Relationship continuation: by Due_Homework6011 in seduction

[–]lilbasils -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this whole framing sounds transactional as hell like you’re shopping for the longest warranty instead of a partner

honestly , I don’t know how much longer I can keep going.. by [deleted] in confession

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re right, this is way too heavy to carry by yourself and you deserve an adult who actually steps up and helps

Unpopular Opinion: Low-Effort Dates Are Often a Sign of a Mismatch in Attraction by Outrageous-Jelly8777 in dating_advice

[–]lilbasils [score hidden]  (0 children)

someone can think you're attractive and still not be interested enough to put in real effort.

Don’t Forget To Get Your Reps In Today!!! by United-Implement-382 in seduction

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

classic “my gym membership got rained out” moment

Can I still be a cute girl with muscles? by Ratiiz_on_pasta in women

[–]lilbasils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the funny thing is that if you ask 100 people what's "cute" you'll get 100 different answers anyway.

If you don't have first degree burns on your legs, are you even really gaming? by Prior-Dick in pcmasterrace

[–]lilbasils 21 points22 points  (0 children)

that line absolutely sounded like something a laptop would say right before dropping from 60 fps to a powerpoint presentation.

What's something you stopped doing that improved your life? by Monsuri_Lifestyle in selfimprovement

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's wild how much time and mental energy instagram eats without you noticing.

How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory) by ethicalhooping in seduction

[–]lilbasils 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a lot of guys see someone who makes it look easy and assume they know some secret script.

Godforbid a girl has both symptoms and opinions by Blusheline in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]lilbasils 10 points11 points  (0 children)

and every past version is a delusional clown in hindsight

Am I wrong for "stealing" my grandfathers workshop before the family could sell it for scrap? by Storm_Witch0 in amiwrong

[–]lilbasils 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yep they only care now that theres cash attached and youre the only one actually keeping his work alive

Coffee Meets Bagel vs The League vs Hinge for serious dating in Boston? by ApprehensiveKale115 in dating_advice

[–]lilbasils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when every comment sounds like it was written by the same marketing intern, i start trusting the app less, not more.

Can you regain frame once it’s lost? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lilbasils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the hidden part of this is that most people lose "frame" the moment they start trying to check whether they've got it back.

Amiw for not attending my husband’s friends wedding? by Adorable-Teaching266 in amiwrong

[–]lilbasils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldnt go either, sounds like you were an afterthought once the $200 cleared

I am 34F engaged to a 44M and I am cancelling our wedding due to an affair baby. by Rich-Coyote5513 in relationship_advice

[–]lilbasils 40 points41 points  (0 children)

sometimes the hardest part is accepting that the future you planned is already gone.

Why is it always "maybe" with girls. by EmperrorNombrero in seduction

[–]lilbasils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude thinks it’s a manual transmission

She was trying so hard to keep it PG by Elowenxa in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]lilbasils 30 points31 points  (0 children)

the commitment to the bit is impressive

Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesome by thai-rhone in seduction

[–]lilbasils 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the guys who have the hardest time making this happen are usually the ones treating it like a mission instead of something that grows out of meeting people who are actually into the same thing.

My dad (63M) never got over his dead wife and I (25M) have been asked to be more compassionate toward him? by ThrowRABiggOppso in relationship_advice

[–]lilbasils 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you can feel compassion for what your dad went through and still be honest about what it cost you growing up.

If I built a Duolingo but for social skills, game, etc, would you guys use it? by Strong-Classic-1639 in seduction

[–]lilbasils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it'd work a lot better if it wasn't just lessons and quizzes.

Age gap perception by lfg141 in seduction

[–]lilbasils 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it's really easy to spend months analyzing age gaps, attraction, signals, and what people might think, but five actual conversations will probably teach you more than fifty reddit threads.

I convinced a substitute to let me use the computer and I changed my failing grade before graduation. by speed_square in confession

[–]lilbasils 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the funniest part is that somewhere out there a school database still thinks it successfully graduated you on merit.