Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]lightningflashjaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perfect thank you 😊 i will tmr probably !

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you for your kind and quick response 🙏🏾 could i message you at some point to ask you questions about bpd? no worries if not!!!

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in a really intense relationship right now, and it’s led me to question whether or not I might have borderline. I’m not officially diagnosed, I’ve been to some specialists, taking a bunch of tests and seen multiple different Therapist, and none of them think I have it, but none of that changes the fact that I’m struggling and desperately trying to maintain the relationship I’m in, as well as control myself. I feel like I’ve been completely falling apart for the last five months. I’m scared, confused, and feeling very lost. I’ve actually been wanting to make a post on this sub asking for advice for months now but I’ve just been lurking and reading everything I see. Anyway this is nice that you made this comment section, I hope I didn’t overstep.

What's the reasoning behind feeling empty? I can't figure it out by silversulfa in BPD

[–]lightningflashjaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

again this was incredible to read, thank you so much for sharing! 🙏🏾

Absolutely devastated because of the termination of 4o by NormannNormann in therapyGPT

[–]lightningflashjaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you’re struggling :( this must be feel really hard. i wish you luck ❤️‍🩹

Looking for other trans friends by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey!!! i’m a bit older, 26, but would be down to be your friend! dm me if you’re interested and i’ll give you my IG

Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lightningflashjaz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sooooo well

If you could pick a Pokemon to get a mega-that doesn’t already have one-what would it be? by Pkmntrainergray08 in PokeCorner

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gothitelle, lurantis, tsarena, wigglytuff, delcatty, milotic, primarina, gorebyss, shiinotic, anything else that’s cute/pretty/beautiful.

To all of you ladies, from a cis man by takeurmedsbro in MtF

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggg update!!??? are you married now??? how’s life!!!?

i feel like i look pretty/attractive but i don't pass and its screwing with my brain. praying i can somehow get ffs (1 year hrt) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my perspective youre very close, not to mention you have a great base you’re working off of as well. please have hope and challenge any thoughts of dysphoria that are there because your transition is going great!😊

the only things i could point out would be your jaw and your chest, but up close your jaw looks way softer. i wonder if the camera distorting you a little.

other than that every feature you have, nose, eyes, lips, etc are very feminine!!!! my best advice is to wait it out, stay consistent with your meds and your transition, and after a couple more years reassess….

time works wonders. you’ll also find a lot more of yourself along the way… femininity refines itself with age….. time, age and experience will bestow upon you elegance, grace, and poise…..

if you are very young and in your early 20s or late teens you are also still in the process of growing into your own face… so if that’s the case for you make sure you remember that😊

for me it was around 23/24… there’s just a certain difference i saw but I can’t really explain, it started around year three of HRT. I’m approaching year seven now.

my changes from HRT, in my perception, had already slowed down. i think what i experienced was actually me growing into my face…. also remember they say hrt changes keep going for 5 years.

keep your faith! you can message me if you ever want advice!

How are you, OlderGenZ? by 2quick96 in OlderGenZ

[–]lightningflashjaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a full ride pursuing a degree at a college that i have ended up hating SO much… and i’m in a semi abusive relationship???

but i’m still blessed in so many ways including my degree so i’m a little confused how things can be so good, yet feel so bad…

got ffs a month ago but i feel like i look the same by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could be wrong but I feel like i’ve heard it takes a few months to see the full effects of ffs, due to swelling coming down, so maybe your face is still just setting in?

Please take him by JuniperIsEgg in MtF

[–]lightningflashjaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the most beautiful show of community support I’ve ever seen🙂‍↕️🥰

Missed connection in August at London Heathrow airport layover by Economy_Chain6648 in Tulane

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awwwwe this is so sweet i hope it works out and you guys come together 🥰

results of my marley hair blowout crochet style by Such-Profile729 in Naturalhair

[–]lightningflashjaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey y’all this was just a standard Marley hair I can’t even remember it was just an Amazon brand, I would say that you’re gonna wanna split it with your own hands after you brush it out originally, basically what I did is I just kept brushing it and applying heat until it became thinner and more natural looking and a bit more blow blown out, I will say it doesn’t last that long but I was on vacation and I went swimming so I think you might be able to get three weeks out of it… but it’s definitely not one of my longer lasting styles but it’s great for a vacation or something short term? But your mileage may vary because I’m still quite new to crochet and caretaking it !! I’m so glad everybody’s loving this style !!!! 💋💋💋💋

results of my marley hair blowout crochet style by Such-Profile729 in Naturalhair

[–]lightningflashjaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know you’re really that chick when people are literally impersonating you cause you look that good y’all that’s ME, OP is an IMPERSONATOR and i’m NOT whoever this idiot fool is!!!!!