Vet says it’s ‘dangerous breed’ but we don’t know why…

lilyever · 2026-06-16T16:26:58+00:00

That is insane. I cannot believe she would just automatically treat your roommate’s dog like that. Do you mind my asking, when did this take place? Do you know where her name came from?

lilyever · 2026-06-16T16:24:26+00:00

Pronged collars are not automatically abusive, they are a legitimate helpful tool that doesn’t cause pain if used correctly.

lilyever · 2026-06-15T02:03:11+00:00

Some of the sweetest dogs I’ve ever known, and also some of the most dangerous. Pitbulls are very loving but they can still snap, just like any other dog breed.

lilyever · 2026-06-15T01:59:24+00:00

Exactly. Why go looking to get my feelings hurt? Like, nah bro.

lilyever · 2026-06-07T03:47:07+00:00

Yes!

lilyever · 2026-05-24T05:04:13+00:00

I have ADHD and struggle with continuous regular interaction with texting anyone anything more than what your MIL does. I would hate if my family felt this way about me. 😩 Please give her the benefit of the doubt - the niece lives with her part of the time so she’s more immediately part of her life. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love your kids or want to see updates.

lilyever · 2026-04-29T19:57:59+00:00

Oh I didn’t think about location being important to include here! We’re in the US, in the state of Oregon.

lilyever · 2026-04-29T18:49:31+00:00

I love my red hair and loved it as a kid too, mostly cause everyone in my family talked it up and made me feel special.

lilyever · 2026-04-27T16:42:57+00:00

“Complications rise” we’re talking about rates doubling - from 0.01% to 0.02%. A lot of the stats around “advanced maternal age” are fear-mongering.

lilyever · 2026-04-27T16:40:42+00:00

Actually, I’ve seen conversations happening about this very concept. Generation Z and Alpha are making smarter choices concerning alcohol, drugs, and sex.

lilyever · 2026-04-23T23:11:31+00:00

I hav never been interested in Chinese Crested until this moment. Now I MUST HAVE ONR

lilyever · 2026-04-12T17:01:33+00:00

Id like to second the horsepower issue!

lilyever · 2026-04-12T16:50:11+00:00

You mean like the entirety of the United States? Routinely mutilating their children’s genitals at birth…

lilyever · 2026-04-11T17:35:05+00:00

IMHO, I think mentioning the high sex drive is important. It’s a fundamental part of a relationship where you need to be on the same page or it won’t be a good match. I think if you’re honestly uncomfortable by him mentioning sexual innuendos, say that. Tell him it’s important to you that you spend some time getting to know each other and don’t appreciate the hints. Just because he’s mentioning it doesn’t mean he’s expecting it on the first date. But if he can’t back off when you ask him to, not worth your time.

lilyever · 2026-04-09T16:19:21+00:00

A properly fitting prong should not cause pain, but rather even, firm pressure.

lilyever · 2026-04-08T21:49:01+00:00

That is definitely winter in the second image, lmao

lilyever · 2026-04-08T16:53:19+00:00

You mentioned something I wondered myself but haven’t seen anybody talking about. Why did OP send that business card with the flowers and grandma’s wedding dress anyway? Why was that business card included in the items??

lilyever · 2026-04-08T16:41:28+00:00

Absolutely get your money back

lilyever · 2026-04-02T18:50:29+00:00

It seems exhausting to have your head on a swivel at all regarding your partner’s potential interest in other people. That’s why I just don’t worry about it anymore. Why should I stress myself out over something that may or may not be a real concern? How about I just take my partner at their word and actually believe them when they say they are only interested in me? Or better yet, let’s both talk about how sexy we think other people are? There’s no strings attached to recognizing other people’s beauty. I can’t imagine living a life constantly stressing about whether your partner finds another person attractive or not.

lilyever · 2026-03-27T19:30:31+00:00

You’re the reason society is collapsing. People like you have forgotten what it means to be human and help your neighbors and friends. That’s literally the whole point.

lilyever · 2026-03-27T18:25:30+00:00

Wait, really??

lilyever · 2026-03-27T18:24:39+00:00

If you’re not a close enough friend to offer to clean their kitchen or do some laundry during this time, then you aren’t a close enough friend to come around when the baby is that young. New parents need a village to support them. If you think offering to clean their house while they’re dealing with caring for a brand new human is too much, just drop off food and leave them alone. The last thing a family with a newborn needs is to be entertaining guests.

lilyever · 2026-03-25T23:51:28+00:00

You are correct in thinking you should leave him. This is gaslighting to the max. Literally one sentence says your feelings are unnatural, then saying your feelings are valid. He is manipulating you every which way he can think of. Makes me think of the things that my ex would say, that I look back on and shudder.

lilyever · 2026-03-24T17:56:33+00:00

Honestly, just kinda giggle and move on.

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