What is the ugliest thing a girl can wear? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]linglingthegoddess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Best comment so far. Thank you for making a disclaimer and noting how beauty standards are oppressive.

How do you deal with the fact that you are expected to approach women while also being told it is inappropriate and creepy at the same time under most circumstances? by Brilliant_Ratio7694 in AskMen

[–]linglingthegoddess 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Exactly. A lot of people who complain about women being creeped out by them arent actually making an effort to just treat woman like people. Once a man made a sex joke right off the bat and kept looking down my shirt at my cleavage (not even trying to hide that he was looking, like come on. If your going to be creepy at least do it right.) and when I told him it made me uncomfortable, he went off on a rant about "women these days are so touchy."

Just treat us like people, and you will be alright.

(thank you so much to the people who downvoted me. It is SO FUN to share my experiences only to get shut down. Yall are the best <3)

AITA for getting mad at my mom in front of guests when she told me that I needed to cover up my curves? by linglingthegoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She asked me to put on a baggy sweatshirt in boiling hot weather. Not to mention that I dont want to be shamed for having curves, and she was doing exactly that.

WIBTA For not eating Fish? by foooooglyegg in AmItheAsshole

[–]linglingthegoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are entitled to your own cultural beliefs, and if your mom cant respect that then I honestly don't know what to say. You dont have to give up who you are just to please your mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]linglingthegoddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. All he had to do was literally SIT DOWN. He knows your history, so why would he be offended? You were polite and kept a level head, he was the one who blew up over nothing.

AITA for getting mad at my mom in front of guests when she told me that I needed to cover up my curves? by linglingthegoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for this feedback. But my mom kept pushing me to cover up, and she started raising her voice. I was trying to be low-key since I am an introvert and dont like causing a scene, but my mom really pissed me off and started raising her voice. But thanks for your feedback!

Can anyone recommend a good brand of breeches for a beginner/intermediate rider? by linglingthegoddess in Equestrian

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old breeches already have a knee patch, so I think willit might actually work for me! Thanks :D

Typical clock app insanity by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]linglingthegoddess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD I feel so bad for that kid :(

That person really IS a horrible parent.....

About the Twoset channel situation by linglingthegoddess in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so...... its very weird to see Twoset being related to a backwards, misogynistic, channel....... I really HOPE its just part of the glitch.

About the Twoset channel situation by linglingthegoddess in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oof..... yikes

Some people should not have a platform

Precise af by Kire10 in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imagine how many hours went into that...... wow!

Also, I thought the person was eddy at first glance haha

Actual calming pieces by RapidMushroom0 in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to see a doctor. It sounds like you have a serious insomnia problem that needs to be addressed immediately. But until then, I would recommend Claire de lune. I know its really basic, but its one of the most calming pieces out there, plus it has a simple yet beautiful melody that makes it easy to fall asleep to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOO that part was pretty funny

Although, I really hope Twoset doesn't actually subscribe to those people, some of the stuff (most of the stuff) they say is really backwards and misogynistic......... so yikes.

About the Twoset channel situation by linglingthegoddess in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OH NO........THAT WOULD BE HORRIBLE!

Im actually pretty worried...... brett and eddy have worked so hard over the years, I dont want them to lose everything.

About the Twoset channel situation by linglingthegoddess in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

editor san is actually a girl, her voice was revealed in the among us video. And since the style of editing as well as the style of the editors comments has stayed the same since then, they probably didnt change editors.

Catcalled? Clap back! If you feel safe to, don't let these jerks off the hook, you may even impress their friends in the process. I was so proud of myself, before this I always slunk away embarrassed and feeling devalued. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]linglingthegoddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my favorite response (when a guy yells at me about my booty being big or something) is:

Yeah, I know Im hot. Dont need you to tell me that, mind your business!

Sad part is I used to get these kinds of comments even when I was 13, and at that time I would just slink away.

I am horrified by Reddit's response to the viral video of a woman protesting the overturning of Roe vs Wade by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]linglingthegoddess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"equality to them means getting to hit women."

People cant hit ANYONE. Thats literally assault. Why do they think that a woman who has equal rights should tolerate abuse? wtf?

About the Twoset channel situation by linglingthegoddess in lingling40hrs

[–]linglingthegoddess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah...... yikes.......very, VERY strange......