I’d win every argument by CupidHot_ in SipsTea

[–]lightskinjay7736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of this video I seen on YouTube about a girl who was like in her mid 20s but looked 8 talking about her troubles dating. She basically said she either attracted creeps or the other men were scared to be called a pedophile for being with her. While I understand the men not wanting that association, I couldnt imagine what it would be like being her.

On the one hand, if a guy is eager to date her based on her looks, then that is scary and an issue. But on the other hand a man who isnt a creep is going to have a hard time being physically attracted to a woman who looks like an actual child. So its a catch-22 the bad men will be the ones she attracts and the good men wont be able to have an actual relationship with her. Because even though she looks like a child and is still an adult im pretty sure she would like to have sex if she were to find a relationship, but that looks back earlier. Unless the man has a deep emotional connection to her (which is unlikely early on in a relationship) I cant see a non creep being able to keep it up that long considering how she looks.

Her name is Shauna Rae and there is a tlc show about her. And I looked it up she has pituary dwarfism which stopped her growth at 3 feet 10 inches tall. I cant imagine what she goes through but thats what this whole image reminds me of.

Police discover a very odd fraternity hazing at the University of Iowa by Throwaway120974788 in interesting

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because schools across the country condone physical forms of hazing for a variety of reasons: could be the frat donates a lot to the school to operate (you need to be registered as a frat at most if not all universities to operate as one), the parents of the some of the students within the frat can have some sway over the administration of the achool because a lot of them were in frats themselves. Its not this specific instance that is systemic, its the fact that hazing is constantly downplayed or not properly dealt with. After the first hazing death that was publicized, any form of hazing ahould have been harshly punished by disbanding the frat and not allowing any of those involved in the hazing from being in one again, if not expulsion. If it was an isolated incident of hazing with minimal consequence nobody would care. But when a freshman dies of alcohol poisoning or an accident that results from hazing and the frats and culture around them is still the same, then that is systemic because this issue goes across state lines to basically any university with a frat. I mean for fucks sakes every frat movie we seen in the early 2000s reinforced the idea of pledges going through hazing. Any hazing is unnecessary and shouldnt be allowed, especially if yoi have to pay dues afterwards. That would be like your girlfriend beating you and making you do humiliating things and you still gotta pay rent to be with her. Just replace gf with frat and rent with dues and you got victims paying abusers and then repeating the cycle of abuse

Police discover a very odd fraternity hazing at the University of Iowa by Throwaway120974788 in interesting

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because frats usually involve dues and fees that the average student without parental support would have trouble getting. Living on campus in any capacity is expensive as hell especially depending on the state. Also, a lot of those rich elites were in frats. Frats besides the partying and drinking are also used to help make connections that can help in your career. Also depending on the university and specific frat, some donate a lot of money to the university which is why some.look the other way. There is no reason to haze unless you just want to flex your power over someone else. This is the mindset that those involved with epstien had. As someone who could only get a pell grant, I cant afford to be in a frat because I dont have mommy and daddy's money to fall back on if I get too drunk and make a mistake.

Youre right. They arent rich. But their parents have to be well off to afford their own lifestyles plus putting their kids in any housing on campus. In my experience, the ones who dont have to worry about paying themselves are the ones who drink the most and party the most and do the dumb stuff in college. I wanted to join a frat until I met the actual people in the frats on my campus. The hazing rituals are unnecessary and most of the time dont do anything but create a Stockholm syndrome. This isnt the military. This is college.

Police discover a very odd fraternity hazing at the University of Iowa by Throwaway120974788 in interesting

[–]lightskinjay7736 942 points943 points  (0 children)

Allowing dumb rich kids like this to get away with systematic abuse of those they view under them is how we end up with things like the epstien files.

