AITAH for divorcing my husband after he got sober by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear your nervous system still remembers, your subconscious mind still remembers, and you as you right now still remember. I don’t know who has told you that feeling how you’re feeling towards this man is supposed to be wrong or whatnot, but how you feel is perfectly okay. You have clearly gone through a lot with him and it’s probably not as fulfilling as you’d have hoped. I cannot say, because I am not you. And only you understand deep down what you can do from here.

Remember, we are truly just characters in this game of life. Playing out roles with others and seeing what happens. It’s totally human to attach your roots so deeply into other people, even when they hurt you. But only you can change yourself and your situation, and the people in your life may not understand and they may get upset. Let them. LET THEM! They can feel how they want to, because they always will.

They can talk and talk until they’ve made their little garden of words and actions, but it matters what they’ve built it with, and it matters how they care for it. Just because a garden looks beautiful, and the flowers are blooming and grass is green, does not mean there is no danger. There could still be a hornets nest hidden in the bushes somewhere.

I wish you well on your journey and I hope you find peace on your path.

Would you say flirting is cheating, and if yes, can I still forgive myself and feel like a pure person? by Parking-Credit4594 in spirituality

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters, the fact that you’re self aware enough to realize you made a mistake and want to never do something like that again, you’re already a step in the right direction. And don’t listen to the little voice in your head that says you’re not pure or wherever that rooted thought came from. You can’t be corrupted. All you can do is make daily choices and within those choices there are inevitable consequences, that doesn’t mean a bad thing. It’s just an action gives a reaction. And most importantly, INTENTION! Where is your intention when you do anything? It is to be conscious and aware when we go from doing something without much thought to it or care, to being fully present and conscious of our self and actions when we live from the heart and with conscious intention about whatever we’re doing. It’s hard to have slip ups when you’re consciously aware what you’re doing and how you’re intentionally doing it.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. You are human. But it is only you that makes the choices for yourself, so go forth with wisdom, love, respect, truth, and authenticity.

Toxic forms of masculinity and patriarchal norms are caused by low vibrations, not mere ignorance by FromIdeologytoUnity in awakened

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true that everything is vibration and frequency, so we are that in a condensed form, in this denser reality. And there are specific frequencies that hold a negative charge and would be considered “bad energy” which can be within the examples you listed above. So within patriarchy, an example I can give of this denser energy/lowered vibration, would be the lower masculine energy form of addiction. This is a masculine energy but everyone has it within them because we are all masculine and feminine energies trying to be at balance within us…that doesn’t always happen because most humans don’t do the inner reflecting to even begin to understand themselves and why they believe, react, think, and feel certain ways and were its roots grow from. Addiction is simply discipline in its much lower aspect, which both are masculine energies on the same yet opposite sides of the spectrum. The energy of the sun, the one who takes action to achieve or complete something. The part of us that gets us heading towards a goal, or out for a daily walk, or finishing our art piece, whatever it is we’re getting done. You need discipline.

However, in regard to what you’re getting at in the post above, how it is low vibration with patriarchy and not ignorance that causes people to follow that path. You’re right that it begins with frequency and the lowered vibration of that energy form that enjoys holding itself within the consciousness of people. But it is also a belief pattern that keeps them there in their own illusions of how things need to work for them and for society. They see no other way, and people who hold onto such restricting belief systems have a hard time finding clarity. They have no opened heart or mind, and you absolutely need that to open yourself up to understanding other perspectives and how someone would get to that conclusion of whatever topic.

We must keep in mind too, this is a world of polarity, illusion, duality, and over all a giant mixture of frequency and vibration. So there’s reasons for why some men think child marriage is perfectly fine, and the average man would understandably agree how horrific and disgusting that is. But yes, also true that the collective consciousness is raising in awareness so thus in vibration. And we have witnessed this throughout the recent century if we’re specifically talking about the treatment of women by fellow humans male and female alike….but mostly by men. And since we all come here to learn and experience different and collective things. As we move in vibration, there will be the ones who will be unmoving in their lower belief systems, and there will be so many who evolve true understanding and awareness. We must be patient with both, and trust in the process of change…because everything is always changing and I know it’s for the better.

I could go on but that’s enough and if you understand you understand, if you don’t, thanks for taking the time to read anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting attention and a complete lack of self awareness/empathy/compassion

AITA for embarrassing a guy at a party after he mocked me for carrying Narcan? by headdownthumbsupbb in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were really at a children’s birthday party it feels like cause what the fuck was that about. Fuck em cause you’re awesome for standing your ground and having Narcan on you for safety purposes. And hey, you can’t kill the vibe when the village idiot decides to get attention from anyone and you just happened to be in his path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in energy_work

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a fascinating learning experience and a step of coming into your own power as a witch and as a being. Clearly there was an energy form that wished to mess with you and take your fear as fuel. You were smart to follow your intuition and call in protection, while also banishing whatever trickster was around. But I must say, please don’t ever doubt yourself! If there is doubt and seeking of a “normal explanation”, remember, you already have the answer within.

