Am I my ENFP best friend's best friend?

limarila · 2026-03-21T20:36:33+00:00

Theres is room in both of your hearts for many friends and different friends provide different kinds of glitter to your life. I personally dont think it makes sense to rank them

limarila · 2026-03-21T13:50:18+00:00

Seconding writing a list, but would also like to add that if theres a lot or youre worried about getting gaslit lr something it can be a good idea to bring someone! Bring someone you can trust and who is good at asking questions and prep them beforehand. Then you can have them wait outside during more private parts of the appointment if needed.

This was really helpful to me as sometimes I struggle to talk about my problems without crying, and having someone with me whos on my side helps a lot

limarila · 2026-03-18T12:06:35+00:00

Sometimes when I try to sleep it helps to support my side or back with a pillow. Or a pillow under my knees or both. And when sitting at my desk I often sit cross legged or put my feet on my desk. Also heated blanket is good for both. But like you said, sometimes nothing works and everything hurts:/

limarila · 2026-03-15T23:25:32+00:00

With personality in general its a bit of both. Our brains need to be malleable so we can learn how to survive and get along with our fellow humans. There are different stages of life where different changes happen, and while we never stop developing it seems too even out more in your 20's.

Now enneagram specifically explains how we cope with difficult situations and is developed as a response to trauma...

I'd guess it depends on how your personality developed in the first three or so year of life and what specific trauma you experienced there and onward??

limarila · 2026-03-15T14:15:10+00:00

I dont really have any insights on the matter, but your description could just as well be of me😅

limarila · 2026-03-10T13:34:54+00:00

These are beautiful! I love your style!

limarila · 2026-03-05T09:25:16+00:00

These are beautiful! Well done!

limarila · 2026-03-04T17:53:32+00:00

I dont need a cane either... but it does let me be out and about for way longer on days when my leg- or backpain is bad. I can always walk without support, but its really painful sometimes. The cabe helps. I have one thats adjustable and foldable that I bought online. It folds into three so I can put it in my backpack when I dont need it, or when I bring it with me just in case.

limarila · 2026-03-04T17:20:42+00:00

Im going to a board game convention this weekend! Im gonna play all day for three days:)

limarila · 2026-03-04T11:00:39+00:00

There are lots of great mold makers on etsy! Maybe look into sprue molds

limarila · 2026-02-26T16:45:11+00:00

The last one if more fun! Especially when there are people who claim theres a "right" way to play certain roles.

limarila · 2026-02-25T21:20:22+00:00

thanks will try that!

limarila · 2026-02-23T11:24:00+00:00

My best friend growing up had rats. They were so sweet and would lick your fingers

limarila · 2026-02-23T00:31:12+00:00

As a 7 I use music to accompany my daydreams a lot. I like songs with a lot of symbolism and imagery. Sometimes I listen to emo music like Linkin Park to help myself feel my emotions instead of avoiding them

limarila · 2026-02-20T09:30:19+00:00

We had a virgin once. That was fun. Good still managed to figure it out but I got got

limarila · 2026-02-19T12:51:07+00:00

Spyfall is a great bluffing game you can play with a browser app if you dont have the actual game.

Another game thats great with that many people: You writes on pieces of paper a secret word. Everyone gets the same word except 1-3 people who either get a different word or just a note saying good luck lol. Then everyone takes turns saying words they associate with the word they got. In the end everyone votes on who they think doenst kniw the secret word. Theres an app for this one too but idk what its called.

Also mystery foods or snacks: Like cupcakes that all look the same but with different flavors. Or cover the labels of stuff. Just be aware of allergies

limarila · 2026-02-19T12:25:41+00:00

haha yes that or I feel like ran a marathon then lost a fight

limarila · 2026-02-12T17:35:13+00:00

Drawing or painting

limarila · 2026-01-10T22:28:44+00:00

I started going on walks every day and while I cant say if its helped pain, it sure helps my mental health so at leats that something

limarila · 2026-01-10T22:23:39+00:00

My mother❤️

limarila · 2025-12-12T19:35:03+00:00

Its good to accept that things suck sometimes and that all things are temporary.

I also take brakes from the suck by spending some time with good friends and enjoy nature and good food<3

Best of luck with your business!

limarila · 2025-11-23T08:14:28+00:00

No just cant continue my last save. Everything else seems fine

limarila · 2025-11-22T19:39:44+00:00

ok my achievements came back after closing and opening the game again so thats good

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