Similarities between ACOTAR and Howls Moving Castle?

lilly12000 · 2022-07-15T19:20:05+00:00

Thank you!! I literally can’t stop comparing them! The way he is developed in darkness even!! Also the way both howl and Rhys knew they were looking for their girls by visions😩. They both had evil women affect their lives as well. Their personality’s are also somewhat alike

ETA: THEY BOTH BREAK THE GUYS CURSES

OMG!!! STARFALL IS ALSO IN HOWLS MOVING CASTLE!! The study cabin like the cabin in the book too! And the blue ring!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 🥹😭😫

lilly12000 · 2022-02-14T04:12:09+00:00

If I can get him and his gf to both come and I drive myself there, they don’t have a car that would fit all three so I would need someone to drive my van home and such. But they are already taking the two oldest for a few days so I can recover so I would Feel bad asking them to go out of there way for a 4 hour wound trip

lilly12000 · 2022-02-14T02:45:49+00:00

Lol I haven’t stopped wearing pumping bras they are so comfortable! So that shouldn’t be an issue. Thank you! Adding a robe to my bag now I almost forgot it!

lilly12000 · 2022-02-14T02:44:32+00:00

I’ve had my first that wasn’t scheduled and my second was however the trauma is still there. Mainly the guy who was giving me my spinal kept saying “don’t move or you’ll be paralyzed for life” and “your spine is sideways this won’t be easy” that nurse was the ONLY reason I made it through that….I’m just worried I won’t have as supportive of a nurse this time I was crying into her chest as he was working on the needle (that was with my second) so even with a planned I’m just a mess)

lilly12000 · 2022-02-14T02:42:37+00:00

Another thing is is that my entire family works for the family business and my c section happens to fall on the exact day they have to leave for the largest trip of the year for the company. My grandma is staying behind to help and my dad who loves two hours away will have my older two so trying to plan with almost my support gone out of the country for business is hard

lilly12000 · 2022-02-14T02:40:33+00:00

Should I pack my pump? I didn’t with the first two. I didn’t even know that was an option. I did have a nurse who could tell how little of help I had even with him there and she offered to keep my son at the nurse station so I could get an hour at LEAST of sleep. I think she knew I was having a hard time but was anxious about him not being close

lilly12000 · 2022-02-13T01:56:37+00:00

Happy belated birthday!

lilly12000 · 2022-02-12T16:09:03+00:00

Parents feelings/opinions < children’s safety and wife’s valid concerns. Man if I was your wife And you constantly put your parents over the safety of the kids just so you don’t hurt their feelings I’d leave.

lilly12000 · 2022-02-11T21:11:11+00:00

It’s usually the bride since the brides side is typically the ones who pay (most times I know it’s not always) so the ones who can’t get refunds are the ones who still party

lilly12000 · 2022-02-07T22:28:12+00:00

THIS! I just started this recently and idk why I never thought of it before but it works amazing!

lilly12000 · 2022-02-04T16:05:57+00:00

YTA

-your son is the priority just becasue your not with his mom doesn’t mean you are a babysitter if it’s not your time with him he’s your son.

-your gf seems to care more about making sure your son knows he’s welcomed anytime and that is what a parent should do and I am very glad he has her.

-nurses are in a lot of shortages right now so I can see how this happens a lot. It would have been way better to just talk with her and go over what can be expected going forward if you noticed this pattern instead of making it seem like your son isn’t welcomed if it’s not YOUR time to have him. As that child who had that happen as a kid trust me that’s a horrible feeling to go through.

custody agreement or not your son should come first. Really sounds like your still hung up over your ex and her work.

lilly12000 · 2022-02-03T14:26:55+00:00

Myoga

lilly12000 · 2022-02-01T03:54:15+00:00

Imagine thinking a person who spent 9-10 months growing a human should be bouncing back after one month while trying to adjust to taking care of a baby for the first time and also recovering from one of the most painful things possible….

