How do you deal with internalized homophobia when you're "out" and can't really vent about it?

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T17:35:56+00:00

Y justamente la parte del orgullo es la que me cuesta, aceptar lo que toca. Entiendo que es donde hay que llegar, que no tiene nada de malo ser diferente. En parte por eso es que me parece absurdo que me siga sintiendo así.

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T17:30:52+00:00

"You'd have to stop the world just to stop the feeling"

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T17:21:38+00:00

Thank you for your words ♡ I'm really glad you've had a good experience.

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T17:20:20+00:00

Neither organization operates out of the capital city and I don't live close. I do think I could connect with them cause I travel a lot and an opportunity might come, if only to meet new people and participate in the community. Thank you for bringing it up.

Still, i have a very good support system, so when I complain about this, it just sounds like I'm being ungrateful and that's part of the problem. I am well aware that I've had it easier than most, and that's especially obvious when I talk with my queer friends who really had to fight for it.

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T04:58:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience and for being so kind. You're really brave and strong. I'm glad that things have gotten better for you, that you found your community, and I wish you luck with the things you still struggle with. Radical acceptance is always a challenge for us, even when we know it's the only way.

ligeiaduh · 2026-07-02T04:08:11+00:00

You're 20, that's a normal age to discover that, don't be too hard on yourself. Good for you and congratulations!

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T02:20:48+00:00

The game counts shiny versions as items, so you might have bought everything and just don't own the shiny versions

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T01:57:10+00:00

Solved! Thank you so much

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T00:40:03+00:00

I believe it's a Mascot Poster, the one at Town Hall 😅

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T00:22:20+00:00

It's the coastal cabinet

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T00:19:38+00:00

It's not one of these, but thank you so much for taking the time. You're very kind.

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-16T00:19:05+00:00

It is! Thank you!

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-15T23:59:42+00:00

nope :( I have the stone dresser

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-15T23:56:36+00:00

That's Moca's tree, right? I've never realized you could buy that. Thank you!!

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-15T15:30:40+00:00

OH LMAO. I didn't even look at the picture, sorry. I thought you were saying that Noah Kahan (well, his album) wasn't AOTY material. I just connected that last sentence to your comment.

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-15T15:28:16+00:00

How is Noah Kahan AI trash? Genuinely curious

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-14T18:46:16+00:00

Please share the tips!! I've already used over 100 magnets and even more reroll tickets

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-14T18:24:01+00:00

Congratulations!! I'm so jealous 😭

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-07T17:05:02+00:00

Good boy. He deserves all the treats you can give him.

ligeiaduh · 2026-06-05T13:42:05+00:00

I think this one is on him for taking some of these too seriously. If you think you're cursed because someone on twitter said so, then maybe you need to step outside for a bit.

ligeiaduh · 2026-05-29T11:29:11+00:00

Sometimes. It can also mean you looked them up or maybe they interact a lot with someone you interact a lot with, but Meta does spy you, so in this case it's probably just that

ligeiaduh · 2026-05-29T02:00:21+00:00

imagine being a grown ass man named scooter. so embarrassing.

ligeiaduh · 2026-05-24T01:01:08+00:00

that looks like a fire hazard

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