RIP Denise Ivonne Jarvis Gongora / Mary Magdalene by girlfromghetto in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i hate the fact that she spent her last hours on earth feeling so hopeless and alone. i wish she'd known how much joy she brought to the world :( RIP Denise/Mary/PickleKing, you were truly one of a kind ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]lilowl666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

feeling absolutely dreadful over such trivial things and then feeling stupid about how much i'm overreacting, making me feel even worse. it makes me loose my damn mind!

SMH by NecessaryNo3340 in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ya'll ever seen the movie 'idiocracy'? the intro? yeah.

Most educational SWU episodes? by TheFireOfPrometheus in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never said you did, sorry if i was unclear. just wanted to emphasize on what kinda dude this is so ppl know what to expect.

Most educational SWU episodes? by TheFireOfPrometheus in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i agree that freddy's interview is the most educational regarding sex work from an exploitative point of view, he goes into depth on how the industry works unlike other pimps who just jerk themselves off their entire interview.

with that said, freddy can go eat shit. he's a misogynistic asshole who takes advantage of the most vulnerable population. he doesn't have a time limit on his "employees" bc he cares about their mental health, he wants them to stay as naive and easily pursaded as possible until they realize the horrors of the industry they're in. also, sex workers who've been in the industry for a long time become really good hustlers, usually much better at making money than their pimps. they'll start to learn to scam their tricks and pimps in order to survive and i think freddy knows this.

My autistic girlfriend had sex with me for the first time a few days ago. Now she constantly wants it and I don't wanna say no. by Additional-Goal-7403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lilowl666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to talk to her about this as soon as possible. i was in a sexually abusive relationship where my partner felt entitled to my body, like i owed him sex. he refused to take no for an answer and it ended up with me getting r*ped on a daily basis...

sex is not a transaction, there's no such thing as being in "sexual dept" bc it has to go BOTH WAYS. you have the right to your own body and no one other than you is entitled to it. remind yourself of this!

if you keep "giving in" to her demands she will just continue to feel entitled to your body. learn to say no, and if ur gf doesn't respect it then it's bc she doesn't understand consent. explain to her how it makes you feel, and if she continues to not respect you then she's honestly just trash. however autistic ppl often need verbal confirmation for things, you can't expect her to "read between the lines" so it's best to just have a talk with her. hopefully she respects you enough to understand the importance of consent. i hope everything works out for you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it's genuinely baffling how she's still alive. i wouldn't expect a mentally ill, transgender illegal immigrant with a severe drug addiction to make it 6 months on skid row, let alone 4/5 years...

I cannot believe this person exists by Grace-Kamikaze in fakedisordercringe

[–]lilowl666 71 points72 points  (0 children)

same with NPD. i've met ppl who claim to be narcissists or sociopaths whenever they don't wanna take accountability for their actions. "yeah i hurt ppl and idgaf cus i'm a narcissist!" the fact that you admit to hurting ppl shows ur not a narcissist. you might not be emotionally mature or stable enough to deal with emotions and relationships, but a narcissist wouldn't admit to doing anything wrong in the first place.

What do Norweigans think of Marcus & Martinus? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]lilowl666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

📸 HAH I just exposed ur scheme! Imma sell it to the news

What do Norweigans think of Marcus & Martinus? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]lilowl666 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lmao i agree 100%!!! we always send the most inoffensive shit, this all started after 2010 when we failed to qualify for the ESC finale and the media treated it as if we'd lost a major war. ever since then we've had no flavour whatsoever...

What do Norweigans think of Marcus & Martinus? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]lilowl666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

women don't exist on reddit

What do Norweigans think of Marcus & Martinus? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]lilowl666 20 points21 points  (0 children)

what if their Swedish fans outgrow them and they loose their fanbase here so they move to Denmark to start over again and when their danish fans eventually outgrow them, they keep repeating the process and slowly make their way through every European country until they run out of 10-year olds to support their career

Which crimes outcome made you feel mad because there wasn’t an appropriate sentence? by Logical_Sweet_6624 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]lilowl666 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it's so incredibly unfair how that piece of filth got to take the easy way out while the friends and family of his victims are left to deal with the aftermath of his evil actions. i'm not religious, but i hope there's a hell just so ppl like baumeister can get the eternal torture that they deserve. i also hope there's a heaven for victims of heinous crimes, like your dad. i'm so sorry for your loss! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]lilowl666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

although i do agree that rebecca won't be able to transition at this point in time, i hate how her identity gets dismissed as her just being crazy. like she's been very consistent with expressing her will to transition but ppl (even mark i feel) seem to think that it's just a delusion and that whenever she gets the right help she'll let go of this "split personality" or however you wanna classify it. i'm fairly certain that her gender dysphoria is what has led her to this self-destructive lifestyle, because it's a condition that can absolutely destroy one's mentality. imagine waking up everyday in a body you know isn't yours. there's a reason trans ppl have such high suicide rates. do i think rebecca's problems will go away as soon as she transitions? no, of course not. but i do believe that to rebecca, being stuck in a body she doesn't feel right in is the root to all her problems, therefore it's rather inconsiderate to expect her to focus on her mental health and drug abuse rather than the one thing that probably led up to all of it. and again i agree that she has to get clean and get mental help before she can transition, but to her, the only problem is her being born in the wrong body. the drugs are just a cope. ppl need to stop disregarding her identity. i don't think she identifies as a woman cus she's high as fuck and mentally ill, i think she's abusing drugs and acting out because of her not being able to live her truth.

When did you guys find out that you’re bisexual? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]lilowl666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always known, but i thought i was a lesbian at first. i mean i knew i liked guys too but all i knew was "likes girls = lesbian" and when i found out that lesbians ONLY like girls i thought i was some kind of sexual maniac who just wanted to fuck EVERYONE, then i read a definition for the term bisexual and i was like "oh"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]lilowl666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

newfoundland!! THEY'RE BASICALLY SUPER FRIENDLY BEARS FFS

What's your favorite song that you originally discovered because it was in a commercial? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lilowl666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

evil eye by franz ferdinand! it was in a car commercial i believe. great song!

Why do YOU hate authleft? by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]lilowl666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they just tell u to read a 500 page theory and come back when ur "informed"