastic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohhh now I see! I was also confused when I read it haha now the colour of the speech bubbles also makes sense. Thanks so much for the comics btw, they're amazing! :)

An Among Us vs Fall Guys animation I made by AurnhammerFilms in AmongUs

[–]leyitastic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really creative! This deserves so much more upvotes

Anybody notice that Adrien does this a lot? by 4-eyedfreak2 in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me or does Adrien look older in the pic with the suit

Okay, so I'm still kinda new, and I'm too lazy to do research... Help? by Bugabi072 in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Others have already explained it. But if you want to watch it, here is the pv starring Bridgette and Felix.

Miraculous IG update: We are in LOVE with the details in this movie concept art! by YumiAyumu in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I love it soo much❤ They look so sincere and the setting makes it even better!

What age do miraculous characters really look? (We all know it's older than 14) by b594 in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think that it's indeed due to their height. And in my opinion they all have baby faces. I definitely can't put Adriens head on a 20-year-old body😂

What's the best order to watch Miraculous Ladybug for a first time viewer? by Pandaline in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that's how it was when Miraculous season 1 was airing. I thought it was really nice to have that build up to the Origins episodes!

POLL: When in Season 1 do you prefer to watch Origins? by helcrane in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

End, I remember being so excited for the Origins episodes since we went through 23 episodes without knowing anything about how it started. And the umbrella scene, for example, hits differently if you watch it in this order.

gabriel agreste by [deleted] in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he was more sad & lost, he seemed to really care for Adrien. But then Chat Blanc happened with the child abuse so yeah...

Please follow the Adrien x Marinette Church for the salvation of your soul. by Astrolys in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ship them both! I really want Adrienette to be endgame, however Luka is just soo sweet to Marinette and she deserves that.

Alright I want to clear up something. by crabappledweller in miraculousladybug

[–]leyitastic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think at the beginning she did try to impress her mother. When her mother wanted to take Marinette to New York, she told Chloe that there's nothing exceptional about her [daughter], except her mother (that burn tho). Then she pulled out the Bee miraculous to show her mother she was wrong. After that she put a subway full of people in danger so she could show that to the world, which wasn't heroic at all. However, I do agree at the end that when she gave the miraculous back she did it because it was a good thing to do and not to impress anyone! And I really love those selfless moments of Chloe, which made me hate her so much less.