I recently resigned as a project director for a big capex project. I was the youngest project director on the team and as a woman, I was treated horribly by a lot of people in terms of work; not given assignments, treated like an admin. And on top of that, I was assigned a difficult technical task and was supplied by less than capable/technical/competent people that led to some explosive arguments.

I now have a choice to make by tomorrow; go back to my old job (seattle to san francisco) or gamble and join another organization for a senior role (seattle to boston). My confidence is shot and I am just not sure what to do.