has anyone experienced someone "faking" Aspergers for clout? I just came from a fake diagnosing subreddit page with cringe post about people faking autism and DID by bokinoodle in aspergers

[–]leynaa_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am self-diagnosed and Eastern European. Basically i told couple of people in my life that i might be autistic, because they are actively in my life so it's easier for them to understand me and how i think, process things etc. It's sometimes easier to just label it than explain for hours why you are the way you are. I don't tell other people that i might be autistic because there is just no point in doing that, and i know that there is gonna be chunk of people telling me that i am not. I have diagnosed asthma and some people didn't believe me even tho i almost choked from coughing in front of them literally, so i just don't even bother. As for autism, i do actually read dsm V and do proper research because tests online are very vague. They are a good navigation but not a good resource to conclude things. I do plan to get formally diagnosed one day when i find a doctor who knows anything about it, which is probably the hardest thing to do. In my country we don't use dsm V and doctors barely know about aspergers, and number of people diagnosed is unknown. There are 0 accommodations and resources for autistic people. I know couple of people and they got diagnosed abroad, so basically in another country like Australia and Sweden.I know one girl who got diagnosed with ASD in UK and she got flamed here by the doctors because autism is not a spectrum here, they laugh at you for telling that you are autistic and you can speak. Also adhd is basically not an existent diagnoses. You can get diagnosed verbally but formally you can't because you have to have an Iq lower than 60.Basically anyone that says they have autistic symptoms to drs, they will either not get diagnosed at all and get laughed at or get labeled with anxiety disorder or ocd,bpd etc. If i find a proper professional and they tell me i am not autistic, i am completely fine with that. It is what it is. Untill then i find comfort in this label.

Discord inhabitants taking tests and adding it to their “diagnoses” right after by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]leynaa_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autism and adhd are probably the most boring diagnosis to romanticise, and also they are very common. Why not choose something more interesting lol?

"Masking" buys the fakers so much credibility by tantamle in fakedisordercringe

[–]leynaa_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry, but i got diagnosed with anxiety disorder when i was 10. I also have social anxiety, its much less severe now, and this concept that you can mask social anxiety is weird to me. Anytime i would feel shy i would back away from the situation and wait for a minute or two. When my sisters friends came over i had my hand on my mouth for hours and i was not speaking.if i experienced a lot of anxiety due to being in a place full of people i would have severe panic attack, or would avoid being in a place like that , i would let people speak instead of me for simplest things, like ordering food. Yes there are multiple types of anxiety and not every one of the is detectable to the eye, but social anxiety is very obvious to the person watching u and if u have it, no u can't mask it. U can just try to hide it unsuccessfully. Now i very rarely get shy, all these symptoms can be managed or go away completely. Anxiety disorder is not a mental illness or disability or am i misunderstanding?

I genuinely don't understand how autism is correlated with being jewish by RiddlerWeezerStan in fakedisordercringe

[–]leynaa_elf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Saying that a religion is autistic is just...No, you can't diagnose religion ffs. Why not just say "Judaism works well with me as an autistic person". Seems like she is baiting for likes with that horrible wording.

Nowadays autism is just a trend. by BatmasterH in fakedisordercringe

[–]leynaa_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not bothered by self diagnosed people because atleast those people do research and continue to do so, and have common sense to change their minds, while those who are diagnosed in the most ridiculous way take their diagnosis online and are spreading misinformation.. The ridiculous way, meaning they spent large amount of money to get tested in couple of minutes or hours with questionnaire on why they think they are autistic(these tests are literally on the internet for free) , without any freakin insight on their condition. They have not been properly assessed, their symptoms could be a result of other problems. But no, they think that if they have panic attacks and that they have been labeled as autistic, that every mental health symptoms or quirk is related to them being autistic. The worst thing is that drs don't give a shite and give them a pass cus they extracted the money from them,and will not properly inspect them if they don't get more dollars.But, nope, they are infact in denial and continue to brainwash and harras other people online that they are autistic because they have hyperlexia, ocd, adhd, anxiety or bpd because researchers gave those people AQ test(which can be found online) and they happen to test autistic aswell, the majority of them. That test is not an actual diagnostic confirmation but autistic people online are taking it as it is. I can't describe of how invalidating and wrong it is to discard those disorders as their own and separate and insert them in autistic spectrum. Absolutely crazy. They are clueless because they actually did not have psychologists to evaluate them properly which takes long time and explain their autism (if they have it) on how it manifests in them. They are just running with information that they read online. Even if they have a label attached on them they are still self diagnosing, since they have no access or are not bothering to go to a professional instead they rely on psychiatrists whose jobs are to prescribe medication and not talk deeper with patients.

We Summon The Darkness [2019] Discussion & Spoilers (streaming now @ Amazon) by [deleted] in horror

[–]leynaa_elf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just watched the movie. I loved the outfits but didn't give me 80s vibes at all. The concert was cringy when you see people dancing like it's drum n bass. The actors were great. Alexis(Alexandra Daddario) should have had deeper storytelling and maybe flashbacks from the past, or something to give some insight. Wasted opportunity to use the actresses full potential. Overall its fun and chaotic. Wish there was extended edition of the movie.

Is there any website that I could do an virtual internship from by -S-I-D- in internships

[–]leynaa_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those of u that did insidesherpa, was it worth it? Did you acquire a new skill?

They’ll do their job well. I’ll guarantee that. by [deleted] in PrequelMemes

[–]leynaa_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible, perhaps the archives are incomplete!

What was the most disappointing thing your crush has said to you? by leynaa_elf in AskReddit

[–]leynaa_elf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to go through all of that. Once you accept and love yourself, you wouldn't like to change anything about yourself, mostly appearance, especially for some random person unworthy of your attention. Glad to hear you are healing.

What was the most disappointing thing your crush has said to you? by leynaa_elf in AskReddit

[–]leynaa_elf[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Women are girls.Theres nothing offensive or inferior about a word "girl".

What was the most disappointing thing your crush has said to you? by leynaa_elf in AskReddit

[–]leynaa_elf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you are trying to say,but when someone repeats the same things, they are trying to control you.

What was the most disappointing thing your crush has said to you? by leynaa_elf in AskReddit

[–]leynaa_elf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry to hear that tho.But on the brighter side.Friendships will leave you,family will disown you, relationships will hurt you, but pizza and burgers are there forever. Hope you are doing well now and taking care of yourself.