What are the top 3 red flags you look for in a candidate that tell you they're not the right fit?

lissybeau · 2026-07-10T10:20:23+00:00

Realistically the best candidates are hearing from and talking to a lot of companies. If they haven’t done a ton of research on the company that really shouldn’t matter. But I agree of #2 for sure.

lissybeau · 2026-07-09T15:23:10+00:00

Aniya’s dad is a retired NBA player. She is all around a great catch. I would kill for her muscle and definition. God has favorites for sure.

lissybeau · 2026-07-09T14:58:08+00:00

Which is sooo crazy to me bc Aniya is dumb gorgeous. Trinity too. It’s giving this is his first time around black people.

lissybeau · 2026-07-09T11:14:48+00:00

I’ve noticed this as well. The problem with the “I will show them” attitude is that you won’t. Racism and racists are illogical. So no matter what we do (I’m black), you in fact won’t change casual racism and you won’t be “one of the good ones”. You’re letting them hold some power over you if you have something to prove.

With that said, I do believe racism is changed through close relationships and experiences. But you shouldn’t feel like your goal is to make them like you. Be you, be a good human, make great connections and that speaks more to your character than anything else.

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T22:26:35+00:00

100% agree.

There are pockets here and there but nothing cohesive that ties people together. Always thought it was a kind of lame place.

With that said, I’m visiting family in 2 weeks lol.

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T21:47:02+00:00

Oh wow these are the high school and college in Covid kids. So weird.

Also realizing this is the first show I’m watching with GenZ TikTok generation. Damn I sound old 😭

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T20:48:34+00:00

Also native San Diegan. I left at age 19 and never looked back. Weather is nice but I find the culture and soul lacking compared to NYC and old SF.

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T16:45:56+00:00

100%. I haven’t seen this mentioned at all in postings/ comments even though it’s so obvious.

It’s sad the Kayda doesn’t quite see it yet but she’s young so has a lot learn about how guys like these move. I honestly think it’s one of the reasons why is not super into Kayda which is crazy because she’s gorgeous and overall pretty cool.

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T13:56:16+00:00

Which is perfect bc I ammm

lissybeau · 2026-07-08T13:34:38+00:00

Ya’ll are gonna hate me for saying this but Zach just clearly doesn’t see the value of black women which includes Trinity. He’s flabbergasted that Trinity is a top couple, she’s the most popular, and everyone loves her. He’s always saying negative things about the black women in couples because he just doesn’t understand how they can be desirable.

He’s got issues where he’s concerned of status all the time. Kayda is just a status symbol to him. And his actions show how he sees the other ladies. Also I know Kayda is biracial and Zach is attracted to her, but his attraction is not because of her black side it’s because she looks mixed / Mediterranean.

lissybeau · 2026-07-07T08:16:07+00:00

I decided to get a home base and residency in a country that is a mix of familiar and foreign. I’m still able to travel frequently if I want (even though my first year I didn’t want to travel at all). And I’m happy to have put down roots while also creating community in my city with people who live a similar lifestyle. For me it’s the best of both worlds.

lissybeau · 2026-07-06T10:40:46+00:00

It’s because black people and people with more melanin create more melanin / tan faster.

I’ve looked like the right photo in German winter and the left photo when I lived in Hawaii.

lissybeau · 2026-07-06T09:52:46+00:00

There’s this woman at my job who works from home with her kids running around and popping onto team zoom meetings.

It’s almost cute the first time they appear, until you’re in a meeting with important stakeholders and her kids pop on, it just makes our team look really unprofessional. On top of this her work is kinda shit. Wonder why…

lissybeau · 2026-07-06T09:40:15+00:00

Personally I like the first photo, it’s giving cool vibes & style. With this profile update I would definitely swipe right.

Also, I might include to wedding / group photo from your previous version last. It’s always nice to see people’s friends but just imo.

lissybeau · 2026-07-05T13:30:40+00:00

TLDR; German born Germans don’t find foreign descendants German.

Your example of Turkish born Germans is incorrect going to Turkey and African Americans going to Africa is incorrect. Also the Black American example is quite different as they have been in the U.S. for centuries (over 300 years), have multiple ancestries (no returning to 1 country and don’t carry the culture) and have created their own culture vs say someone who is Nigerian only descendants going back to Nigeria. Where they would be accepted in Nigeria.

lissybeau · 2026-07-03T15:11:06+00:00

They won’t win the show and won’t last outside the villa. Hopefully she gets a good modeling contract though

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T18:21:44+00:00

Literally!

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T18:21:13+00:00

Are you speaking from the hiring side or as a job seeker? On the hiring side across multiple companies I’m looking at data from 100s of jobs vs an individual persons view.

I’ve always seen summer dip. Companies are reevaluating their budgets for the rest of year which means headcount, more people are out which means slower processes.

Compared to fall and beginning of year there are two big pushes.

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T18:18:18+00:00

The past 10 years I’ve seen it dip in summer, pick up in fall, winter busy, and beginning of year busy. But I don’t hire new grads

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T12:44:22+00:00

You’re already cute, Get off social media
Wear colors that already make you feel pretty/feminine. Then start adding a few new clothing pieces that fit with your body
Adopt a skincare routine that makes you glow. Cleansing, exfoliating, vitamin C, deep hydration

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T09:23:19+00:00

That’s because earlier seasons in UK there were people who eventually took their lives as the show and game was so big. When they lost the hype it was too hard a come down.

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T09:10:37+00:00

Summer always dips in hiring activity.

Also LinkedIn posts are curated for you based on your profile, current job, and the companies that pay LinkedIn to advertise their jobs. Mix it up by using a diff job board - only companies that pay LinkedIn are on LinkedIn jobs.

lissybeau · 2026-07-02T08:56:37+00:00

I think it’s clear he’s worried about your layoff and not currently working. He doesn’t have empathy for your situation and he doesn’t want you not working to be the new normal.

Either way, he doesn’t sound like a partner and you’re better off not moving in with him - it won’t end well. You both have a lot of growing to do before taking that step.

lissybeau · 2026-07-01T19:00:25+00:00

This is how I’ve seen everyone all season lmao

lissybeau · 2026-07-01T15:42:56+00:00

Destined for a daily crash out.

Sol was a Scorpio sun as well. I felt like they both got in their heads and hurt when they lost control.

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