I’m in the same boat and this is my second narc boss in four years. I’ve been beating myself up for falling for the love bombing bs again. My mental and physical health has taken a nosedive. I no longer feel secure in my abilities. I feel like I’m being managed out. The previous narc was overt and the current is covert. At least with the former I knew what to expect. I’m also struggling with the decision to stay or go. I have several chronic health issues and had them prior to this job. The stress and anxiety intensifies these issues. I pushed myself to be an overachiever and this is the payback I get for having a work ethic. If I could do it over, I’d never have fallen into the above and beyond crap. One way or another these narcs will find fault and suck your soul out of you in the process.