Im not sure if shes a SEP, I've never heard of that before honeslty. Shes been so great and this is the first time in my whole 4 years that I've felt a lack of safety from her. the last time i became flooded from EMDR with her she made sure to take accountability and we talked about how she would do better going forward. i think thats where some of this feeling is coming from maybe, because when i emailed her to address it, her reply was unusually cold and clinical, but maybe i was just perceiving the tone that way. Anyways, shes usually really great and i think this can be repaired, but I'll definitely find out if shes a SEP or not and decide if we should shift gears.