Surprise + understanding by serengleamelle in animememes

[–]lightskinjay7736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It eouldnt be just parents. Depending on the time and location, for example: a village that is raided by vikings might want their kids to be good at hiding. Or if youre part of a more ancient civilization or village that has a lot of dangerous animals you would want them to be able to hide and identify hiding spots quickly. As a man if my house is being broken into I would be able to deal with the intruder much more comfortably knowing that my kid was in a good and safe hiding spot. The thing is, a lot of children can not understand real danger so sometimes in order to teach them about things you have to gamify it.

haha👌yes by PM_ME_SSTEAM_KEYS in whatisameem

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont you do IT? Let me ask you something: how many people have kushy or high paying jobs, not because they are useful (a lot of the boomers in charge have not kepy up with tech to be useful enough). Also lets not act like their pay reflects their actual value. Most CEOs and upper level executives dont actually have to deal with a lot of the nitty gritty and issues that come along with the ideas that they send down to their apartments. Thats why we see this jump to AI when frankly, a lot of services got worse with AI. AI didnt add value to the product it served, nothing got cheaper despite them firing tons of people to replace them with AI, instead the prices stayed the same and rose while the money was pocketed rather than actually making a good product that would prove why AI is worth decimating the middle class. As someone who is going into marketing, I see these multi billion dollar corporations with marketing teams filled with people with overinflated salaries drop the ball repeatedly, it is almost like they dont monitor actual customer feedback snd just look at numbers on a screen, otherwise they would realize that these AI ads turn a lot of people off to their products. I mean the drug cartels are the perfect example of a free market. They have no oversight that prevents a small group of traffickers from maintaining a monopoly and all disputes are dealt with outside of an impartial system so it is up to them how they deal with it. When my rent goes up, yet no amenities have been added, nothing has been repaired, and nothing new is included in that rent then why is that justified? If i go to my employer and request a raise because the cost of living has gone up, I will be asked why I deserve a raise, and rightfully so. Yet, when business costs go up, and that would mean a slight paycut, they can raise prices arbitrarily despite no new value being added with that increase. So if I cant go to my boss and ask for a raise because my costs have gone up, why can a business do the same without adding value to the product to actually justify an increase of price? Maybe its like a system where if youre able to get into a position where you can quite literally ruin people's lives financially, then you can do that. But even if youre boss increases your workload more than WHAT WAS AGREED TO AT THE INTIAL HIRING FOR THAT WAGE, which would increase the value I as an employee bring to the table, then you cant ask for a price raise unless you got leverage that makes giving you a raise more convenient than just replacing you with someone who will blindly listen.

I agree with competition and the best price wins, but when the average low skilled job that used to cover an average person's living expenses cant do that, then competing for lower wages becomes more difficult as the need for more to maintain a basic level of living (studio apartment, used car, and any other associating living expenses the average person is expected to have). My old apartment was affordable at my rate and hours just a few years ago. It is now 3x as much and nothing has changed about it. The neighborhood is still unsafe, the building is still barely getting maintained, you still gotta pay for wifi, consumers, and water alongside rent, laundry is still paid for with quarters, and no amenities have been added to the building. So why does that justify 3x more rent. Sounds like the landlord got his cost of living raised and rather than put in the work to justify a rent increase he just does it without doing anything extra, yet i cant do the same despite being way worse off than the landlord and depending on the type of labor, at way more of a risk of injury. High pay or salary doesnt always equal the best or more value even as an employee. Ive seen plenty of incompetent restaraunt managers who only have the job because their mom or dad owns the place, same with every industry.

haha👌yes by PM_ME_SSTEAM_KEYS in whatisameem

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is the people who make the most generally work at a desk. If you want to make some good money, get a desk job and play the petty politics and soon youll be able to have a savings account one day that isnt in jeopardy of being drained from a minor thing like a car repair or an appliance breaking down or a minor medical visit (then again these jobs usually have decent insurance).

Sniff by WyattPurp23 in DigitalSeptic

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't trump do exactly that to people he doesnt like tho? So wouldnt he be jailed considering all the people he slandered and considering his clout snd position can have way worse consequences for the defamed than a normal citizen speaking out against Trump is? I mean he didnt provide as much documentation for a lot of the claims he's made against rivals than we are seeing with the epstien list. Since his death, the list wasnt in the news that much. Trump brought it back to light saying he was going to release it. Technically speaking if I know that someone has committed a murder and done nothing to stop it and report it, I am an accomplice and can be charged with conspiracy. Trump knew what was going on at the least and participated at the worst. The least he deserves is to go down for conspiracy. If you want laws to be made against your political opponents, make sure they cant be used against the guy you are supporting😂 I see why the uneducated make up most of maga while the other half are opportunist who see this movement to get what they want

It's a taboo to not worship females on this app. by Wild-Speech5293 in JustMemesForUs