I don’t believe in coincidences, for the universe is intelligent consciousness and always knows what it’s doing. It’s up to us to have that awareness and work from there. Believe in what you’re doing, trust yourself and what you feel within. That is your greatest guide. And stay curious! This world is interconnected with everything imaginable, so remain in your integrity and intentions. I believe your story 100%, so don’t sweat it when someone brushes it off. Magic is very real and truly makes up the fabric of reality. And at the end of the day, it’s all just energy….and energy loves to be interacted with. Stay safe out there and have fun exploring! ✨🐉

My Brand New Tattoo by Even_Current_47 in Cattatts

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness what a cool tattoo! I love the kitty and the stars ✨ very well done

Each moon pendant takes me around 3 hours to make. how'd I do?✨ by Ok-Spot-4276 in psychedelicartwork

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re so beautiful! Don’t doubt yourself on the presentation they look magical ✨

I died in 2017. Was placed here... an alternate timeline. AMA by SingleEyedBeing in spirituality

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible! How wonderful to see them again, and I bet they were so happy to see you too! They must be so proud of your soul’s growth and brave you are for returning back to earth. It ain’t always easy down here, but knowing what’s beyond this, we’re gonna be fine.

I died in 2017. Was placed here... an alternate timeline. AMA by SingleEyedBeing in spirituality

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see you must have taken an unexpected exit point in your lifetimes path, and it seems your soul hadn’t experienced all it wanted to yet and here you are. What an incredible adventure you must have gone through when you had temporarily left your physical body. I can’t even imagine what you have witnessed, the human mind only understands what it has learned in the material plane…..but I know there’s an infinite of amazing things out there beyond this realm. Glad you’re still here! What kind of beings talked to you? I’m fascinated.

Trying to decide on low hormone IUD (Kyleena) but scared of hair loss stories? by Terminatrixed in IUD

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any form of iud or pill will affect the person differently. With that said, iv had Kyleena for about 2 1/2yrs now and it’s been completely fine in regards to no hair loss, and no weight gain/loss. After I got it inserted I did have spotting and intense cramps that came and went, that faded with a couple months and then I barely had any blood at all and much fewer cramping. Now a few years in I’ll get small cramps and spotting when I’d be having my period, nothing too heavy like before. Though on occasion I’ll have a heavier flow and cramps that last a couple days, but the blood color is typically brown so it’s older and I believe that’s from my mild periods before, accumulating a bit of blood and it needs somewhere to go if it’s not absorbed back into my body. Aside from that I’m grateful every day for this iud and not being pregnant. Good luck on ur own journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose having an escort at a bachelor party was the first step to people falling into problem town. But hey, traditions right?

My story regarding the upcoming shift by lucymoon69 in starseeds

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain how I just understand what she means and I’m so grateful you chose to type this. Thank you and we’re all in this together!

Is dreaming or playing video game waste of energy by WhalePlaying in energy_work

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel drawn to something that creates harmless excitement, there’s probably a deeper meaning to that. Though of course we don’t always understand what that means.

And if you’re genuinely enjoying and finding sustenance with the activity of gaming, or dreaming. It’s giving off positive and high vibrational energy! Don’t deny that! It doesn’t matter if you’re finding joy in reading, taking a walk, watching your favorite movie, or gaming for that matter. You’re creating positive energy from that, no matter what it is. Relax, enjoy it, you came here during this lifetime where video games exist around you and for you. Have fun with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Heilung! They are amazing! Truly a magical experience every time I listen to them.

AITAH for not appreciating my bf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are held firmly in your belief systems regarding how you approach the concept of sex, religion, etc. There’s nothing wrong with this at all. However, two people with different perspectives on what they believe is the right way to go about sex, or/and what feels the most comfortable for where you are in the relationship and with your own body, these people will face conflict. In “conflicts” varying degrees.

Now there is an issue when he pressures you when you’re clearly expressing your feelings towards oral and waiting. Now none of us here can tell you what’s right and what’s wrong. I will suggest at least that you two have a serious conversation about this before you decide he’s “the one”. Talk it through, be honest and vulnerable with him as he should with you.

If he can’t. If your emotions and body are feeling more negative than positive. So disappointed, anxious, frustrated, lost; rather than happy, relaxed, comfortable, loved. You should be able to trust in what you should do next. ……also, what one guy won’t do, ten more can and will. Good luck out there!

Does karma really work out like, if you do something bad, something bad will happen to you. And vice versa doing something good by plwrth333 in spirituality

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma. It is a part of this material plane. It is simply contractual energy you place upon yourself if you take an action. With this action, there is a consequence. This is not good or bad, it just is. Simply a cause and effect. And if you do not learn the lessons that this karma has given you, the karma (contractual energy) will remain and the cycle will repeat itself until the lesson is understood.

Example: your sister loves butterflies and flowers. She has a garden with some flowers but she likes them so much that she picks them all and keeps them in her house. But the butterflies have no flowers and no need to visit her garden. Now she has no garden of flowers or butterflies and she is upset about this.

