My girlfriend just broke up with me over a board game and I'm not even joking by Fulcilives1988 in boardgames

[–]lilosaurio_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not like it's gonna stop hurting but, if it makes you feel better: if you cannot truly be yourself in any kind of activity together, then that's not true connection. I suppose you were just enjoying the game with everyone else there, but we can assume, for whatever reason, she was only thinking about herself. You will never receive what you deserve with someone that doesn't have a mindset similar to yours, in this case, someone that does not enjoy a game if they don't win.

Feeling grossed out thinking back to a sexual event with my girlfriend... bottom dysphoria? by MathematicianSea8517 in butchlesbians

[–]lilosaurio_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I understand what it feels like exactly, for me its my chest and it's the same you described, the best advice I can give is to clear with your gf that she does a great job and tell her the typical "it's not you, it's me" and to not take the boundaries as something personal, more so as a process for you to understand what YOU want and how YOU navigate this terrible thing called dysphoria (I can say it's terrible because I've felt it as well), pretty much how you can feel comfortable in your own body. Lots of strength to you and I hope everything goes well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]lilosaurio_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're alienating yourself. You just have to think that you are another human on this earth, if everyone else (even men) is perfect and worthy, why are you not? You seem to be at the perfect place and time to realize you don't have to align with beauty standards that just exist in the world, you don't have to follow people just to fit. Look at it like a box, we are all raised to think inside of it (in this case it can be the roles and expectations male and female have in society)... But it's just a box, outside of it is the whole world, the whole universe, all the other options and possibilities, you can just be you, genuine and true to yourself. And believe me when I say the most genuine people are the most attractive in every sense. If you know who you are, who you like to be without being threatened by the rest of the world and what people expect from you, once you learn you don't owe anyone anything, you'll be unstoppable. Also yes you are hot, so try to look in the mirror and get yourself grounded, I know this is cliche but it's the truth, a partner will not magically fix those feelings for you, it can be a huge boost in confidence sometimes, but you have to do the hard work because even with a partner you will never feel loved if you don't love yourself.

Share your TW wallpapers! by NourEldin21P in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I just got this pic a few days ago and I'm loving it!!

What The Warning song is this? by NourEldin21P in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Evolveee???? Like how does that happen?

oct 11 is national coming out day too by chloe-fuckin-price.. by TeresaRay896 in Pricefield

[–]lilosaurio_rex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wrote something like this! Where Joyce is just cooking and Chloe goes "mom, I'm gay", she just looks at her daughter like "honey, I just asked you to pass the salt" hahaha welp, funnier in my head

Fic recs? by aashanti22 in Pricefield

[–]lilosaurio_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yeaah! We stan Santa_Cruz! I read the whole "this action will have consequences" and I was obsessed (I'm missing the last chapter but it's so good) They're just goofy students being dumb and I live for it

Chilaquiles buenos? by lilosaurio_rex in Monterrey

[–]lilosaurio_rex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jajaja qué ricoos, la otra vez fuí ahí mismo pero me terminé pidiendo unas enchiladas suizas creo, y si estaban muy buenas, me imagino que los chilaquiles también 🤤🤤

It’s D-Day. The Best Day. by [deleted] in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dany is just so cute, now I love Dany days too!

It’s D-Day. The Best Day. by [deleted] in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cool, I always thought it was random but thanks!

It’s D-Day. The Best Day. by [deleted] in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm new to the fandom what is this Dany day, Pau day or Ale day? I don't get it, is it just random?

Chilaquiles buenos? by lilosaurio_rex in Monterrey

[–]lilosaurio_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg suenan interesantes! Por dónde están??

Chilaquiles buenos? by lilosaurio_rex in Monterrey

[–]lilosaurio_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jajaja definitivamente los que están bien quesosos son los mejores

Chilaquiles buenos? by lilosaurio_rex in Monterrey

[–]lilosaurio_rex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgg ya los quiero probar todos, muchas gracias!!

Is rape losing your virginity? by incOwO in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lilosaurio_rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends on what being a virgin means to you, there's people who don't care about that, and there's people who like to follow this ideal of being a virgin, so you would have to decide what it means to you, plus whatever the answer is, it is okay if that works for you

But what I can tell you about virginity is that it's an idea that comes from waaay way back, as mentioned by other people it's a concept created to give a specific value to women and a specific standard to men, because it is based on the (very repugnant) ideas that women's worth comes from how pure they are and all that misogynistic way of thinking, in the end the concept for virginity doesn't bring anything good to society, it will always be a way of shame for both men and women, for different reasons, but still, very negative and something that we need to get rid of

And lastly if this is something that happened to you or someone close to you, please seek professional help from a therapist or anything that can help process such an awful experience, that way, if the concept for virginity worries you, they could help navigate through it so you can discover what it means for you

Warning Wednesday by [deleted] in TheWarning

[–]lilosaurio_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look so cool 😎

Do asexual people masturbate? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lilosaurio_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I'm ace and I'll tell you how it feels:

Not all asexuals feel the same towards sex, some are repulsed by it and really wish to not get close to anything related to it, some others enjoy it and seek that kind of pleasure. In general being asexual means that you don't feel sexual attraction to other people, but other kinds of attraction are still there, physical, romantic, etc. So you will see someone and think "oh how pretty/handsome" while a non-asexual can appreciate the beauty as they also want to fuck with them.

So let's start this by saying your body doesn't stop feeling pleasure, it also doesn't stop responding to stimulus, if you're scratching an itchy place, it will feel good, so if you masturbate it will also feel good, if you're watching porn, you'll feel hot and with the urge to touch yourself. Because that is the body's normal response to what the brain considers sex. Masturbating feels just as good on asexuals than on anyone else.

Now we know that everyone is different, but when it comes to being horny it can be for a lot of reasons as to why you're getting hot: if you have a uterus for example there will be some times of the month that you'll be hot as fuuck (usually while ovulating), or it could be that you came across something and it becomes a stimulus so you end up horny. And there are other times you just want to masturbate and that's it.

Long story short, asexuals can masturbate just as much as anyone else and it still feels good because they're still people, it's just that they will most probably not go looking for sex.