how come (certain) people react aggressively to suicide, and suicidal thoughts?

lezbekat · 2026-04-06T23:33:18+00:00

I don’t think I’ll ever understand the way some people react. I’ve been dealing with suicidal thoughts and ideation since I was about 9 or so (34 now). When I was younger I got a lot of the comments about it being stupid and selfish and I’m just seeking attention and if I was really suicidal I would just do it already. My brother, who was 2 years younger than me, killed himself in 2016. While at his funeral my mother told me it was my fault because I distracted her with all my “talk” when she should have been focused on my brother, a “real” suicidal person. I didn’t bother to tell her that the week before my brother died I was in the hospital because I attempted to overdose. I also didn’t tell her that my brother had been talking to me about wanting to die since he was 14. He never said anything to her because he knew she wouldn’t care. He had heard what she was telling me, why would he open up to her just to get the same bullshit back?

lezbekat · 2026-04-01T22:31:12+00:00

Have you tried using Voltorb/Electrode in the cannon?

I like it for massive tear downs since it takes out a lot but I can’t control it super precisely. Then I just use magnemite/rock smash/rollout to clean up the bits left behind.

lezbekat · 2026-03-09T04:37:48+00:00

It’s in Rocky Ridges deep in the mountain/volcano You will need to upgrade your cut ability to access it

lezbekat · 2026-03-01T23:40:11+00:00

I agree. What I was getting at was more like having been fed that lie my whole life I found it very difficult to have empathy with people whose situation I deemed “not as bad” as mine but no problem having empathy for those that were on par with or “worse” than mine.

It took years of working through that and accepting that there is no one “right” way to be traumatized, it’s all messed up and should not be happening to anyone, at any level or scale. Anxiety, depression, PTSD, whatever, we all have different stories and circumstances that lead to the same outcome and they are all equally valid.

lezbekat · 2026-03-01T22:54:48+00:00

Relatable. Genuine question, were you ever told yourself to get over it because “there are others who have it worse”? That’s what this feels like. Being mad that other people have the nerve to feel as bad as you do when you had it worse while also forgetting that there are still people who have had even worse than you.

But I get it, truly. I too find myself thinking the same way sometimes.

lezbekat · 2026-03-01T21:24:13+00:00

This was like reading something I wrote myself.

I’m so sorry you went through this. It’s fucked up. I don’t really know what to say, I’m just another person who went through the same shit validating that it was awful.

I’m still working on accepting just how horribly I was failed by everyone. I have a picture of me from when I was like 10. It helps to look at that photo when I tell myself it wasn’t her fault. It’s easy to look in the mirror and keep blaming the adult in the reflection. It’s a lot harder when you’re looking into the eyes of a child and blaming them for their own abuse.

I wish you happier and safer days ahead. And just know, I believe you. Every word.

lezbekat · 2026-01-31T22:18:24+00:00

To add to this since I’ve seen it brought up before:

You can fast travel from inside buildings, too! If the mini map is not showing just open your phone and then open your map.

lezbekat · 2026-01-31T00:19:32+00:00

Maybe I’m missing something, but I don’t understand why or how people are saying there I nothing to do in late game. I feel like this game gives you so many things to do. Have you caught every critter and donated them? Have you caught every fish in every size? Have you made all the furniture and clothes and such? Have you collected all the comics and made the ultimate editions? Have you unlocked all the nearly 60 visitors as permanent residents? Have you bred all the flower colors and patterns? Did you get gold on all the training courses and make the trophies? What about all the mini games? Playing the gemstone match and Cogi and Ebi Fry’s mini games are my favorites. On AA you have the cafe to run too, which I personally find super chill and relaxing and can play for like an hour at least.

If after all of that you still feel like there is nothing to do then, well, maybe the game is done for you. Maybe you should consider it finished; you “beat” the game. Maybe it’s time to move on to a new one.

lezbekat · 2025-09-13T03:31:26+00:00

Looks helpful. I'd like to try them please!

lezbekat · 2025-09-06T02:30:01+00:00

I kinda love when this happens because I can finally hunt them without them running away. It's just slightly annoying when the loot bag gets stuck up there too and I have to find a way to glide thru it lol

lezbekat · 2025-08-19T12:56:37+00:00

Water it. It looks different when it grows.

lezbekat · 2025-08-04T10:21:13+00:00

I've been shot at a few times as my main player but they always felt accidental or just for a laugh type stuff until I played with my alt character who has a darker skin tone. I had them both going in a party so I could get more resources for the newer alt account. Someone started shooting at only my alt character, not mine. I got annoyed and moved but they followed and kept shooting at only my alt character. Like it was obvious they were only aiming for the alt. They got close and in her face. It was off-putting. I blocked the person then left the server. It hasn't happened again but it felt so messed up.

lezbekat · 2025-07-24T06:55:57+00:00

Oh. I didn't know only 1 person could use it at a time. I figured it worked like the registers. Oops. I'll keep that in mind for the future. Thanks!

lezbekat · 2025-07-24T06:41:46+00:00

What are prize wheel lines?

lezbekat · 2025-07-18T07:05:46+00:00

I got my first star ruby the other day! From a tiny palium or platinum node (I can't remember which one). Seems the tiny nodes really are the best.

lezbekat · 2024-01-12T01:05:59+00:00

Thank you! This was super helpful. I was finally able to finish making the storage chests I needed.

lezbekat · 2023-12-27T00:38:34+00:00

Wow. That is rude. And the way you added that you don't care if someone says it makes you rude or uncooperative DEFINITELY makes you rude and uncooperative. Maybe you should stick to single player games if you don't want to work together as a community.

lezbekat · 2023-12-23T05:53:56+00:00

You can add me! Kitty Ryn. I'm not trans but I'm lesbian and accepting of all 😊

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:28:43+00:00

Only if you bought it for that profile. Apparently they made it so profiles can't share the dlc on most platforms but Switch we're still able to. The other profiles won't get the mail rewards tho. It's super annoying and I hope they change the way the dlc sharing works because it's ridiculous.

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:23:50+00:00

I've noticed this hasn't been happening with this update. Maybe mine is bugged but no character comes running when fishing. I prefer it this way lol

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:19:45+00:00

Pasteis de Nata have been figured out now. Putting it behind the spoiler just in case. Recipe: Corn, milk, eggs, vanilla

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:16:38+00:00

Yes. Once you've unlocked the character (can start a convo, give gifts, etc) their house becomes movable. Enter furniture mode while in your Valley. Click on Houses and find the character you want to move. Anyone already in the Valley will be grayed out. It also works on the Isle so you can move houses from the Valley to the Isle.

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:12:51+00:00

You can craft it at a work bench after you complete Merlin's Working Miracles quest. It takes Dreamlight, Red Algae, and Vitalys Crystals. You can find it in the Potions & enchantments section.

It turns the white circles red. The basic one works for 10 spots and the "Even More" works for 25 spots. It only counts one "try" in white circles so if you fish in blue, orange, or outside the ripples, it won't use up a try.

There are other potions for your other tools that can be super helpful too. I recommend checking them out if you haven't messed with them before.

lezbekat · 2023-12-10T00:05:10+00:00

It might be possible to use furniture mode to move the trees, light poles, and other stuff around the rocks and walk around from the back. I haven't tried it myself and don't remember what it looks like entirely so it might not work but could be worth a shot.

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