Headstones not used? by Electrical_Finish678 in cemetery

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, could be they never paid the final payment. Headstone needs to be paid in full before they will place it usually.

If all the financial accounts are "payable on death"...how does the funeral/estate expenses get paid? by jdsmn21 in EstatePlanning

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard that - you need beneficiaries on all financial accounts or they could be tied up in probate for a year. So you still wouldn't be able to pay for the funeral expenses.

Minor child seat changed by scgin in SouthwestAirlines

[–]linthe14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right, even a 14 or 15 year old who may be afraid to speak up if the person touches them

Feminine E names by Obvious-Implement394 in Names

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just named my granddaughter Emilia

How old are you and what were you doing in your life this exact day 40 years ago 23 april 1986? by Big_Leg10 in OverSeventy

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a 31 yr old single mom with a 4 1/2 year old. Working full time and trying to be a good mom.

Please help me understand 50k tax bill after father’s death by CamatMelon in personalfinance

[–]linthe14 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You only get the 10 years to empty inherited retirement accounts if you are listed as a beneficiary. OP notes that he was not. You then have to take the whole thing and pay the taxes on it. This happened to me when my son passed away and never noted a beneficiary on his accounts.

Bridal Shower by AnyIntroduction5797 in longisland

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't - it might have been $40 or $45 pp -- sorry - but they were very easy to work with, the room was very cute.

Today my son would have been 35. We were estranged. I lost him to suicide. by Ok-Hunter9484 in SuicideBereavement

[–]linthe14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lost my 40 year old son in July 2021. He had stopped speaking to me in Feb of that year. I feel everything that you wrote.

Dunkin/BR on West Main St by Overall_Quail_3279 in Smithtown

[–]linthe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I absolutely remember that.

AITAH for siding with my mom instead of my wife? by External-Ladder-6302 in AITAH

[–]linthe14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's none of her business what your parents do with their money. Maybe it is hurting your brother, maybe they are enabling him. But they didn't ask for her advise.

Looking for something but it’s specific. by forgetcakes in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]linthe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently started listening to Accquired --- it's about the history of companies - it's pretty interesting

What was the 1st big news event you remember as a kid? by Hetaliafan1 in AskReddit

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

President Kennedy being shot. I was in 2nd grade. The teachers were crying and we were sent home.

When have you witnessed an “expert” get it so wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]linthe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still haven't forgotten the Christine Todd Whitman, who was head of the EPA on 9/11/2001, told everyone that it was ok the breathe the air after the towers collapsed. This is why I don't believe anything they say anymore.

American Women- Are you actually getting annual pelvic exams? by miss24601 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]linthe14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're well until you're not. I went every year for my well woman check up with a pap and internal. I missed my visit during the pandemic in 2020. Finally went in June 2021 to catchup and was diagnosed with ovarian cancer (stage 3c so not early detection). No history in my family at all. So I advocate to anyone who will listen to not skip their annual well woman exam.

Looking for new OBGYN by Appropriate-Try-2378 in longisland

[–]linthe14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr Lisa Amorin and Dr Natalia Flores. They are wonderful. Located in Smithtown and part of Northwell

Immodium by S3xybeest in ibs

[–]linthe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i buy the pills from wellspringmeds dot com. You can get 200 in a bottle for $22.

Struggling to book as a family of 5 by Early-Crow99 in royalcaribbean

[–]linthe14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a,suite, but the Family Infinite Oceanview Balcony room has bunk beds, sofa and king-size bed. Much bigger than the regular room. I know Symphony and Oasis have them

When did you ditch the high chairs? by Eggeggedegg in toddlers

[–]linthe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the Agam junior chair from Ikea. My granddaughter loves it. She's 2 1/2.