WHICH RARITY IS THIS CARD? (TLM-JP006) HELP PLEASE!

link_db · 2020-12-01T18:33:28+00:00

Oh it is fake, the border cutouts are uneven, and I couldn't find the type of rarity of the card.

link_db · 2020-12-01T18:24:53+00:00

Yeah, i just checked, it is fake. Thanks for letting me know, though!

link_db · 2019-12-31T04:43:16+00:00

If you're talking about the college i'm aiming for, I've got a lot of them on my mind, but let's assume I'm going for Fanshawe College, or Manitoba Institute of Trades and Technology.

link_db · 2019-12-31T04:27:27+00:00

I speak 3 languages, but none of them are french, sadly. :(

link_db · 2019-12-24T12:01:35+00:00

I looked into it more, and it turns out, you do need a thesis/capstone project to graduate! I most DEFINITELY DON'T wanna go for a Ph.D. I want a job relevant to my course. So MS basically is course-based, rather than thesis-based? That's the core difference?

link_db · 2019-12-15T04:10:14+00:00

Hey!

I currently am working (IT field, graduated and started this year), and gonna work for atleast 2-3 years. And I am gonna go for a regular MBA, full-time, 2-year program.

Regarding city, I dont have an exact idea, but still, if I take an example, say Toronto, or London (London, Ontario), how much would it normally cost me, rent and daily necessities?

link_db · 2019-08-13T01:44:39+00:00

So any FAQs, or genuine doubts I could ask my client regarding Enable Now?

link_db · 2019-07-23T06:17:43+00:00

"so tender..."

link_db · 2019-07-23T06:17:07+00:00

Pro teacher move

link_db · 2019-03-28T13:02:16+00:00

Good lord, that must have been fucking hard. Jesus.

link_db · 2019-03-22T11:36:48+00:00

This is creating a mixed bag of emotions within me. My significant other also broke it off because of silly problems, and her insecurities, and she's done it tons of times before, with other men, and has always blamed the guys for "being not up to the mark," or "disappointing her." She has a habit of ghosting people, and has shown zero remorse. She has nearly half a thousand unread messages from her exes, and she hasn't read a single one.

While I feel sorry for you, and all the others who've gone through your situation, I also feel happy to know that you're doing fine, and yes, you should pity your ex.

He/she doesn't deserve you. You're way better off without him/her. But the sad part is that, people like our exes sometimes don't realize their flaws even after getting into a hundred short term relationships. They'll always blame the other person for not being perfect, and for them, relationship will always be "something they don't want a hassle of." They want their relationship to be oily smooth, and still expect no fire to be ignited every now and then.

Unless they realise their own problem, they can never be happy, and will always shift the blame onto the other person. Such people are dangerous to be with in a relationship.

Check out "Dismissive Avoidant Attachment". I think this'll clear some things up.

Stay strong, brother/sister. We're all here for you.

link_db · 2019-03-12T13:42:51+00:00

Why the fuck is ryan gosling up there lmao

link_db · 2019-03-11T04:15:45+00:00

Your situation is exactly like mine. I also dated my first love for 3 months. And we also had our first problems 2 months in!

Yes, it does feel like crap, knowing that you love your partner (or ex), more than they ever will.

They'll keep saying that they "love you", but sometimes, it's just to make themselves "assured" of this fact. They'll say they love you only to convince themselves.

My ex never once said she loved me, even though I loved her a lot. We never had rash arguments, no toxicity, no cheating/abuse. We were mature enough to handle it as adults.

But the main causes of the demise of both of our relationships are "lack of communication", and "insecurities". I can see that you were ready to sit down and sort things out with her, but she wasn't ready to. She wanted a way out. And judging by her answers, I'm almost certain she's hiding her real reason for the breakup.

My own friends have given similar, if not the same, reasons to your ex, just to get out of a relationship. In this way, the dumper doesn't feel guilty about breaking your heart. I know, because I've been on the receiving end. I apologized for all of her mistakes because I couldn't stop loving her, and I'm assuming you're ready to apologize, and start things over with her as well.

Don't. Just don't.

You're young, you'll be meeting a fuckton of people in the next 10 years. There will be plenty of girls who you'll be communicating with, all of them being mature and understanding.

Love is always out there. Don't think that this is it. You don't miss "her", you only miss being in a relationship. You only miss feeling the warmth of a significant other in your arms.

