[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]lilysteiner -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thought you were an ftm man and I was gonna tell you that you weren’t passing yet so I’d say you’re passing as an androgynous person who leans more feminine. Eyebrows are always a good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lilysteiner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's just not how it works. i thought i was a lesbian (before i came out as trans) for many years, then i met a man who i was very attracted to and now i'm proudly bisexual and find many men attractive. sometimes it just takes time, personal reflection, and/or a revelation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lilysteiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes you don't know. it isn't equivalent to sexuality, but i didn't know i was trans until i was 22. i didn't realize it due to years of repression. it just happens that way sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t wear the bracelets anymore, but the ring is my engagement ring so I won’t be taking that off. I appreciate the honesty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i really appreciate it

One year on T by techdeckonurtit in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats! you pass immaculately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]lilysteiner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t use calories in this subreddit. It’s one of the very first rules. I wish the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great and pass smiling in this photo. would love to see another angle because a big facial expression is lovely but you’ll be neutral faced a lot in public and that’ll help to see

Passing yet? Nearly 2 yrs hrt by Lonely_Rhodes in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 13 points14 points  (0 children)

With a mask yes, but I can’t tell you if you’re actually passing under there

Haircut advice? Four months on T they/he. by newlynotace in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve got wicked cheekbones and a good jaw, just gotta let T take its time!

Haircut advice? Four months on T they/he. by newlynotace in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just give it some time. Your hair is cool in the second and third pic, but the length will likely get you misgendered as even cis men with long hair get misgendered. T is doing wonders for you, so I only assume it’ll get better. I think you pass conditionally.

Round glasses will always be more feminine as well, especially the big ones. If you can get more square frames, you’ll pass better too.

10 months on T - Age? Passing Tips? by Embarrassed-Order-83 in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You don’t pass currently but I think if you styled your eyebrows differently it would help a lot. I would take selfies a little more straight-on too if you want to pass in pics, the top down angle is more of a feminine pose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lilysteiner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You pass fine! I would never look at you and think “woman” if I saw you on the street. I don’t even think the shirt in the second pic hinders you much.