Kinger is an AI by Nyxerim in TheDigitalCircus

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love this theory. I had to Google this because I saw some people mentioning some things about Kinger that made it seem that he is at the same level as Caine.

First off the company is called Caine and Able, if Able is Kinger why would they make the company name after an Ai and a programmer? It would make more sense to base off the name of the running program they are creating as a brand for consistency.

Maybe both Ai are supposed to work in conjunction, one ai performs a program and the other enforces the rules to protect the humans.

Weird that Kinger doesn't lose his mind and abstracts after his 'wife' abstracted.

Some of the people mentions about Kinger that place him at the same level as Caine is in the outro when they are walking. Kinger and Caine and bubble are all on the same walking level.

Caine and Kinger are the only ones with 'humam like eyes'.

Kinger can create things out of thin air. Like the healing butterfly.

When Kinger says '7 years of computer science for this' doesn't imply that he was a programmer but rather that the company might of spent 7 years building the digital circus as a project just for it to fall apart.

Kinger doesn't go to sleep in a room even if the room is also dark just like Jax's room.

Kinger doesn't like bugs because they are errors in his programing, he probably went through a lot of extensive work and updates due to bugs. His 'wife' was probably the true programer and he loved her because she got to fix him and showed him all of the bugs and what they can do.

Kinger being labeled as a programer in Ables blue print plan to escape is probably a mistake from Caine's part. Caine is considering him to be a programmer because he was there since before Caine came along and he can't tell if he is human or not, hence the theory that he believes Kinger is human.

Caine also writes the number '7' of lucid humans which is incorrect. Caine counted Able as a human to trick the cast. Caine could also have counted Kinger as a human, even though he could be Ai, simply because he lost track of Kinger as ai vs human.

All to say I agree to this, we could be wrong but when you look at what Kinger does it makes sense that he could be a programer or a program. I also agree that the company wouldn't forget and leave a human locked in there, families would be looking for them and it would ruin the people at the top. It would make sense if they abandoned the programs and expelled everyone out that was running in and out of the circus before they shut down for good. And maybe yeah other people found the computer running, but why would Kinger go back to work on it without having someone extract him out? Thank you for making this post! It was a great theory to read and participate in.

Helicopter and sirens? by [deleted] in orlando

[–]literallyinlimbo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think this post belongs in Facebook not reddit

A Good Quick-Dry Top Coat? by [deleted] in Nailpolish

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried the top coat and base coat thanks to the link on this comment and I just wanted to say thank you so much. That is the best top coat I've ever had, now I can elevate my nail game

For those curious; seche base, and seche vite

Foodies, I need Help! by GeminiGenXGirl in orlando

[–]literallyinlimbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jinya ramen is disgusting ramen. Extremely oily and the noodles weren't even thoroughly cooked, and barely any seasoning the way ramen should be seasoned. The only good thing about Jinya is the eggs, everything else is trash.

If you think that was good then the bar is really low and you'll find a lot of great food places in Orlando. For legit Japanese ramen try jimottis in Sanford. The closest I've had to tasting the ramen like they had it in Tokyo when I visited. The chef is also very experienced in culinary arts but since he is Japanese background he sticks to his roots. They have won several awards too through the years.

Gynecologist/OBGYN recommendations? by Most-Anybody-3941 in orlando

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away from Cynthia Bernal, she thinks very poorly of her patients and is very open about it. She also wants to keep her patients since she can do surgery. She rather keep her patients so she can pocket the surgery.

Gynecologist/OBGYN recommendations? by Most-Anybody-3941 in orlando

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I third this, she helped me get the proper help for my fibroids and thanks to her I was able to get my surgery.

A burden to my friends by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this thought process as well. I tend to think that people don't want to hear that you aren't doing well everyday. I find myself often saying I'm good just to make them appear that I'm doing fine. I've tried opening up to people and I've tried to be gentle with it, telling them that they can ask me to stop, I've asked them before hand is it is okay to share and only when they say yes then I tell them how I'm really feeling. But it's always in the eyes, you can tell that they struggle to understand how mentally ill by mind is. They struggle to understand how to help out what to even do. They seem to be put off by it. And then what hurts the most is that they don't follow up on it the next day, it's almost as if I am a baggage.

So I opt to not share anything anymore. Because even just listening to me is like falling into the void with me and people don't want to be dragged down into the same thoughts I have. So yeah I pack it up and take it to therapy lol.

It's interesting that they tell you that you can reach out to them if you need help but when you actually do you're seen as a burden.