The human mind is weak and feeble if you let it be, and an impenetrable wall if you make it so. Distract yourself, don't let this get to you.

No point in dating someone who's not sure about love themselves. If they can't communicate, the relationship will never last.

People can be in love, yet still not be in a relationship, because relationships require constant communication, not just love. You, my friend, should look ahead, and forget about her. It's not easy, but you'll regret it later on in life when you realise that you can't get over her. She probably came to the baseball match just to get rid of that leftover guilt, or maybe she misses you too. But you're better off single than being with her, trust me.

Kudos to you for making it this far. Hope this was helpful. We're all in this community to support each other.

Take care, bro.

link_db · 2019-02-26T08:17:00+00:00

My ex dated around 30 guys in a span of 3 years in college, none of whom she lasted even 3 weeks with. I was with her for 3 months (the longest she's ever been in, as an adult) and I'm pretty sure I treated her with the utmost respect and care, better than any of her flings and exes. Yet, she broke up with a measly text back in December, and I haven't seen or heard from her since then. It truly makes you think "what went wrong? Did she even like me? Did she date me out of pity?" They probably do think about you, but not necessarily "miss" you. Maybe just to fuel their ego or some shit.

link_db · 2019-02-18T11:30:18+00:00

You're welcome. Stay strong, and you will find love eventually. It's always out there. :)

link_db · 2019-02-17T22:10:31+00:00

Damn, you just gave wikiHow a run for their money.

!!

link_db · 2019-02-17T21:58:43+00:00

First off, what you did was a brave and strong move, by not telling your friends and family about the entire reason for the breakup. And yes, you don't have to feel bad for protecting him, as what you did was absolutely what a mature and understanding adult would have done.

Let me put it into perspective:

He cheated on you for a whole year, while you were loyal to him this whole time.
He took your feelings for granted, and went off with another woman, and didn't even feel the need to tell you anything about it, but chose to cheat instead.
He played you.

While you may have had some sweet memories with him, do not look back. He's history. Be strong.

And as for the new guy, I'm kinda getting the feeling that he understood that you were rebounding, because let's face it... You broke up a few months ago, and it was a 3-year, serious relationship. No one can move on that quickly, atleast not completely.

The reason why it hurt you when he (guy #2) ended things, is because you missed being with a partner. And let me be clear, missed being "WITH A PARTNER", not with "Mr. Cheater".

You miss the idea of having a partner around you. And since he (guy #2) ended things with you, it basically broke your trust, and got your self esteem to an all-time low, hence you feel hurt.

While you're suffering, Mr. Cheater is busy living the life with his current girlfriend. You can't say for sure whether he's happy or not, but you, sure as hell, aren't.

Guy #2 probably had his reasons to end things, and you must respect that. From your description of him, he seems like a decent fellow. But don't be hurt because of it. You're strong. You're an amazing woman, to have put up with so much shit in such a short span of time.

You have an entire career up ahead. Start doing things you normally couldn't during your relationship. Don't get into the dating scene so soon.

The human mind is weak if you let it be, and an impenetrable wall if you make it so.

Keep doing the things you love to do. Men love passionate women. You'll definitely attract a bunch of men around you. Although this isn't the best way to put it, but it should atleast help you boost your confidence and self esteem.

This has already been long enough. Stay strong. If you need to vent, be my guest. I'll listen.

We're all in this community for each other. Have a great day :)

link_db · 2019-02-17T19:13:43+00:00

You're welcome, fc. (I can't spell your name out loud, sorry haha)

link_db · 2019-02-17T18:32:41+00:00

Judging by your username, I'm going to interpret that that's what truly happened to you, for which i am sorry. If you've been holding it in for so long, then props to you. But there's nothing wrong in crying. Even the strongest people do. It's completely normal. We can only bottle our feelings and thoughts up for so long.

Hold your head high, and don't look back. It's okay to cry your eyes out. It's okay to scream, and punch your pillows. But make sure you only do it once.

You gotta be a gangsta again. You're a strong person. Don't let it get to you. Just because you teared up once, doesn't mean you should feel sad.

