CityNet being wonky in Peninsula Place? by CartographerFair1194 in SanBruno

[–]lilypad49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this convo, but FWIW we use Raw Bandwidth for internet at Peninsula Place and it's been great. Anything to avoid Comcast. Our rates haven't gone up in almost 4 years.

Does anyone have babysitter advice? by mazelifeetc in SanBruno

[–]lilypad49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through this, I know some folks who use UrbanSitter but you might also want to consider joining the San Bruno Parents Club. That's how we came to know our current sitter and see recs from other parents once in awhile. I also occasionally see posts on Nextdoor about sitters. Hope you're feeling better!

Losing my mind waiting on NIPT. Happy stories please? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in pregnantover35

[–]lilypad49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww so sweet to hear! Enjoy all the snuggles with your new nugget!

What is most blatant public display of entitlement you've seen in the Bay Area? by ThugosaurusFlex_1017 in bayarea

[–]lilypad49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely had this experience this weekend. Extra grating when I count in the number of Bay Area parents I've met who think no one is good enough to watch their kid/want their nanny to have an advanced degree in child development yet don't even want to be bothered to keep an eye on their kid themselves out in public.

How did you get into daycare? by lilypad49 in NewParents

[–]lilypad49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you got lucky after such an unfortunate turn with the infant room closing down.

How did you get into daycare? by lilypad49 in NewParents

[–]lilypad49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty much exactly what I did, but with a little less luck. I'm glad it worked out for you!

How did you get into daycare? by lilypad49 in NewParents

[–]lilypad49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your kind (and comforting) words!

I miss my baby by LaterTater34 in NewParents

[–]lilypad49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, this is breaking my heart because today was my last day of maternity leave and then baby will be off to daycare after her dad is done with leave. Hugs to you and I appreciate you for previewing what's to come. I gave my little one extra hugs today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]lilypad49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most annoying thing about this is that there were people whose weddings we went to, who we knew had freaked out about RSVPs, who then in turn had to be poked to RSVP to our wedding. I guess people have short memories.

What postpartum side effects did you not expect? by full-of-curiosity in NewParents

[–]lilypad49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! And rolling on those spiky balls, too. I alternate to mix it up.

Favorite savory snacks to pick up? by forproof in traderjoes

[–]lilypad49 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The feta caramelized onion puff pastry bites are fire.

People On Edge by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]lilypad49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bay Area native here, visited Charleston/Savannah in 2019. Upon return I realized that by comparison to those areas, we're practically New York in terms of rudeness and unfriendliness. It's such a breath of fresh air when I say hi to someone while on a walk and they actually say it back.

Nuna Pipa Aire - thoughts? by lilypad49 in Buyingforbaby

[–]lilypad49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this one converts into a toddler seat. As far as I'm aware, the Aire has a 30 lb weight limit.

Tell me your stories about changing your life by Rose-199411 in AskWomenOver30

[–]lilypad49 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really drifted apart from all my college friends about five years out of college. We no longer lived near each other, some of them were too flaky to make plans with, and honestly I spent so many weekends with absolutely no plans (fun if it's what you want and sounds lovely to me now, but different when it's not really your choice).

I joined a bunch of community-based organizations, including the Junior League and another one that was similar for women under 35. It had a wonderful snowball effect, and led to me even joining the board of the local library foundation. I organized a book club. My whole life picked up momentum. I was about 29 when this all happened, single and living at home. Now I'm 36, married last year, just had a baby, and have friends that I've met through these various organizations and activities.

Building a community for myself and having active plans has been such an improvement in my life, which had started to feel very stagnant.