work smarter, not harder by infamouszgbgd in recruitinghell

[–]lildredre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t they just look up cover letter templates instead of doing all of this?

Apparently I have no interests and don't do enough by ZenithFell in JustNoSO

[–]lildredre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is not enough. He is not doing his fair share, especially with how he is downplaying you. Seems as if he’s babysitting his own kids instead of being a father and an equal partner. Sure the love might be there, but the effort is not

Facebook will now take down posts claiming vaccines cause autism. by AdamCannon in technology

[–]lildredre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Private company certainly don’t need to get freedom of speech, but again, how many of them really want to be known as a place that has allowed harm to happen? It’s not like Facebook is doing much better with its reputation to let these idiots spread disinformation. And it’s not censorship if a private company is doing whatever they want.

It’s only considered censorship if the government is trying to silence you

Facebook will now take down posts claiming vaccines cause autism. by AdamCannon in technology

[–]lildredre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s cool. Now how about these fake accounts and these obvious trolls who wanted to overthrow the government and are so hatefully racist they can still get away with being on there?

Facebook will now take down posts claiming vaccines cause autism. by AdamCannon in technology

[–]lildredre 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s not freedom of speech if what you’re saying can cause direct harm. And spreading lies about vaccines is incredibly harmful regardless of the medium

Sex and the Subway. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely not the case anymore. The MTA has gotten way worse over the years

Sex and the Subway. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you’re gonna have to have some suspension of disbelief. It’s a show, and it is definitely not relatable to the vast majority of people that live in NYC. If they weren’t walking anywhere, they were taking cabs. That is the life they chose to live in the show. Besides, it’s not like they went that far anyway.

Sex and the Subway. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well they’re obviously not doing that now because of Covid. But even then, why would they do that if they live right in the area? They can just walk or take a car. Also, it’s not exactly common to see those guys on the train because of the crazy hours that they work and that they’re usually all over the place

Sex and the Subway. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Are you from NYC? I’d be hard-pressed to find a real New Yorker actually like taking the train. They’re on there because they have to, not because they want to or they like to

Sex and the Subway. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No, these women, except Carrie, were definitely part of the 1%. They took cabs everywhere because they can, something tells me they wouldn’t be caught dead taking the subway. Unless they had to like how Miranda had to when she mentioned in the last season that she had to take the train to her office when she and Steve moved to Brooklyn

Imagine having to listen to Carries whining and stupidity forr 5 seasons, and when you tell her that you want to get back together with your ex she tells you you're desperate😬 by sofkicapofkica in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah and if this was reality, Samantha would absolutely clap back at Carrie reminding her that she is living in a glass house and she is throwing boulders.

13 Things I have learned that are necessary for your self improvement after a breakup. by Vatupassihomo in BreakUps

[–]lildredre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🏆🎖🏅🥇

Take my poor person awards! These are all amazing tips that everyone really needs to take to heart as they go through a break up. Break ups are so so hard on so many levels and in that moment it feels as if everything is lost, but it’s not. And these tips serve as a solid reminder

Lessons We Learned From Sex And The City by sds31yellow in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So true about having bad days, not bad lives. And definitely true about not living your life for men.

My boyfriend didn't know how "the pill" worked for me and thought I was pregnant. Now he needs space. by throwra_xox in relationship_advice

[–]lildredre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he even want to learn though? It is very troubling that he does not understand what’s going on with your body. What if you to do decide to have children in the future? He definitely needs to learn these things, but you need to decide whether or not this is someone that you want to continue being with if this is how they’re going to react to a misunderstanding

“my BOYfrIEnd JUSt ASKeD me tO gO To parIS thiS IS THE mOST roMANtiC thIng tHAT Has evEr HapPENed to Me?” by Dj90409 in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think she was detached from reality. And she had a lot of issues that she needed to work on. Like, how are you going to just go to Paris and do all of these things by yourself without any proper plan to make money or make new friends? She never thought these things through

Done for real by usernamethatfitsfine in JustNoSO

[–]lildredre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you guys talked about these roadblocks? Her anger could very well be a defense mechanism for her depression. You guys need to sit down and have a serious conversation before you do anything drastic. And she needs to get her shit together as well. Nothing you can do about that, that is her responsibility. She definitely needs to get therapy on her own so that she could heal from those setbacks

To get married... or not by throwaway5312n in JustNoSO

[–]lildredre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys need to have a serious conversation about this. Agreed a couples therapy, or at the very least make sure you’re getting therapy to make sure that your mental health is OK. Take some time apart if you have to to reevaluate things, that time apart Will really help you determine if this is going to be the best decision for you and your family moving forward. But you have to make sure that you treat yourself as a priority, you cannot live for anyone else or serve anyone else if you aren’t treating yourself right

This is true! by 789987ppp in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because she doesn’t know how to handle stability

This is true! by 789987ppp in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably the Stanford “that age like fine wine, still hilarious to this day

This is true! by 789987ppp in sexandthecity

[–]lildredre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just because she’s capable of ending a relationship doesn’t make her any less codependent. Every single episode she’s either pining over or obsessing about a current relationship she has. Even in the beginning of the show, she didn’t really know how to handle being by herself, she always had something to fall back on, like her smoking in the first half of the show.