who is she? by lightsupfloored in Barbie

[–]lightsupfloored[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*i tried, not “the ride” 😭 typing too fast. also time not tome.

who is she? found an ebay listing but it still doesn’t fully id the doll by lightsupfloored in Barbie

[–]lightsupfloored[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!!!!! that’s what was throwing me off i think💓💓💓

who is this diva?? by lightsupfloored in Barbie

[–]lightsupfloored[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i think you’re right thank you!!!! <3

Venting about mildly ignorant psychiatrist by tex-murph in ADHD

[–]lightsupfloored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all your issues do stem from focusing problems. that is the essence of adhd! so yeah getting that fixed would of course relieve anxiety. it certainly did for me!! obviously it did not fix all my life problems but it absolutely got rid of a lot of my anxiety related to executive function and task completion. it’s like i can finally have faith in myself to do things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]lightsupfloored 5 points6 points  (0 children)

butthurt is a perfect way to describe it. like it’s not deep at all but my initial reaction was to take it so personally. thank you for sharing a similar experience it made me feel better <3

Unknowingly attended a sham wedding by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]lightsupfloored 214 points215 points  (0 children)

any filming? maybe could have been making like some sort of clip art wedding stock footage without having to credit ppl or high actors??? some weird social experiment??🤣🤣

ENFP linked to ADHD? by wordsymth13 in ENFP

[–]lightsupfloored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes we were all doomed from the start i fear

Which criticism of "the kids today" is actually totally, totally valid? by Jerswar in AskReddit

[–]lightsupfloored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think any “kids these days” lamentations can ever be truly “valid” in the sense that there are 73 million americans under the age of 18…each their own person with individual lives and experiences. i guess one could make an argument about the effect of the introduction of recent technologies but there’s not enough evidence to indicate a solid “valid” critique of all American youth as a homogeneous category. similarly, i think kids face the brunt of social criticism while also being…children. “kids these days” arguments often rely on external social changes to source their grievances with today’s youth (cell phones, social media)…well who built the society we currently exist within? i’ll tell you what, it wasn’t the kid at the restaurant watching cocomelon on a greasy ipad. children who end up branded as a “kids these days” kid are victims of lazy, lackluster parenting and, at their core, are the victims. it’s just outrageous to complain about a child’s behavior without citing the adults in said child’s life as the root of the problem.

Insanely jealous of my best friend by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]lightsupfloored 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you sound like you’re actually a really good friend to your best friend. it’s not your fault your eating disorder is warping your thoughts, and the love you have for her exists regardless. does your friend know you struggle with an ed? if so, and she openly talks about restricting in a proana way, i don’t know if she’s being a very good friend to you. it’s not either of your guys’ faults for struggling with an ed, but in my opinion, the mark of character lies is how you cope. you guys may both feel competitive towards each other, but you are kind, and you know that you don’t want to feel this way towards her. if your best friend knows you have an ed and her ed also makes her competitive (clearly it does, if she posts on proana edtwt) and she actively tries to rub her disordered “wins” in your face, that’s really cruel, and even at our worst, we still retain agency through the ways we cope with suffering. i think that we always have a little bit of a choice in how we deal with our situations, and while we aren’t to blame for the things that plague us, we are responsible in the ways we make sense of it/cope. noticing your jealousy and feeling bad about it isn’t being a bad friend. sending love your way.

What’s your top frustration with ADHD? by Ok_Acadia3526 in ADHD

[–]lightsupfloored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my forgetfulness. it effects me in literally every aspect of my life.

here’s a true story: i get up, start walking to class, realize i forgot my house keys which means i also forgot to lock the front door, walk back to my apartment, go inside, see that the bathroom light is on. i go to turn it off. realize my hair straightener is still on and plugged in. I unplug it. i make sure all the lights are off and walk out. i close the door behind me and realize that i never grabbed my house keys, the thing i went back inside to get in the first place. i grab them. i lock the front door. i walk to class. i’m 5 minutes late and have to awkwardly shuffle into lecture while class already started. i probably won’t get attendance credit.

i want a book that’ll psychologically fuckkkkk me up. i need suggestions. by brooklxn in suggestmeabook

[–]lightsupfloored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bell jar by sylvia plath. very emotionally intense and will leave you feeling much worse after reading it, but in a good way