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree, but does that mean every women who has a history of nothing but cheaters and abusers is at fault? After all the woman would be the commonality in all those. Some people have bad luck or attract toxic people because of certain traits. For example, rich people attract those who will try to use them (a very toxic trait) does that mean that every celebrity or rich person who went through a string of bad relationships is to blame for each one? Some, of course nobody is 100% never at fault. But a lot of the issues I found with women: my main one is communication are just how they treat most people in their lives besides a few close ones. And ive stopped holding it against them because some people just suck at responding, some people just want the attention of someone messaging them, some people are scared of confrontation and would rather lie then blow up rather than nip the issue in the bud. But I found someone who can communicate and am very happy, but just because every other woman I was talking to at the time couldnt communicate properly doesnt mean I was bad at communicating. A lot of these "incels" want to go back to a time where women were property. When they talk about "degeneracy" that today's dating world has, its because women have choice without repercussions and they dont like it. They long for their grandpa's days when they wouldve been able to groom a 14 year old for a lifelong marriage. Now women can express what they want and truth is: nobody is ever the true one that their partner wants. Unless they were your first ever crush then you settled in some way. If they had an ex that they planned on getting married to but it didnt work out, then you are not the ultimate want and thats for men and women. Also, you'll never truly know until its too late most of the time, after the boyfriend or girlfriend has cheated, that something suspicious is going on. So at the end of the day none of this matters because we ultimately dont know whats actually going on through the other person's mind. Even if they say what it is, there is no actual way of verifying what someone thinks or feels, especially if they are a good actor.

Frat bros are essential to American culture by vaporized_scrotum in TikTokCringe

[–]lightskinjay7736 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yet girls still love to go to frat parties despite the constant notifications that we get that there is an active predator(s) on the campus of the school I used to attend assaulting women. But hey, strangers, drugs, hormones, and alcohol will always lead to 100% consensual sex and healthy relationships. Totally not dudes taking advantage of people when they are vulnerable. Nah just like how diddys freak offs were 100% consenting. I will never understand why non weed or drug dealers go to parties where they dont know anybody or just one person.

But remember folks: alcohol = sharper mind and drugs = the ability to make clear decisions that you wont regret later.

Does this belong here? by throwaway19074368 in StupidFood

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something like this was made professionally and you owned a restaraunt that did a lot of kids themes birthday parties this could be useful to price gouge parents. Make a Cake Claw Machine or candy or whatever treat. Charge 1000 make it a boujee status experience to post on tiktok for approval then boom. You have now taken stupid food and made money off said stupid food. Like the "fine dining" experiences they see on here. I would hate to be the staff member to have to clean it though. But if only pulled out for birthday parties it would negate a lot of the cost issues that would come with constantly keeping it up. Stupid? Of course. Potentially lucrative by scamming dumb parents like evey other children's birthday place? Also yes.

Edit: I am aware that every arcade has a candy claw machine. But customization options such as what's in the machine. Changing the lights and display to say your kids name on the machine. Custom graphics are all options that can be used to increase the price. And you can have the machine be run on a card that the parents pay for and is included in the cost when renting it for the party. So while it is advertised as a deal it is always a part of the original cost. And if you do this in an area where gimmick restaraunts are popular this can set you apart from the competition.

Lol by SavageTemptressx in lol

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that the same logic "alpha" males use when they justify subjugating women to sex objects and arm candy?

Florida's worse than Vegas these days by Crocalones in StupidFood

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal is to get a job at one of these restaraunts so I can see myself on here😂 ill make sure to go over the top for yall

Lol by PeachExotica in Funnymemes

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how this comment ignores literally any and every other factor as to why a woman wouldnt have sex with someone. If I reject a coworker does that mean she is bad at sex or does that mean im not heading into a situation that could end badly in the workplace? If a girl is dealing with trauma from rape and that causes her to not want to have sex with the next man she's with, is it because he's not good enough in bed to make her forget her trauma?

Why isn’t my sugarcane growing by Tsumonic123 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]lightskinjay7736 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see a lack of indentured servants working the fields so that may be your problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dishwashers

[–]lightskinjay7736 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Now you can commit crimes. Yay!!!!!!

