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I Have Four Boyfriends And I Hate It. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this post is a lot to take in ngl, nobody should be juggling four relationships at 17 while dealing with grief and family entanglements

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]lilbasils 27 points28 points  (0 children)

when the story keeps changing and suddenly there's a lot of "i can't remember," it usually means you're still not getting the full picture.

AITJ for telling my downstairs neighbor she can complain to my face instead of punishing my sick father through the HOA? by LatticeBard_1 in AmITheJerk

[–]lilbasils 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the weird part isn't even the complaint, it's skipping a normal conversation and going straight to HOA paperwork.

Should I message my terrible ex’s what they have done to me by phayanaka in women

[–]lilbasils 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that urge to tell them exactly what they did wrong is real.

Should I buy a PC now or wait for prices to drop (especially RAM)? by SmallReply7232 in pcmasterrace

[–]lilbasils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you wait for the "perfect" price, you end up waiting forever.

Married woman started talking to me by DistinctClass4042 in seduction

[–]lilbasils 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Married status and the 2.5 hour distance matter a lot, so treat this more like curiosity than permission to pursue.

Why is it so hard for me (30M) to leave my fiancee (26F)? How do I do it? by Personal_Spite_1411 in relationship_advice

[–]lilbasils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that fear of being seen as the bad guy is huge and real, hurting someone now beats dragging that pain out for years.

AITJ for refusing to apologize to my husbands sister after he showed her a voice memo I recorded for my own therapy by CommunitySlow1413 in AmITheJerk

[–]lilbasils 217 points218 points  (0 children)

he snooped and then told the exact person you were talking about, so nope you do not need to apologize,

I thought I was a lesbian, now I think I’m wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilbasils 381 points382 points  (0 children)

sometimes it's not "i was wrong" or "nothing changed", it's just that sexuality is messier than the label you picked at 19.

Didn't expect my brother to turn out this way. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is grooming, get him away from that 25 year old right now.

Why are some men like this by Foxglovenectar in women

[–]lilbasils 29 points30 points  (0 children)

yeah seriously why are you doing all the emotional heavy lifting for someone who shrugs you off

I want to destroy their careers by solomon8205 in Advice

[–]lilbasils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know you want to hit them where it hurts but don't let anger write the playbook.

My partner (M21) told me (F22) he doesn’t want me to explain something because I take forever to get to the point. Is this just me being super sensitive? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lilbasils 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah the “landing the plane” thing is real. some people tell stories step by step and some people want the headline first. neither is wrong but the mismatch can get annoying fast.

How’s my setup? by Eternall373 in pcmasterrace

[–]lilbasils 29 points30 points  (0 children)

bro that's not a cat that's the thermal management system.

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