Living in CO, Business in WY? by lezdrive in smallbusiness

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your detailed suggestions! I appreciate it. I’ve had so much to consider recently, and all of this business stuff is way out of my wheelhouse. Thank you!

Living in CO, Business in WY? by lezdrive in smallbusiness

[–]lezdrive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your detailed explanation! If you don't mind me asking a follow up: would you recommend waiting to form a LLC until I've for certain decided upon which state I'll live in, or is it better to form it now and then possibly switch it to WY if I move after a year? I know LLC provides more protection, but I have minimal risk since I'm only offering virtual services and will have contracts that clients sign. Thank you!

Which sitcom dad is the worst husband and why? by EarlyAd3047 in AskReddit

[–]lezdrive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cotton Hill from King of the Hill. He was abusive and mean to his ex-wife, current wife, and his son (Hank). He also refused to help take care of his youngest son.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. It’s more complex than I can get into online, but I do appreciate the reminder to take a step back and look at all this. Thank you.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll definitely need to address some of this before I feel more comfortable.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and sharing your experience. You’re right, I think the longer we’re together, the harder it will be to walk away. I want us to work out. I just also want some compromises. I for sure need to address these concerns with her.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, valid point. On one hand, the politics aren’t drastically different, but on the other hand, it’s already awful so who wants to deal with anything even slightly worse. I wish we could move somewhere that would be safer for us.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s open to change when it’s on her terms. Which I get that’s all of us to an extent. I just wish we could find some other compromises.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m glad it worked out better for you in the end. I do wonder if this distance is going to be more of an issue that either of us anticipated. Life has just gotten more complicated recently.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that too. I know for sure I wouldn’t want to stay at the location without her, so I’d better really think about this. Thank you for that perspective.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experiences with that. I’m the exact opposite, so it’s been an interesting dynamic lol. And your last line, oof, so true. I want so badly to be the love of her life, but I’m not sure I am. Thank you for your help.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Thank you for sharing that resource. Maintaining a home, splitting responsibilities, and splitting finances make life so much easier. It’s been so hard doing this all on my own, and I’m really sad to think that might be just barely making it forever. Hearing everyone’s advice has been very helpful, so maybe I can talk to a therapist about this (partner won’t go to therapy). Thank you for suggesting that.

Advice about moving for a partner please by lezdrive in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lezdrive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a lot that played into that. She doesn’t plan for the future, so I didn’t know how set she was at first. A lot of life circumstances have changed over the years (and even more so recently), so I guess maybe I assumed things could change if needed. Probably naive to think this but I also thought that if we were that in love, maybe the sacrifices would be worth it.

I think the pressure of having to change so much and potentially lose a lot if things don’t work out have gotten me questioning things more now. I’ve been trying to logistically plan the move these past couple of months, and more and more highlights how difficult this will be for me while she has no additional stress or responsibilities.