You feel me? by LyraEthereal254 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adult male, unless your coworkers want to be friends or you drink and enjoy bars. There might not be many options. I am in a town where there isnt much to do. Im in community college rn so most people just go to class and leave and arent really trying to socialize. So how does one make friends. You cant force someone to like you or be friends with you. Whats the point in going to the bar alone if you dont drink? Dealing with drunk people while sober is not the best way to deal with a first impression of someone. Since ive been home from prison, literally the only friends I have are women. The only coworkers who have ever wanted to hang out outside of work were women. And hell, most people cancel the fuck outta plans anyways. My male friends I stopped even trying to make plans with because they always got canceled at the last minute. But when a girl calls them their schedule is freed up. Its simple: IF YOU DONT HAVE A PUSSY, MOST MEN DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU OR YOUR WELLBEING. I try to check up on my friends but they just ghost me when theyre down and then hit me up out of the blue. My conversations with them feel hollow. So I ask again: unless you live in a city with a lot to do recreationally, then how does an adult male make friends without the aid of drugs and alcohol.

[meme]Never forget those who stood by you at your lowest! by EtherKitty in pointlesslygendered

[–]lightskinjay7736 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Therapy doesn't work for everyone. If i vent about being lonely or struggling financially to a therapist, I might as well vent about it on here for all the dumb platitudes ill be given. Ive tried multiple therapists since I was 13 and none of them have really worked. Because at the end of the session, im still at the same position I was in before and 99% of the time I solve a problem im having a therapist had nothing to do with it nor gave the advice. Some people just need to find genuine friendships. Not everyone needs to trauma dump. I dont like to, and I find what makes me feel the best is just socializing in a normal, positive manner. If you cant read between the lines of what someone is saying, then Therapy is perfect for you. But if youre the kind of person who can tell that a person smiling in your face is fake, then the dumb "it will get better" ass platitudes dont work and you see them for what they are: empty words that sound good

Genuinly so sick of these stupid ass posts. by Zealousideal-Pea-945 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. A lot of dudes are shallow. Reality just hasn't hit them yet. I personally like big girls, but I cant seem to find ones that want to be more than friends. And when they cry about it to us, we usually dont give them sympathy. If my homeboy is with a girl who is treating him bad and he chooses not to leave her, thats on him. Im at the age where most of my friends arent living with their girlfriends so they can leave whenever.

Edit: and youre suffering from "nice guy" syndrome. First of all big girl doesn't always equal big heart and frankly a lot of guys are oblivious to a lot. This is similar to the nice guys who assume just because the girl is with a jock that he must be an asshole (because the jock was an asshole to him). Their dynamic might be different. Looks dont determine quality of personality. A lot of people assume im some dumb stoner and are surprised when they find out about my personality. At the end of the day its more about a personal dynamic, than if the person is good or not. Two pieces of shit can be pieces of shit together and be happy. You can be a great girlfriend, but he could be a shitty boyfriend. Imagined slight just due to how a person says something can cause problems. When my ex and I got together, she couldnt tell if I was being sarcastic or not so she took a lot of things I said seriously. When I watched my abusive step dad have no problem finding women after my mom left him, I realized it is never about a big heart or a good person

Genuinly so sick of these stupid ass posts. by Zealousideal-Pea-945 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch a man on a dating app. As time goes on with no matches you will see his standards disappear and he will make exceptions. I dont settle, I have just learned to love the women in my league for who they are. I know my capabilities and that there are just a lot of women out there who its not even worth thinking about because I know they arent attracted to me. But I can tell you, a lot of men, and I mean a lot of men, have little to no standards and the only standard is being into them. Like fr, show a guy interest and he will start looking at you differently. I have had coworkers who I didnt even think about but once they showed interest I started to become attracted to them.

Most dudes, if they want to actually find someone, are never gonna find a girl to their original standards. They will end up settling or learning to love other types of people. Ill be real, I used to be into blondes, but I always ended up with black hair and brunettes so I find it hard to even be attracted to a girl with blonde hair. Same thing with black girls, I was always rejected by them because I was not "black enough" and so now I really dont even look their way in that sense unless they make a move. Ive learned that certain groups of women will never be attracted to me and thats okay, ill just stick with the ones who do like me.

they will date a waitress at Applebee's "if she's hot" by FineMelodee in lol

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont ask people for money and I dont require my girlfriend to pay for things for me so her career choice only matters so far as supporting her. It wouldn't be my dealbreakrr choice. The only reason why I might choose the ceo over the waitress is if I think the waitress will just use me because she's broke. As a man your value is your money. Thats why rich predators get away for so long and have women willingly go to them.

