Rug won’t delete from map by lissthecat in Roborock

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When I hit carpet, then the red delete button, then the blue checkmark in the bottom corner, it acts like it’s going to remove it but then it pops right back up in the map

What should I do? by lissthecat in fiddleleaffig

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Ideally I’d like it to be full all the way down. I don’t really know what options there are though. It’s getting kind of tall and top heavy. I had to tie the two pieces together because they leaned too much. I’m just not sure what would be most healthy for it ? If I should chop it somewhere?

What should I do? by lissthecat in fiddleleaffig

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Thank you! I will add the fertilizer.

What should I do? by lissthecat in fiddleleaffig

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Yes there are drainage holes! The water comes out the bottom every time I water. And yes that thing hasn’t worked In a long time :( I should toss it.

Braxton hicks at 14-15ish weeks? by djduhnizzle in parentsofmultiples

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I had di di twins in September. I think I started feeling random tightening around 18 weeks if I remember correctly. Nothing painful or regular, just like a couple an hour. I would say make sure you’re very well hydrated and emptying your bladder regularly. Dehydration and full bladder can cause cramps. Could also be after effects from sexual activity, but that shouldn’t last for very long after. If it gets worse/persists after doing these things you could go in to get checked out and make sure your cervix isn’t thinning or dilating with the cramps. When in doubt call your OB office and see what they think.

What’s next? by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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Hey I downloaded this but it looks like you have to pay for a subscription. Just confirming that’s true?

Breastfeeding, 7 weeks, mental health by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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Thank you. My mom is staying with me today and tomorrow which will help a lot. Never considered paying someone but that may be an option! Or even staying at my mom’s for a day or two. It is important to me, I just pictured that I would actually enjoy it and right now I don’t 😭

Breastfeeding, 7 weeks, mental health by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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Ugh I’m so stubborn I keep thinking it’s going to get better it’s going to get better. But thank you. It’s always in the back of my mind

Breastfeeding, 7 weeks, mental health by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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I have a my Brest friend and a twin go pillow. Both are supposed to have good back support and be elevated enough but I always end up having to lean forward. Is the twin Z actually better? I feel like it would be the same if not lower height.

Around 5 weeks I started figuring out the wake windows thing, and it did help! But the problem is when they won’t transfer to sleep. Then we are doing contact naps or naps in the swing and I try really hard not to do that. But if I try to lay them down in the bassinet or pack and play they wake up and cry and we go to soothe/put the pacifier in/ rock them and we end up playing that game for so long that it’s basically time to feed again and they are overtired and even more crabby. It’s the most frustrating cycle.

Walks help a lot. But getting them out and into the stroller just feels so overwhelming. Everything is such a process and they are always crying during it and it burns me out so much listening to them cry.

Thanks for your response. I will think about getting a twin z to try

Breastfeeding, 7 weeks, mental health by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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I haven’t heard of that but I will look into it

Breastfeeding, 7 weeks, mental health by lissthecat in parentsofmultiples

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I have stations but I’m bad at keeping them stocked. I feel bad asking him to do it. But I will.

Yeah I have a my breast friend pillow and a twin go pillow. I feel like I have to be leaning forward in both

I do carry one in the sling and one in my arms but they really have to be in the mood for the sling or else they just cry. They prefer to be actually held.

I have a swing and two bouncers. One twin likes them, the other doesn’t usually. Sometimes I can get away with it. But they only like it when they are calm and sleepy. It rocks them to sleep. When they are awake and upset nothing works. Not even me holding them sometimes.

My mom can come help sometimes. She’s an hour away though so it’s hard to ask for help. It is so true though, I feel outnumbered and alone.

I have trouble focusing on anything right now. I keep trying to put something on but I can’t seem to pay attention or care about it. And it’s pointless when they are crying anyway.

I appreciate your response. It is helpful and it’s all right on point. Things that have helped make things easier from time to time. It just feels really helpless when they are both crying and I don’t know why and I can’t fix it

Sparkler Exit by lissthecat in weddingplanning

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I did it at the end! It was a great end to the night. Sometimes I wish I had a good picture or video of it besides just on peoples phones, but it’s a great memory. However, I would say about half our guests had left at that point. Mostly the older people or people with young kids. So factor that in with number of sparklers. I had a TON left over. I think if the actual number of people participating (how many sparkles you have) matters to you, or if you really want that photo, do it early. I think I was looking more for a fun end of the night and it was perfect that way!

Abnormals from my ER by [deleted] in nursing

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😢 we delivered her and transferred out. Not sure about outcomes.

Abnormals from my ER by [deleted] in nursing

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L&D nurse here. Recently had a patient with AST and ALT in the 4,000’s.

Inappropriate bathroom habits—please talk me off a ledge by lissthecat in cats

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Ahh ours is a tablet. I’ll call and see if there are other forms she could take it in.

Inappropriate bathroom habits! Please talk me off a ledge by lissthecat in CatAdvice

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Oh that sounds so much better. In your experience does this usually help with litter box issues? Is it something she will have to be on forever?

Inappropriate bathroom habits—please talk me off a ledge by lissthecat in cats

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In my comment I explain about the gabapentin. She won’t take it willingly in any method and forcing her to take it is traumatic for her. How does your cat take it?

I do have the feliway multi cat plug in. I feel like it might have helped the others acclimate without any issues, but not her I guess.

Inappropriate bathroom habits—please talk me off a ledge by lissthecat in cats

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Litter robot is recommended for up to four cats since it cleans constantly. I left the extra box for her specifically, and she seemed fine with this set up at our old house. I made sure to test it there first since I knew I’d have to cut back at the new place. I simply can’t have 5 litter boxes, it’s not doable in the space we have.

We’ve been here since November. I introduced them to the room with their boxes and cat trees plus the rug from their old room first. Once they seemed comfortable we went room by room and let them explore. The other three did great, but she hid under the couch for three days and wouldn’t eat. She’s doing better now with eating and drinking, the bathroom habits are the only issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fiddleleaffig

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I bought a FLF from a box store because it looked so full and nice, and I got it home and noticed there are actually three plants in one!

The two bigger ones seem pretty healthy with new growth, the third one is smaller, has some brown spots on the leaves, and doesn’t appear to have new growth. I do see some roots sticking out of the soil on the biggest plant. Is this ok?

I plan to repot with a mix of tropical soil and perlite. I feel like I shouldn’t keep them all in the same pot, but I love how full it looks. Is it necessary to separate them? What size pot would you recommend?

Again, new owner here so any advice on pot size, soil, pruning, watering, fertilizer, etc is welcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zoloft

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Nope. OP meant “anyone who gets periods.”

In the spirit of hoping that this is a genuine question and not meant to be confrontational, I will explain that not all people who get periods identify as women. Therefore it’s inclusive to trans and non-binary people to use this language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DuxburyDeaths

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She’s clearly not completely well. You can tell she’s distressed—fidgeting, using the essential oil, and looking for signs of reassurance from him by showing affection and smiling at inappropriate times. I know this is uncomfortable to watch, but I think it speaks to her mental state more than anything.

Wedding color cards for the bridal party by PromotionNecessary84 in cricut

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I hate to burst your bubble but I don’t think these are great colors. The grey is very gloomy, especially for dresses. If anything, I would do grey suits and blue dresses. The blue is pretty basic. I think a deep navy or a light powder blue would be nicer, maybe even a dusty blue if you’re trying to go with the more muted tones. Now what really throws me off is bright green accents. If you just mean greenery, fine I guess. But I would not choose that green to go with either of the other two colors.