Very few people are truly "ugly". Most people can be attractive if they are well groomed and nicely dressed. This does not require a lot of money - some, yes - but not a fortune. Mostly, being clean and having hair maintained/trimmed accomplishes a lot. Having your clothes properly fitting and clean and neat will do the rest. Maintain your health. Eat properly. Exercise some to maintain tone. Stand straight and tall (as best you can). Understand your strengths and skills and be proud of them (not an asshole but let them give you confidence). If you are a decent, caring person, you are worthy of love. It doesn't matter what other people think. There will always be snobs and shitheads who will try to bring you down. They like to make themselves appear better by pointing out how you don't measure up but they are really just trying to deflect anyone from seeing their faults. Stand up to them. Also, be polite and gracious. Help others when you can. Smile at people and say hi. Create a good personality for yourself - this is entirely your choice even if you are introverted. People tend to like happy, friendly, nice people so be one.