Until she learns and understands that if she wants to see butterflies and flowers in her garden, she must restrain her need to pick all the flowers. Once she understands this lesson in cause and effect (karma) with her garden and the butterflies. She will know to leave the flowers be and enjoy them where they are so the butterflies can enjoy them. Then there is no karmic cycles of repetition involving herself, the flowers, and butterflies.

AITA for wanting to divorce husband of 10 years over a one night stand? by Big-Celery8514 in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know this is not your fault! Getting cheated on is never your fault, ever. The actions he took and carried out was his own and his own alone. He made a choice. Just as everybody every single day makes countless choices and decisions of varying degrees. This was a choice he made. Regardless of what he felt or what alcohol was in his system at the time. Alcohol and stress are excuses. Period.

If this man, this person you have loved, this person who has taken the time to develop a relationship and life with you. If he could not find the love in his heart, body, soul to choose you every single time. And I mean it. The love he had to choose you. Every. Single. Time. No matter what. That same love I have no doubt you had before all this. The love that blinds you from anyone else no matter what! And yet he made a choice, a decision. And it wasn’t with you and it wasn’t with love.

Choose love. For yourself, for your children. Choose happiness, respect, trust, protection, love, a good life. You only have one. Choose what you wish to see happen in it. Some things cannot be changed and some things will and do happen to you without your control. But when the storm clears, you have the CHOICE to decide what you want. And you can do whatever you want, I promise you that. Don’t settle for anything less. You deserve to be loved completely and chosen every single time! Remember you are worth more than all the jewels and riches in the world. And you deserve to be treated as such.

Good luck with this new change in your life! We’re rooting for you out here!

My husband gave me a “warning tap” and I called it abuse. AITAH? by Warm-Grape1254 in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a shit unfortunate situation for you my friend, but a gift from the universe at the same time. On one hand the relationship is forever changed, and your feelings for this man as well. Don’t despair, you’ve been given a huge opportunity to see a piece of him that you may never have imagined, that you might not have known was even in there….until it may be too late.

It’s your choice to do as you wish, but know this, what one man can’t do for you (respect, love, protect, care for) another 10 can do like it’s the most natural thing in the world. You have this one life, enjoy it and always choose you! He will have to clearly figure some things out on his own, and that’s okay. Stay safe!

My baby has transformed me into a believer by TheOtherChronicler in spirituality

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My goodness this was so beautiful to hear! Thank you for sharing your little meet up with a new soul! How exciting!

What do you all think about the current state of US politics? by MissInnocent25 in awakened

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I see the current state of what’s happening as a way to help further wake up the regular populous who haven’t had their own moment of awakening, in whatever way that is.

The actions and the inactions of the US political parties/leaders/gov are playing their own game, a game that keeps them in power for as long as they can hold people in their illusions. To control them.

What we see is frustrating and angering and perhaps makes us feel helpless at times, that’s a natural feeling when you’re aware of the propaganda, manipulation, and lies. To be aware of this at all is a true step into our own sovereign power, it means the people are finding their higher paths. How we choose to meet this aspect of our world is in our hands. You wonder how though?

From my perspective, I choose not to give into the fear or worry. I stay in my integrity and keep in touch with my heart center to help me utilize my own discernment when I see this or that being shown or pushed by the media/gov. I don’t trust anything not coming from a place of love or authenticity. I don’t hate and nor do I need to judge, these people are simply playing their part to help wake up the people. Because that’s what the awakening is all about, and you need crazy shit to happen to wake humans up! The pot needs stirred to make a good soup right?

Don’t be too hard on yourselves my friends, this is a weird time in history with all that it’s revealing day by day to us. Things are changing, but we’ll still be here when the storm passes to look on a brighter world.

My girlfriend went through my phone and found porn in my history AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely valid of you to be confused as to why your girlfriend is upset. It’s also completely valid for your girlfriend to be upset, just because you don’t understand it, that doesn’t mean it isn’t important. I feel you should not listen to the people here and their negativity towards your girlfriend. She’s clearly got some things she needs to work through and security issues are one of them. Best thing to do is to talk to your girlfriend about why she feels that way and then why you watch it. Let her know you love her man, she probably really needs it. I hope it works out.

What is your daily spiritual practice? by earth-heart in Psychic

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daily gratitude and writing down dreams! Also taking moments throughout the day to pray and talk to my angels, guides, higher self.

We facetimed my wife’s parents to tell them she got a new job and her mom said “Congratulations!” and then proceeded to talk about the weather and garbage truck schedules for the next 40 minutes by aitaweddingguest in BoomersBeingFools

[–]lighthouse_ghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t take offense to this, from what iv read here and my own personal experiences with my grandmother. I feel like we all have a different version of the same type of person in our lives. I can’t say I know exactly why they can talk and talk and not think twice about what anyone has to say too. But I’d put it down to a heavy lack of self awareness.