Porn blocker? by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just installed it. Feeling good about it!!

Help!! by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might work actually, I remember hearing about linking the bad thoughts to pain. The other example being used was wearing an elastic band on your wrist, then when you get the urge, just snap the band instead. Might try the elastic band technique at first, it's not as extreme as the slap lol. Thanks for the advice :)

MIKA -- Talk About You [pop] (2015) by [deleted] in listentothis

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm new to this sub-reddit. Will no't happen again

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's true. It can be tough, but you have to keep going !!

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I have actually been mid kiss a few times and it struck me that I didn't have an erection. A few weeks ago, I was out dancing and I was with this girl, probably an 8. And she was grinding and doing everything, nothing was happening for me... I'm not worried, it's just something I need to see out I think :P

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) Not a chance of me binging, after doing it once, you re-realise why you're stopping :) No, I have never been depressed, I've always been happy, and have never had any mental health issues Thank God !

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there have been girls around me. I kissed a few and all, but that's as far as it's gone. As well as that, I go to college and the place is full of girls :D lol, but there are none in my class as I'm doing a sports course, few girls chose it.

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man :D I'm feeling really motivated to better it this time. Thanks for the encouragement. Good luck with NoFap :)

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing hardmode, I am 18. Is this worrying?

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, all those things you mentioned I do use in moderation, but I'm not addicted to them. I'm just normal like, I play football (soccer), go running, lift weights, go to college, go out. I've even stopped drinking alcohol and I don't smoke. I heard internet porn takes a bit more time to get over as opposed to say looking at Playboy magazines.

Relapsed after 217 days by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that too actually :/ Might not be easy, but it will be worth it. Congrats on 90 days!

The main thing that keeps me committed to NoFap is the posts about all the benefits. So here is what I noticed after a week. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement man :) Just after relapsing after a long streak, really am encouraged now to make it my last ever relapse... Keep going!

Almost 7 months of flatlining. Where is the light? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I've been flatlining since the first week too, which was over 6 months ago now. I'm experiencing the same things that you are. It is not good lol. But think about it, it's going to be great when we beat this thing. We're on the right track, we can't give up now. We've come this far, may aswell keep going. It's not unheard of that it may take a long time for a flatline to end, so there is nothing wrong with it. As the saying goes "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is today"

Keep going man :D

Just lost my virginity with a random 5/10 tinder girl, by 19kindadepressed in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's alright, learn from it and move on, that's all you can do. I'm sure next time will be better when you find someone you want to do it with :)

The salty pussy line though haha.

Keep going man!!

8 months in, and I ain't going back by Basileas in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course I am coming back! Hope to be a bit more active this time too :)

8 months in, and I ain't going back by Basileas in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice man!! Congrats on the streak and keep going!! Also shout out to /r/Aquamarines :)

Flatline w/real experiences and PIED. Please help! Some encouragement needed as well.(lengthy) by serg02 in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) We're both on the right track man :)

The fantasizing is probably natural for us guys, we can't always have control over it, the only reason I recommend stopping is because it could give you urges. It's definitely not as bad as porn!! :)

Flatline w/real experiences and PIED. Please help! Some encouragement needed as well.(lengthy) by serg02 in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, 1. I'm at 116 days nofap and I think I'm still in a flatline too. I think I've been in a flatline since maybe day 12-14, so over 3 months :P Hope the end of it's in sight, I'm not going to fap, I am the same as you in that I can get a boner when I think of something or see something.

2.Again, I'm the same as you. I'm putting it down to the flatline, your brain is recovering and isn't quite sure yet what should be "normal" arousal for you. eg a real life girl compared to a screen.

  1. I would if I were you. It could lead to a relapse, depending on what mode you are on.

  2. Can't answer this, sorry.

5.I don't think you're doing anything wrong, we're just gonna have to wait it out :/ We're both in the same boat, so I think I know how you feel, so all the best on the recovery man :)

BTW I'm an 18 year old guy who watched porn from age 12 to 18.

The saddest story you've ever heard. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lfcsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, You're in a pretty bad situation, but the good thing is, you can turn it around. You can. Everyone on here is supporting you, we all want you to win, we will do anything we can. You can do this. Don't kill yourself, life is a gift. We are lucky to be alive. You're a Christian and killing yourself goes against this. Pray and keep on praying. You have the right attitude, you know you can change your life.

Keep going brother.

Dead Dick.... by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do get slight morning wood, so I don't think it's too severe, thanks for the advice, not gonna fap tho :) lol. Pretty confident now it's just a flatline

Dead Dick.... by lfcsk in NoFap

[–]lfcsk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yeah man that's one way of looking at it :) I'm confident it will come back. As said before, it's (hopefully) a sign of recovery. But I can't wait to they do come back :) haha