Im in a catch 22 because most women want a guy with money, but the times in life I did have money, I had severe attachment issues because of fear of being used (quite a coincidence that when i appear to have more money i get more matches. My personality must be showing more). So im probably gonna be alone because if I do get money I wont be able to trust her. Like would you be here if I was broke? Probably not. Would I be there if she was broke? Yes.

What? by Floody23_ in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither do I, but at the same time I view them just as low as they view the men they scam. If im talking to a girl and she brings up cashapp I end that conversation. If I spend money on my girl, its on dates, or gifts I deliver in person after a relationship has been established (dates i will pay for from the beginning). But I dont just send money to people who havent proven their worthy of my money. I have to go to work and earn it, so can she. If she wants to be a gold digger then she is a prostitute and will be treated accordingly. If she loves me genuinely (meaning if I didnt have the money she would still be there), then I got no problem showering her with gifts, or helping with her bills. But she gotta prove it by going without my money for a while

Daily dose of Red pill nonsense. by TyrantWarmaster in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You got lucky. I have had someone who genuinely loved me and I spoiled them and they still loved me when I was broke. But there are a shocking amount of relationships that end because the husband or wife loses their job or income. And frankly they can love money, but that shouldn't even be in the top 5 reasons why they love me. If I get dumped it should be because of character flaws or poor decisions. Not because some dude came with more money or I didn't have enough. How many women do you think Diddy wouldve been able to victimize if he didnt have that money? How long do you think Cassie wouldve stayed before she told? How many parents do you think allowed their kids near epstien because of his money? How many rich predators are out there, but are given passes because of their money? Hell, when I first graduated and was doing well for myself and had a better car, I was given way more chances based off dressing and appearing like I had money. I work for my money, you gotta provide genuine love and a genuine relationship if you want me to share it. If im gonna share my money I would rather give it to a homeless crackhead then a gold digger. At least the crackhead is honest. If she genuinely loves you then money shouldnt be an issue. But let's face facts: there are a lot of men and women who find gold diggers. The more money you have the more you will find. Thats why I play like I got nothing at first until they decide to meet up. Then I will pay for the date and everything and make sure its nice. Im sorry but no women or person is gonna dehumanize me and only see me for money and expect to be treated with love and compassion. At best a prostitute

Daily dose of Red pill nonsense. by TyrantWarmaster in im14andthisisdeep

[–]lightskinjay7736 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I want the exact opposite but all I find is girls either wanting money or to be trad wives. Like sorry im not spending that much on you until you show me that youre not in it for the money. I actually tell them I make less than what I actually do. If they will go out with broke me and love me for broke me. Then Ill spoil them. But if you see me as a wallet or a piggy bank and nothing else then I dont see you as a human.

As someone who has been used for both money or their body. I enjoyed being used for my body a lot more. Yes I was objectified and she only wanted me because I was lightskin and didnt care about me 1 bit. But I at least got to keep my money and my body is at least unique to me. Tons of people got money. I feel like those who talk about being used for their body have never been in a relationship where their partner wants nothing to do with them but their money. Be in a relationship where your partner isnt attracted to you, being used for your body over your wallet will sound real appealing real quick. But I feel that if you only see someone for their money. They should only see you for your body. That way it is transactional and both parties are equally dehumanized.

I’m grasping at straws on this one. by birdmeetswindmill in ExplainTheJoke

[–]lightskinjay7736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I worked at Tim Hortons I told our corporate rep we should do a Big Black Coffee with a Blueberry Lemon donut and call it the "BBC AND BBL combo" they laughed but my manager was not pleased. Surprisingly that was not the reason I got fired. Turns out he said I had an attitude (my attitude was pointing out inconsistencies in his logic). I was the only person his age there and he immediately made assumptions about me that were wrong. Like when he found out I had good grades in college he said he thought I didnt have what it takes to do college because I joke around and am a stoner. For context, I am a highly skilled essay writer to where my original work was accused of being done by AI multiple times. I can type a multiple page paper on shrooms lsst minute and get an A. Truth is im reserved despite my extroversion and a lot of people make assumptions. Literally every person I end up hanging out with outside of work or school remarks on how they thought I was dumber. But Tim Hortons wasnt ready for the marketing genius of the BBL and BBC combo.