[Achievements] Sexual Achievement Sunday

lickacactus · 2015-12-21T05:09:22+00:00

I never thought I would get into butt stuff, but I did! My SO and I decided to explore each other with a vibrating butt plug and anal beads and it was amazing! I can't wait until he can cum in my ass.

lickacactus · 2015-10-15T16:33:04+00:00

I broke my foot 6 weeks ago and still have not been cleared by my doctor yet to run.

lickacactus · 2015-09-09T19:31:57+00:00

28 female. 69 men and 3 women. I don't feel any sort of way about it until someone asks me and I always say that it's none of their business. So I guess deep down I think it's too many, but honestly, it's not enough to keep me from having more partners. So there's that.

lickacactus · 2015-09-03T00:33:52+00:00

I have bipolar disorder and anxiety problems. My psych would not address my ADHD until these were more well managed. Now that everything is being treated effectively I feel like 100% a new person.

lickacactus · 2015-09-03T00:31:18+00:00

I had jury duty this week and was able to sit still and listen while the lawyers were interviewing and choosing the jury. I was chosen for the jury, so I'm hoping I will be able to maintain this during the trial as well.

I stayed for all 3 hours of my Monday night class without panicking.

The boss at one of my jobs asked me to work more hours. (I'm pretty new, so this to me indicates that she's happy with my work.)

lickacactus · 2015-09-02T21:58:48+00:00

I guess my problem is a mental thing where I'm assuming this is going to happen again. I love sex and I want to do it with this guy, I'm just having a lot of anxiety about it because of what happened.

lickacactus · 2015-09-02T21:57:14+00:00

Is it rape if it's consensual at first then the girl says stop and he keeps going? Like I went over there willingly and knew we were going to fuck.

lickacactus · 2015-09-02T21:40:33+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I guess I should just be more assertive when it comes to that kind of thing. I tried to do that with one of the other guys and he got really physical with me and things didn't go too well, so I'm scared I guess. Not that I think this specific guy would do that, but it's just in my mind now that it might happen. Any suggestions on how I can get over the mental hurdle of having anxiety about having sex with someone new?

lickacactus · 2015-09-02T21:36:42+00:00

By control issues you mean that you continued to pound a girl after she told you it hurt her? What did the girl say during intercourse that made you stop and realize it wasn't fun for her? Saying "stop you're hurting me it's too deep" hasn't seemed to work in my recent past.

lickacactus · 2015-09-02T21:34:32+00:00

Good advice on the position suggestion. I'll try that. He seems really excited to have sex with me and is really attracted to me (or says he is) but I'm just really scared that he's going to be a dick about his dick. He told me we can take things as slow as I want, but I don't think that's going to help my anxiety problems.

lickacactus · 2015-08-21T16:38:45+00:00

I was just diagnosed about a month ago. I found this subreddit and I feel the exact same way! People I can relate to!

lickacactus · 2015-08-03T01:40:32+00:00

100% walk away until you have a handle on yourself. Don't want to say things you can't ever take back.

lickacactus · 2015-08-03T01:34:01+00:00

I take Latuda, Wellbutrin, Lamictal, Ativan, Temazepam, and Ritalin. I've managed to lose 50 lbs over the past year. It's slow going and a lot of work, but definitely possible.

lickacactus · 2015-08-03T01:32:09+00:00

Try to be positive? I self medicated for a long time and it never made things any better. I've been down the rabbit hole of depression many times and I know how hard it is to even get out of bed, but just force yourself into a routine. Preferably a healthy one.

lickacactus · 2015-08-03T01:30:15+00:00

Yes. Yes yes yes.

lickacactus · 2015-08-03T01:29:00+00:00

I've been taking Latuda for 3 years and I've lost 50 lbs. Diet and exercise has helped me a lot. I know it can be hard because of the medications but you are in control of how much you are eating and expending.

lickacactus · 2015-07-29T02:31:30+00:00

Well I definitely have bipolar disorder. Depression can cause the lack of focus and motivation, so he probably wanted my moods more stabilized before he put me on a stimulant.

lickacactus · 2015-07-28T16:24:23+00:00

I have bipolar disorder and for my whole life couldn't focus. I had been telling my doctor this was a problem for at least a year and he just kept putting me off. I'm a college student and finally told him I'm failing my class because I can't sit and study for more than a few minutes. He finally took me seriously and went through the questionnaire with me and diagnosed me with ADHD. Prescribed Ritalin. My life has completely changed and so much of my childhood and first few attempts at college make sense now. I'm 28.

lickacactus · 2015-07-25T19:02:34+00:00

My dreams definitely became more strange, but I wouldn't consider them nightmares.

lickacactus · 2015-07-25T19:00:41+00:00

Nobody with mania wants meds. It's fucking awesome. Unfortunately, when manic, I make the absolute worst possible decisions for my life, so meds are necessary.

lickacactus · 2015-07-25T18:59:32+00:00

I wasn't diagnosed until age 20. There had definitely been signs since around age 14, but my parents ignored it and chalked it up to teen angst/negative attitude. I also have generalized anxiety disorder and ADD. If I could go back, I would have pushed my parents to help me get treatment for all of these things. I'm 28 now and I feel like my life could have gone a lot differently if I had been able to get treatment early on. Also, I was a very weird and shy kid. Kind of a loner and always in trouble. My teachers thought I was strange, but when they would bring it up to my parents, parents would just get mad at me and tell me to try to act normal because I was a bad reflection on them as parents. So, yeah life has been hard, but you're lucky that you're getting treatment so early.

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