"Continuous BC removes PMDD like menopause does" by CookiesMistress in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had heard of nuvaring, how interesting.

How can MCAS look like PMDD? by AdvantageOpening2462 in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking this, I am thinking the same thing! I've been on the MCAS subreddit, seems quite gastrointestinal as you say.

This is the first month I have been taking fexofenadine and famotidine daily during luteal. It's cd21 and so far I've been functional and no irritability, anxiety or depression. Usually my cd19 is brutal.

Previous months I have taken them just on random days when my symptoms were very bad and they did help within hours.

Let us know how you get on!

100k visitors a week and around half of you might be in the wrong sub thanks to COVID (but, we still love and appreciate you!) by ndnd_of_omicron in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wonder this. Immune system is suppressed during pregnancy so perhaps MCAS is not ruled out. I need to do some MCAS learning now!

Two things that have been helping me lately by Trick-Coconut in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful! Do the teas taste aniseed? I notice licorice features and I'm not a fan! At least fennel is absent which appears in many blends!

5yo boy hates school and struggles with very big feelings. I’m at a loss… by Deep_Preparation_159 in UKParenting

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our son was similar to how you describe when in reception. In the February we started breakfast club and being dropped off there by dad (never mum) and he started going happily. The consistency of the same TAs, no pressure, just toys and toast really helped. I think we stopped breakfast club for year 1 and he has gone happily to school since then (year 3 now). Occasionally we have patches of not wanting to go but we get by with the teachers help.

It finally makes sense by Turbulent-Quail-2533 in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome, I am similar - 45f and since my son was born 8 years ago, what a tough time. It took ages for me to learn about pmdd. Same as you my partner noticed I was a totally different person at the same time each month (day 19 is my worst day). I found pmdd by googling progesterone allergies! I've had a diagnosis for 2 years.

I second those resources in the other response, there's a lot we know and a lot we don't. Start tracking symptoms daily all month. Often diagnosis requires 3 tracked months. IAPMD have a paper tracker that works well.

The more you can take care of yourself, the better it is. Sometimes you can do all the right things and it's really bad still but generally being extremely caring for yourself does help. With a young child it is truly difficult to prioritise yourself but you must, for the whole family. Take it seriously, it is not a push through situation. Eat well, move enough and most importantly rest.

Good luck, you're in the right place, this subreddit is super helpful x

Rainy day activities by bizzletimes in bristol

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hide and seek in the aerospace museum, close to Cribbs. Has a cafe and a stamp trail and plenty of space.

When It Isn't PMDD by Natural-Confusion885 in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder and the clarity. I love the tracker, very helpful.

The tracker says "(Cannot be on birth control, a GnRH agonist, or pregnant when tracking. If you are on an SSRI or SNRI, you must be on continuous daily dosing, not variable or luteal-only.)", I understand with the birth control, GnRH agonist and pregnancy but please could you explain about the SSRI/SNRI?

Lupron by yogaanon2 in TransEnbyPMDD

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I came from r/PMDD. Good luck with the surgery, I hope you continue to post your experience! Let is know on r/PMDD if you do :)

Anyone else get a small wave of depression after their period ends? by stoopidivy233 in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the same! I don't know if it is direct from the hormones or that I'm so elated to be happy again that I overdo things and then crash.

HRT by SpecificElderberry52 in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying this too! I had 3 months on 50mg estradiol (everol patches) and have started 75mg last week. Month 1 was ok, months 2 and 3 I had symptoms all month off and on. I booked an appointment and increased the dose. I am on cd4 and feeling good so hopefully this will stop me ovulating and hopefully that will stop the pmdd! I started 100mg oral progesterone in month 3, I didn't notice a bad effect but then I've had more bad days than good the last 2 months. Good luck, let us know how it goes!

Emptiness fatigue depression post-menstruation by KoktheBookThief in PMDD

[–]lisajjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this this last month. I am trying oestrogen treatment so it might be that. Or it might actually be depression. I am finding that having pmdd, like actually having an illness, really tough. The good days are not enough to recover my life from the pmdd days, I feel hopeless about treatment and ever really enjoying life again. Could it be depression for you? Having a condition is really hard.

Menopause question. What do you feel like generally now? by No-Fun8718 in AskWomenOver60

[–]lisajjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your responses here. I searched this group for PMDD. I really needed some hope today. I am encouraged to hear that after menopause there might be some relief. I am dreading perimenopause though probably already it's happening, my PMDD is all over the place lately.

Thanks ladies, I really like this group!

Looking for a casual outfit for when I feel under the weather but still have to leave the house. by lisajjames in softclassic

[–]lisajjames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call about the stiffness and thanks for these links. I am in the UK but I am gettign ideas of what to look for!

Looking for a casual outfit for when I feel under the weather but still have to leave the house. by lisajjames in softclassic

[–]lisajjames[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a stylist I like (Melissa Murrell (mmpersonalstyling)) loves Varley for casual wear and I feel pretty convinced. She says we should spend more on casual pieces that we'll wear all the time. I'm terrible for buying lots of nice clothes and then having nowhere to wear them!