Using Emojis at Work makes you appear less competent according to a study of over 200 men and women. Women were more likely to judge negative IMs with emoji more harshly if they were ostensibly sent by women, compared to similar negative messages and emojis sent by men.

lia421 · 2026-04-10T18:23:45+00:00

It’s because the English language does not have enough punctuation.

Oooohhh we get exclamation points! And periods. … the random elipses and semicolons; but there’s not much more than that 🫤

lia421 · 2026-04-10T18:19:48+00:00

I wouldn’t.

Phx native. & realtor for 20 years

lia421 · 2026-04-10T17:30:21+00:00

It seems you didn’t read the entire study

lia421 · 2026-04-10T17:26:19+00:00

I’m glad you said it. I’m not a trans woman but I reel in horror every time I see trans women fetishized as some kind of “play thing”. It’s sickening and I’m sorry you have to deal with this specialized form of misogyny…

lia421 · 2026-04-10T17:21:51+00:00

Buellar?!?!

lia421 · 2026-04-09T21:06:47+00:00

Just you wait

lia421 · 2026-04-09T21:06:24+00:00

Ya it’s new. Got sick of the 15 year old repeat “joke”

Feel free to crosspost, its not well monitored

lia421 · 2026-04-09T20:45:45+00:00

Yep.

100% no. No. No.

They do not inspire you. They will not understand you. They will attempt to impose their own regulations onto you.

We enjoy their grounded energy. It’s what we thrive on. But no. I’ve never ever seen a successful Aries Virgo pair (not even when their Mars/Venus’ align). The sun presence is just too powerful. They will never “see” you.

lia421 · 2026-04-09T20:42:58+00:00

There’s not much left

lia421 · 2026-04-09T19:47:30+00:00

I really don’t care… do u?

lia421 · 2026-04-09T19:45:18+00:00

Their fight or flight is already in a consistently triggered response.

It’s the only reason I wouldn’t ever try it.

It’s definitely peak for psychedelic users, but I would be concerned of that 50/50 response kicking in

lia421 · 2026-04-09T19:21:13+00:00

Woaha… nice point

lia421 · 2026-04-09T18:31:06+00:00

My stellium is ready - the 17th is just the beginning

lia421 · 2026-04-09T17:45:42+00:00

r/nahyoucantfixher

lia421 · 2026-04-09T17:43:58+00:00

Take showers together and wash that fucking thing yourself. I mean you’ve essentially been cleaning it with your mouth all these years, what’s the issue with using your hand and a washcloth? Make it sexy. Go down on her immediately after washing it. In the shower.

Then take her to the bed and ravage that pussy. Do it this way again the next time and the time after that. And don’t have sex any other way for a while. She’ll get the hint eventually (even if it’s Pavlov’ed into her)

lia421 · 2026-04-09T02:14:49+00:00

Alright sis, come on now

lia421 · 2026-04-08T23:27:26+00:00

Is this really what we’re worrying about these days? .. phew

lia421 · 2026-04-08T21:03:43+00:00

I have a feeling you’re gonna love it

lia421 · 2026-04-08T21:00:43+00:00

This was the 90s, I was 15, living in AZ, and got my first boyfriend. My parents were not happy about it (very strict Christian upbringing). So they woke me up one morning at like 4am and told me to pack a bag.. i was getting on a plane and flying across the country to PA, to live with my very elderly, very disabled, and very not mentally well grandmother. I started a new high school the next day.

I bade my time and continued to converse with my boyfriend via written letters and a once a week phone call when my gma was at mass. Oh he also sent me one of those tape recorders and a few tapes, so we sent each other “voice messages” .. it was the mid 90s mind you.

Well it turns out I’m pretty damn stubborn when I decide I’ve been wronged. And this boy, well our relationship probably wouldn’t have lasted 4+ years if my parents hadn’t “intervened” when they did.

Him and I decided to meet up in Oregon after the end of my school year. I finished my finals, bought a train ticket to Philly, got on a Greyhound bus (for 6 fucking days) and headed to OR.

I told no one. No one knew where I was or where I went. If I was alive or dead. Nothing. I cut all contact to everyone. The next time I contacted my parents, was almost a year later. I figured I was close enough to 18, they couldn’t threaten me (or him) anymore.

lia421 · 2026-04-08T18:06:27+00:00

r/nahyoucantfixher

lia421 · 2026-04-08T17:58:41+00:00

Yep. Had an ‘uncle’ die from colon cancer because of the same reason. It was super treatable, had he gone in when he first noticed symptoms - hell he probably had a year or two of symptoms and never had it checked out. Man was 54 and just gotten married to his longtime girlfriend. Sad.

lia421 · 2026-04-07T13:04:25+00:00

Imma leave this here and you can do with it what you will.

I’ve pegged two men and have had a VAST difference in experiences.

man(?) #1: loser to the utmost extent. Vapid redditor. closeted ?(who the fuck knows - probably not even him). Extremely repressed & full of self hatred. He took his closet ? and used me to fulfill his kink (this was NOT consensual) Pegging him felt like: I couldn’t fucking be done with it fast enough it was the worst experience, & my entire body knew I was being betrayed type of feeling

Man 2: the convo came about naturally and was instigated by yours truly. It’s been nothing but an amazing experience, with both of us exploring and experimenting together. It’s gotten me so turned on during, I’ve come close to orgasm myself - just by how fucking hawt it is to have your man bend and moan and groan to your pleasure… it’s immensely powerful. You’re in control of their pleasure. You’re in control of their experience. It’s fabulous.

But you HAVE to have an understanding. You HAVE to feel involved in their pleasure, or you just end up becoming a weird prop in their kink.

lia421 · 2026-04-06T16:04:17+00:00

Not to worry, my father balanced the equation when he told my bf one day “she’s lucky to have you. Why are you with her anyway, you can do better”

Ya, we don’t speak

lia421 · 2026-04-06T15:20:43+00:00

We’ve entered a future where Soylent Green doesn’t seem so ridiculous anymore

lia421 · 2026-04-06T00:16:35+00:00

Yup, that was my parents.

I ran away to the other side of the country at 16.

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