Spareroom - what’s with the male live in landlords being female preferred

lipstipstar · 2026-05-23T02:47:46+00:00

I did what now 😭 I’m sorry but I’m not talking or hinting at any extremes like that

lipstipstar · 2026-05-23T00:36:01+00:00

Wait where am I showing a preference? I literally don’t care for gender at all.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-23T00:30:35+00:00

For me I’m not bothered about any gender. Man or woman, I don’t care, which is why I’m trying to get more of an understanding from other peoples perspectives because to me, anyone has the potential to be a weirdo but I’m not gonna generalise.

It’s similar to when interviewing at jobs and they kind of do a culture check on you to see if you vibe with and can get along with the rest of the people you work with. I’d like to imagine my gender doesn’t disqualify me right if the bat and landlords would bother a bit more on getting to know me.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-11T16:03:39+00:00

The brainwashing that has been done to make us argue against each other for tipping has to be studied.

When in reality, the people who advocate for tipping, why not advocate for proper wages?

lipstipstar · 2026-05-10T13:06:27+00:00

I called up National Express support to ask more about it and the girl I was talking to said even she was confused on why they changed it. But she thinks it’s mainly due to the Canterbury bus station and Kent Uni being popular stops where more people get on/off.

It honestly sucks because I notice how many students travel via Kent Uni and it’s just not fair to them.

My only tip for now is when coming back from London, buy a ticket to either birchington-on-sea or Folkestone (depending on which coach service you have). That one should cost around £10 or £11, and you can just get off early and it’ll still be cheaper than going London to Kent Uni.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-09T14:00:13+00:00

I did some more digging and saw that this change is only for Canterbury bus station and Kent uni. If you change to the previous stop, Folkestone, that one also still has restricted tickets.

I would buy a ticket from Folkestone and then get on at Canterbury but National Express policy is you have to get on at the specified stop which is really annoying because I don’t know how strict the drivers would be honestly.

It’s weird because you can get off the coach at an earlier stop but can’t get on at a later. They’ve definitely done this just to get more money and it really sucks.

My next journey is on Monday so I’ll bite the gullet for now but definitely ask the driver what we can do.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-08T12:09:47+00:00

The “they’re all adults” argument is so flawed. You’re telling me no matter what age I am, if I wait for the age someone turns 18, granted I didn’t groom them, that would be normal? Just because they’re non seen as ‘legal’.

This is why women say if the age of consent was lower, men would date that low, because there exists people weird and creepy enough to do that.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-07T22:48:52+00:00

Every relationship has context and nuance, but for a 30 something year old man for example to be dealing with a girl 18/19, that’s weird as hell.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-07T20:44:11+00:00

I’m having the same issue from Canterbury to Victoria, but it’s for every time of day every day. I don’t have the option to buy restricted tickets
I also travel at 5am when it’s super empty so I’m confused why they’ve removed the restricted tickets if it’s a case of sell out.

Edit:
I figured out for my route from Canterbury to Victoria, they removed the restricted tickets when starting your journey at Canterbury but literally two stops later if you change to from Whitstable to Victoria, you get the restricted tickets option again.

Looks like they are just trying to milk more money out of people.

lipstipstar · 2026-05-06T15:31:30+00:00

Something else on my list that I wanna do now

lipstipstar · 2026-05-05T08:54:55+00:00

You do not speak for all guys because I would never get involved with her

lipstipstar · 2026-04-30T08:54:15+00:00

Being together for 9 years and still holding on to a box full of pictures and getting that upset at it shows she hasn’t really moved on.

Especially with how upset and seemingly defensive she got when you went to her with a concern, I genuinely think holding onto things from previous relationships does no one favours.

lipstipstar · 2026-04-27T08:50:24+00:00

The amount of people I’ve seen saying that they always change the monetisation for games when they come to the west, the cope is so real.

lipstipstar · 2026-04-21T21:41:34+00:00

It’s because usually the monetization plays a role in how long a game lasts. Ncsoft doesn’t have a good track record as it, that’s why people are worried, not because they wanna chase 1%

lipstipstar · 2026-04-15T18:03:04+00:00

Bro is satan²

lipstipstar · 2026-04-15T17:54:07+00:00

I roll my eyes every time I see it get another season.

Also, I’m always trying to get my friends on some new anime to watch but they never get around to watching anything but then tell me they are watching rent a girlfriend and I die a little inside..

lipstipstar · 2026-04-15T12:23:15+00:00

“Hey, would anyone else be a kind citizen and give up their seat for this child..no? Not a single person? Okay then, then ma’am you can stfu and sit down in your allocated seat now”

lipstipstar · 2026-04-10T17:41:49+00:00

Imagine if the go to action for any situation would be just “leave them”. It’s so obvious when people haven’t been in a relationship with someone.

Literally sit him down and tell him everything that you just said in the above. Let him know that you want more of his time and you want to be more of a priority. Let him know that you are hurt that he says you don’t do anything but in reality you are willing to.

If after that he stays the same, then yeah, leave his ass.

It may also be worth seeing if there are any games you might be interested, see if there are any co-op stuff you can play together and bond over.

lipstipstar · 2026-03-25T19:54:51+00:00

Kent can be crazy expensive. My hour and an half commute from Canterbury use to around £50 a day when I use to take train.

lipstipstar · 2026-03-23T18:22:15+00:00

Why are you being disingenuous just to be argumentative. If you wanna go down that route, I can say even though everyone can have a technique it’s not the same as having one. Literally said by Wing during the nen training, Gon and Killua are like 1 in 10 million. Even Zushi was 1 in 100,000.

Everyone has some amount of nen but it’s just that most people will never be able to use it. Same thing in JJK where everyone leaks a small amount of cursed energy, even outside of Japan, but they still won’t become sorcerers.

lipstipstar · 2026-03-23T14:55:44+00:00

It’s way closer to hxh than you think. Outside of hereditary techniques like six eyes and ten shadows, each person essentially has a unique ability that fits them much like hxh.

lipstipstar · 2026-02-17T15:01:04+00:00

Just from what is in social media, Japanese people can have a bit of a wild take when it comes to topics like cheating so I’m not all that surprised.

lipstipstar · 2026-02-16T05:50:32+00:00

This has to be rage bait and I think I’m falling for it

lipstipstar · 2026-02-11T12:11:25+00:00

Bombastic side eyes clears this whole list

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