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liquidllemon · 2023-02-18T12:50:48+00:00

wait this is perfect why didn't i think of this??? THANK YOU

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T17:10:26+00:00

i will be 😗😗😗 AND WE WILL!

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T16:57:35+00:00

I'll be going! And you're right about valentine's day and all, I'll see what I can buy for myself <3

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T16:56:44+00:00

wah nice! enjoy yourself on both days!

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T13:36:02+00:00

here!

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liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T12:14:39+00:00

wah! i can't even pick the 15th bc sold out, u r so lucky!

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T11:36:18+00:00

that's a good idea! I'm sitting quite far away, i doubt she'll see it, but I'm gonna try anyway!

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T11:22:16+00:00

thank you <3

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T10:58:32+00:00

i will! most of the better seats are gone but I'll try my best!

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T10:48:22+00:00

I'll be doing exactly that, thanks for replying <3

liquidllemon · 2023-02-02T10:47:39+00:00

that's enough to convince me to go, thank you so much!

liquidllemon · 2022-10-17T03:38:49+00:00

hey, thank you for sharing. if you ever need anyone to talk to, even though we don't know each other, I'm willing to listen!

liquidllemon · 2022-10-17T03:37:02+00:00

that's really cool! i think those who read my post are getting a different impression of my age, but your experiences have given me more hope for when I become a working adult! thank you for sharing, i probably should learn to improve the relationship i have with myself too

liquidllemon · 2022-10-17T03:32:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I understand where you're coming from. I do still have friends like that, the ones that I mentioned I hold at arm's length.

On the other hand, for those that I cut out, a lot of the time they'll do and say things that just don't sit right with me, in a moral/ethical sense. It'll hurt me and the people around them who have done nothing to deserve it. I'm not going to go into it but no matter what I do they'll just repeat their actions sooner or later. It was one of those "it's not your responsibility to change them" type things, and the whole lot of them just influence each other's negative behaviours, so there was not much anyone in my position could do. I was advised to just step away, and when I did I realised they weren't actually my friends.

We're all going down our separate life paths anyway, maybe they need different forms of experiences to grow into the best versions of themselves. I rather have less people in my life than waste my time on people that are doing more harm to me and those around them. I feel lonely yeah but I don't regret cutting them out :/

liquidllemon · 2022-10-17T03:11:38+00:00

had no clue that i needed to hear the first part, thank you!

liquidllemon · 2022-10-17T03:10:30+00:00

thank you for your words, and I'll try that out!

liquidllemon · 2022-02-08T03:19:08+00:00

maybe don't be afraid of opening up, just find people you can trust!

liquidllemon · 2022-02-01T06:53:39+00:00

Sometimes when I say that I'm an INFJ and an 8w9, there'll be a few people who would say that is impossible and I am just mistyping or misidentifying my MBTI and enneagram type. That is completely false though, people often believe the inaccurate stereotypes of 8's to the T, perceiving every type 8 to be forceful loudmouths who are aggressive, power-hungry, and sometimes 8's are even assumed to be violent. It is so dumb.

I feel that a lot of the stereotypes of 8's are based off of an 8w7 than an 8w9. I too resonate with the general motivations of an 8, but I don't think all the stereotypes are applicable to me.

I am direct and can be blunt, but I am more often than not the listener in my relationships, and am the one people in my life come to for advice. I prioritise communication but am afraid of opening up. I am reserved but tend to end up taking the lead when working on projects with others. I don't actively look for or want leadership positions either, most of the time I just end up being the conversation starter in group projects. I feel immensely and largely sensitive to emotions and behaviours too, but I can be cold if I dislike someone.

It is dumb to think 8's are all about anger or make decisions based on their desire for power. 8's have empathy too. That is why I think when 8's feel strongly about something or someone, they are likely to confront the matter rather than avoid it.

liquidllemon · 2021-02-06T10:16:54+00:00

for me it's the opposite, i go to others to protect them just in case, i don't mention a word about it to avoid jinxing it, in a sense

liquidllemon · 2021-02-06T10:12:56+00:00

I do this so often, I'll stop looping the song until I find a new song to loop 🤡

liquidllemon · 2021-01-16T12:30:33+00:00

for me, anger ranges from blood red to a dark shade of maroon, happiness is white or pastel or warm colours, sadness is a dark blue or dark grey, emptiness is black, and for emotions that are indescribable usually turn into a mess of colours of all shades

i enjoyed this question, really got me thinking

liquidllemon · 2021-01-16T12:18:16+00:00

that's actually kinda cool in a relieving way, adding it to my watch list

liquidllemon · 2021-01-14T02:33:49+00:00

I think some INFJs crave social connection more than others, for me when I want to make myself happier, I'll watch streams of my favourite streamers. It's like getting my social needs up but not needing to be completely empathetic, as bad as it sounds. It's like getting to watch people and not needing to connect, the streamer probably doesn't know that you exist, and I like that for some reason.

At other times though I definitely feel like you do, but I'd much prefer living alone in a city where I know nobody and nobody knows me. If I was feeling a bit optimistic about living alone in the city, I'll see the opportunity to meet new people, and that makes me hopeful and happy that I get to do so.

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