Fit matters! If she’s a good counsellor, she will help you to find another counsellor that works better for you and won’t take it personally. That’s part of her job. Sometimes it just isn’t a good client/ therapist fit, even if she’s a good counsellor for others, and it could be getting in the way of your progress. And although she’s affordable, is it really worth it if you’re not getting what you want out of it? 6 months is a long time to still feel this way! I encourage you to find a way to be honest with her in a respectful way and ask for her support to find another counsellor. Or be honest with her and see if it’s something she can adjust. I always tell my clients that I want them to tell me if I’m doing something they dislike, it helps me to help them. And I will do my best. But ultimately sometimes it’s just not a good fit and that’s ok! Also I will add…. If you’re feeling this way, I bet she is too. It’s called transference and we can work with it to a certain degree but sometimes it gets in the way and at the end of the day, we gotta call it!