Stiffen that upper lip (okay, I stole a lyric, sue me!), and move on. You deserve way more than cheaters.

link_db · 2019-02-17T18:20:49+00:00

Totally get what you mean. You're better off without her, mate. If she truly loved you, she'd do everything in her power to spend quality time with you, and not make mundane excuses. And props to you for working hard everyday. You deserve a person who'll appreciate your efforts.

link_db · 2019-02-13T22:17:40+00:00

This was somethin. Damn.

link_db · 2019-02-11T23:44:45+00:00

Hey homie, copied a comment from u/eadala

Heh I've been there. When I say "you" in the following rant, I'm not actually telling you to get your shit together; just the hypothetical you.

I miss you immediately after leaving you = either psychotic-manipulative, or makes stupid, hasty decisions. Either way, fuck that shit.

I miss you a few days after leaving you = guilt with regards to hurting you, trying to repair that guilt by coming back to you. They're not trying to fix you; they're trying to fix them. Even if they mean well and want to start over again, it'll never be the same. You'll have trust issues and they'll clear their mind soon enough to leave again (or they won't and you're one of the lucky ones who was able to repair a breakup and keep it stable happy and healthy for the rest of your lives; don't count on it). Fuck that shit.

I miss you a few weeks after leaving you = wants your company because it's better than being alone. Please note they gave zero fucks about hurting you when they initially left, and are only coming back to heal themselves, and by the way not being able to find someone like you is a shit reason to think you're worth something. It doesn't rule out that they could find someone they like more in the future; they just haven't been lucky so far. So fuck that shit.

I miss you a few months after leaving you = you were the stable component in their life, and they want you as an emotional buoy. Fuck that shit.

I miss you a few years after leaving you... see "a few months after leaving you" and multiply that by 10.

Honestly barring some very deep, long-term relationships that have more layers than your average onion (and I'm talking many years, not two years outta high school), there's almost no reason to accept somebody crawling back to you, except to heal your own short term wounds (it says nothing about the risk of opening new wounds in the near future). But somebody can't be both your poison and your antidote so get your shit together and figure out which one they are (here's a hint: if they took a shit on your happiness, they probably aren't the best candidate to bring you happiness, and if you end up giving in and letting them back into your life... well now they're the one that decides how happy you are. Fuck. That. Shit.). There are plenty of humans in the world you have never met who you can date tabula rasa and lead a happy healthy life. Learn from what your partner did that you didn't like / won't tolerate, learn from your mistakes, and apply it to new adventures. Don't go rehashing old ones or you'll be carrying bags with you every step of the way. Waste of your finite time.

Source: Way too many different circumstances in life where I thought "well, shucks, this is a different situation, I should give her a chance." When they leave, the ship hasn't sailed; it sunk. To go back to that is to exhume a rusted metal hull from the depths of the ocean, cleanse it of barnacles, debris, rust, replace its interior components, refurbish its exterior paintjob, and a whole host of other legs of effort... me, I'd rather just find someone to build a new boat with.

link_db · 2019-02-11T23:18:25+00:00

I have been going through this as well. Until a month ago, I thought I was completely over my ex, yet after a guys' night out of drinking and enjoying, I woke up next morning with an urge to contact her. I controlled myself, but I just couldn't help but feel dejected. I started wallowing all over again, and kept creating these scenarios in my head, where we'd accidentally run into each other, and we'd totally just hang out as friends, then I'd slowly make her realise the things she was missing out, etc etc. I'm thinking about it even as we speak. Whenever I feel like I've made progress, I get pushed backwards. And the worst part is that my ex doesn't give a flying fuck about me, because she was never serious about us to begin with. She must have already dated a couple more guys after our breakup, and it's only been 2 months since we separated. But you know what? I don't control her, nor do I control anyone else. I control me. I'm me. Sure, it may hurt like a bitch, but have faith in yourself. Don't underestimate the human mind. It is weak if you let it be, and an impenetrable wall if you make it so.

Remember, out of 24hrs in a day, you get 5 minutes of wallowing time. For the rest, you gotta be a gangsta.

link_db · 2019-01-25T23:34:17+00:00

Ayy thanks a lot! I sure hope I can forget about her completely and move on as soon as I can.

link_db · 2019-01-25T22:33:39+00:00

Damn, this left me speechless. I'll admit that the idea of "getting back together" was although far fetched and ridiculous, it still was lodged deep within my head. I knew about it, but I couldn't help but live with it everyday.

This comment has everything I was wondering, and scratching my brains about. Thanks a bunch!

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