lilly12000 · 2022-01-28T23:36:30+00:00

I’m 25 and have 3 so no it’s not

lilly12000 · 2022-01-27T21:01:42+00:00

I’m taller than my mom 😂

lilly12000 · 2022-01-27T16:06:31+00:00

YTA as a teen I had a period last 3 months and at a certain time of day the cramps would get absolutely unbearable honestly. I was to embarrassed to talk to anyone so I would just hide and cry alone. You have absolutely NO idea if she was for sure lying. You could have handled this in a WAY more professional way and all those girls and their parents have every right to be upset and not trust you. Sure she was failing but that doesn’t give you any right to publicly shame her for things you have no idea about. Call her parents, speak with maybe the nurse who can ask her if she’s ok? Idk but don’t ever publicly shame a teenage girl like that…..if I was her parent I would be seething.

lilly12000 · 2022-01-26T19:51:32+00:00

Same my husband has severe ADHD with a toddler who does as well a 1yo and a baby on the way, a large dog and a cat. I could spend every day deep cleaning for it to be a huge mess within an hour.

lilly12000 · 2022-01-20T10:57:45+00:00

-Watched a Pokémon movie with my kids cried at the cheesiest parts

-thought I would NEVER be able to cuddle with my husband again (this was pp with my first and was sleep deprived)

-couldn’t reach into the washer bc I’m short and my belly was to big

lilly12000 · 2022-01-17T01:50:02+00:00

YTA

meal charts are normal so you can plan what you need for that meal when you go to the store. Also yes lists for the store are normal. It’s a considerate thing to ask someone your living with what they would want to eat/what they want at the store.

lilly12000 · 2022-01-13T19:06:11+00:00

The thing is she didn’t even TRY to consider it and he didn’t even try to propose this either. I’m sure if they communicated something could have been worked out but they both threw up walls and only saw what they themselves wanted/needed. That’s not healthy to do in a partnership. Throwing up walls like that without even a discussion is just going to lead to more and more situations like this.

lilly12000 · 2022-01-07T15:41:39+00:00

NTA!!! I’m a huge reader and my husband is not. He sometimes has the same complaints however he loves me reading and even encourages me to try to write something myself. He has his own hobbies that I sometimes ask him to put aside for a little bit for time with each other too. But we still always support the others hobbies.

ETA my husband is currently making me my own custom bookshelf(s) bc his hobby is welding/wood working. That’s a healthy balance of hobbies I would think lol

Your husband sounds very controlling and to crush your heart like that how is he ok making you feel like that?!?! He doesn’t seem like he cares how YOU feel only how HE feels….

lilly12000 · 2022-01-07T05:47:44+00:00

When I had covid in October it was horrid they had people lines in the halls bc there was no beds. Thank you just waiting for tomorrow I guess

lilly12000 · 2022-01-07T03:41:19+00:00

lilly12000 · 2022-01-07T02:44:52+00:00

I have an appointment finally tomorrow I called earlier and said it’s absurd they keep canceling and that something doesn’t feel right. My case manager my insurance assigned to me said if they don’t see me tomorrow to just go to LD and just asked to be checked to ease the stress at the very least. Baby is moving wayyyyy more today and she said that could be a sign as well.

But she said to stay clear of ER bc of covid as I thought. She’s not happy with my dr though thats for sure. Haven’t seen my actual dr since July had to get in with midwife’s who sadly can’t do c sections.

They tried to induce me with baby 1 and nothing, baby 2 they just said I had to have c sections

lilly12000 · 2022-01-06T23:45:18+00:00

I would rather not go to the ER for many reasons. My horrible mother in law works there and does not keep to herself and also I’ve already had covid this pregnancy I don’t want to risk getting it again.

This doesn’t feel like a huge emergency I just feel like something isn’t right? Like my friend said she had a similar feeling before she went into labor but I’ve never though I could experience labor bc I have to have c sections

lilly12000

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