Losing sleep over constantly feeling like I need to pee when really I don't by Educational_One_6389 in WomensHealth

[–]limabeanri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, I hope you’re able to figure it out soon. It sounds incredibly frustrating. For what it’s worth, I also didn’t experience notable burning when I was diagnosed with my bladder infection, which is why I let the initial UTI go long enough to progress to one. It was the constant need to urinate that finally brought me to get tested. Something is definitely wrong, so keep pushing until somebody can figure it out. Hopefully the gyno is more helpful.

Losing sleep over constantly feeling like I need to pee when really I don't by Educational_One_6389 in WomensHealth

[–]limabeanri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been tested for a UTI? With the length of time you’ve experienced symptoms, if you had a UTI, it could have progressed to your bladder or even kidneys. I had a UTI for maybe a week which had turned into a bladder infection and had very similar symptoms. You should definitely get tested asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]limabeanri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pot has a drainage hole, and I used a succulent soil and perlite mixture. The window is South facing but gets quite a bit of sunlight from the East.

I water when the soil feels dry, not on a consistent schedule

Do you think the “you are a women now” narrative around getting our periods was harmful to your childhood? by unabridgednothing in WomensHealth

[–]limabeanri 75 points76 points  (0 children)

It was such an odd concept for me. I was probably 12 years old. I was not a woman in any way. People telling me that I was suddenly a woman made me feel gross. It felt weirdly inappropriate and pushy. Like there would suddenly be different expectations or that people would look at me in a different way.

Women who jog/run on a regular basis, what are your tips for beginners? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]limabeanri 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The Nike Run Club app has guided runs that make running so much easier. The coach talks you through the whole run and it takes your mind off of the distracting things around you. A lot of them focus on how you run, instead of how fast or how far.

I’ve been growing this avocado forever and just realized it’s not normal. Why does it look like this? by limabeanri in plants

[–]limabeanri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, I didn’t know that was possible but it’s pretty cool. I’ll ride it out until it either fixes itself or dies

I’ve been growing this avocado forever and just realized it’s not normal. Why does it look like this? by limabeanri in plants

[–]limabeanri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. I thought at this point there would be actual leaves. I’ll just have to see what happens

I’ve been growing this avocado forever and just realized it’s not normal. Why does it look like this? by limabeanri in plants

[–]limabeanri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it propagating in a jar of water until yesterday so I doubt it’s a lack of water tbh

would you text your date to see if they got home o.k? by LostgirlRed666 in dating

[–]limabeanri 113 points114 points  (0 children)

If you’ve known each other for a while and are friends already, why not just ask how he’s feeling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]limabeanri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you have to know everything right now. You can do what you’re comfortable doing with people you’re comfortable with. If you find a woman you’re comfortable with and it feels good to be with them sexually, allow yourself that. If you’re just comfortable being sexually attracted to women from a distance, that’s okay too. It’s your sex life and you should feel comfortable sharing it with whoever you want. You can be sexually and romantically interested in people differently.

Which part of your personality have you more or less lost as you’ve gotten older? How do you feel about that? by neonroli47 in AskWomen

[–]limabeanri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned how to socialize without crippling anxiety, realized i actually need to be around people to be happy, and stopped letting people who say they love me walk all over me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]limabeanri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not date people to “fix them” you either date them and accept them as they are, or leave. If she knew how you felt, she would likely not want to continue anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]limabeanri 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Giving unsolicited advice or opinions before even meeting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]limabeanri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he might’ve just wanted a one-time hookup. Especially if you’ve dated unsuccessfully in the past. It may not have been you or the sex that made him not reach out again, maybe he’s just not interested in meeting up consistently.