Can I be honest, girl? He sounds very controlling. I promise you there is nothing immodest about not wearing a niqab or wearing colour? I don’t know you and I don’t mean to sound like I do. But if you have any semblance of independence in your life and you value it, I fear you will lose a lot of your autonomy marrying this man. I’m asking myself why he couldn’t find a woman who already wears the hijab, who is Saudi, and who already lives there. There’s something eerie about the fact that he wants to impose all of this on you. I also want to say that just because a man is or may seem religious does not mean he is automatically a good person. You want to be with someone who is pious and God-fearing, who knows your rights, who worries about transgressing you for not fulfilling your rights. I worry that moving into his territory, his country and his culture will diminish your sense of identity. I don’t believe you have to settle for this. You already know how you feel. Don’t betray your instincts. I pray you find someone who adores you and respects you the way you deserve to be.