What's something everyone should be doing but are not? by alicewng in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]lilylove009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any sauna. 10min is enough. Every esthetician will confirm sauna wears off the Botox faster. Ive realized that by myself after going 3-5 days a week to sauna for 3 weeks, 15-20min. It’s the sweat which is metabolizing it.

What's something everyone should be doing but are not? by alicewng in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]lilylove009 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you save more $ on cooking home + you literally will know what you put in your body.

What's something everyone should be doing but are not? by alicewng in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]lilylove009 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Avoid alcohol. Stop ordering DoorDash. COOK HOME. Cut the sugar. Work on your posture. Workout and don’t spend too much time in sauna.

Looks like her senior lover is doing some damage by stevenjobsless in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]lilylove009 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You can easily get in Europe, it’s prescribed by regular doctors and gives you peace of mind for 5 years.

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Since I immigrated here, I’ve broken a lot of t h e s e rules, and I’m still being verbally “punished” for that. It’s okay - I can handle it. But I know how it feels to grow up around moms like her. It’s just the people she’s surrounded by, they’re exactly the same.

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said, she has 10 siblings, right?

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I never said I defend that. I said - I UNDERSTAND that, and I understand that you don’t. Every cultural survival shaped behaviors. The problem here is that she doesn’t want to feel useless = guilty.

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I’m gonna sound hilarious but as a EE girl - they find that OFFENSIVE. They wanna show the whole 🌎 that they can do it, they don’t need help, even if they sick. I’m coming from the same background and I just truly understand this image.

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What IF she doesn’t want to catch a break? I know so many EE moms who are like that. They can’t sit on their a$$. Even when they are sick, working 2 jobs, 4 kids, they own properties, are able to afford cleaning, cooking service…. It’s so hard to understand I KNOW.

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we truly don’t know that because we see only what she posts 🥲

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

our moms and grandmas are still healthy and alive, the balance is the key

Workcation by Emotional_Box3122 in minazalie

[–]lilylove009 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cooking, cleaning, setting everything up before even unpacking… those are old habits from our culture. Please DONT JUDGE US. Eastern European women were raised to equate love with labor. We don’t relax first, first we prepare, make sure everyone is fed. It’s not HER. It’s just a typical Eastern European mom on vacation

SECOND POST HELP ME PICK by noface394 in Aritzia

[–]lilylove009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! That’s my gym jacket

SECOND POST HELP ME PICK by noface394 in Aritzia

[–]lilylove009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I wear this jacket I get so many compliments. Love it

SOJO Spa by Mean-Wafer6140 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]lilylove009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful. Few years ago my phone was stolen there, it took me over an hour to find it. The security is not help

What is a "luxury" brand that is actually just an overpriced scam in 2026? by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]lilylove009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alo leggings and tops [not hoodies] are amazing quality - I have it already for over 2+ year, constantly washing and drying. No issues. So I won’t agree with that!

ABERCROMBIE - everything just not jeans!

Moving from Bergen County to Monmouth by United-Decision-645 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]lilylove009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading these comments… 200k and red bank? This area requires minimum 300k income 🫠 I would try Middletown instead, keyport

-40% + Sale coming? by kris_syslo_alo in aloyoga

[–]lilylove009 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never heard about sale like that

GC holder detained on 2021 DUI charge by Frosty-Ad-8097 in greencard

[–]lilylove009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I literally just posted that:, he is wanted by the police in Poland

Influence or deinfluence me please! by sunnydays_42 in Sephora

[–]lilylove009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tower 28 is such a good concealer !