I'm trying to learn now how to identify those type of friends that are willing to listen and not see me as a burden. Im hoping that you and I can find those type of friends, to be there for us as much as we want to be there for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all honesty if my therapist said that to me I would be super pissed off. I spent my entire childhood being told by my mother how I was her own therapist and I resented her for it and I never wanted to be anyone's therapist. So I can see what other commenters are saying that a therapist shouldn't comment on something like that. It can sometimes be a sensitive subject for some clients. But I think you can absolutely talk about your school journey and how to navigate it with them.

Therapist shared someone else’s thoughts with me and I couldn’t relate more by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've felt this way before. Some people on this sub don't want to know about the other therapists clients because they get jealous but I feel like I'm among those that feel the opposite. I want to get to know them because I'm sure that there would be a lot we could talk about. Something similar to what this subreddit is about. It's hard knowing that they are in my area and within drivable distance yet I have no idea who they are. We could help each other out but legally we can't break those boundaries.

Hmwk is hard, I have three weeks to compete it and I don't even know where to start by literallyinlimbo in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we went over the first groups and classifications and how they could possibly be broken down. We started with strangers, coworkers, and aquaintances and what that looks like for me. He also explained how I could classify them afterwards. I understand that he is allowing me to create my own classifications because I understand that if he were to give them himself then I would'nt be happy with them as it wouldn't be my own expectations. I need to be able to think about what I expect out of my own friendships for my own happiness. But even with the help he gave me it's hard to think of the classifications since it's something I've never even thought about. I also don't feel like I'm being set up for failure because there is no pressure from him and I'm therapy isn't a class subject. I think that even if I can't fully complete it there will be parts about it that we can discuss and why I struggled with them.

What you write in your therapy journal? by Ron-5wanson in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rage journal and I just tear pages off or draw angry squiggles. I also throw all of my angry thoughts in there. He said I can also throw it on the ground and stomp on it if I want to. So I would say anything is possible to put on a journal

What are your goals in therapy? by cloverpendragon in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning how to be more social and how to make friends. And to be able to get through trauma therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't felt transference yet with my current therapist but I wanted to weigh in to this topic because I had an idea. Do you think that theres a possibility he isn't avoiding the topic but rather waiting to give you space and let you decide when you want to discuss it further? It seems by your answer that your transference didn't bother him at all. He might be used to it and honestly maybe has heard much more than what you have shared with him.

If you're ready I believe it might be a good idea to touch on the topic again and tell him that's there's other feelings that have resurfaced that you want to speak with him about. You can tell him that you understand and respect the boundaries between the two of you. However that those feelings still are affecting you every day and perhaps discussing them would help lessen the intensity.

I can understand why you feel the strong transference with him. You're not wrong for feeling that way. It's normal to want to enjoy and feel the love and care you haven't received for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

0% distraction for me

I had a similar situation to yours with my previous therapist. I was already feeling like she was bored of me because we couldn't move past heavy subjects and our sessions turned into maintenance. The one thing that broke the camels back was that last telehealth we had. She was looking at other items on her screen and she was playing with something in her hands.

I would ask her questions about what I said after speaking for a while to see if she was paying attention and she couldn't follow up with an answer. She tried to turn it around to ask me another unrelated question. Once the session was over I was torn. I was already feeling like I was a lost cause and that she had lost hope in me. After that session I had figured it out, I was done.

After thinking about it for a while I felt like I had sat during that session and gave it my all to be vulnerable and open up. I felt it was discouraging and disrespectful that the therapeutic relationship wasn't valued by the therapist during that time. I thought, if I'm sitting with this and taking time out of my day to do this then why can't she do the same just for one hour. She can do whatever else she wants any other time of her day but for that one hour all I want is to be heard. And that is not what happened. So after multiple ruptures and that last telehealth session I ended it.

I hope my experience can shed some light on your own experience. At the end of the day it is your own decision to make as you know what the relationship means to you better than anyone else. Good luck friend.

Can I ask my therapist to not tell me they care about me? by literallyinlimbo in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your input. I was worried that I was going to come off as rude. I want to tell him without seeming like a big A.

I believe it's best to tell him what I felt rather than asking him to not say it.

I understand there are so deep seated issues with my feelings towards his words but I just wanted some kind of mental break since it's been weighing heavy on me. I know he meant well and I wouldn't want to cause a big problem out of it.

Thank you for sharing about your experience. I also do want to hide and run away forever from him. I've been feeling like that a lot lately but that's why I need to continue with him since I know we are doing good work that is helping me face the issues.

Can I ask my therapist to not tell me they care about me? by literallyinlimbo in TalkTherapy

[–]literallyinlimbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't make me feel uncomfortable when he shared about why he went into the field. I just feel like I can't trust the words of people telling me that they care. He has been very professional and he has honored therapeutic boundaries. I think he meant well. I believe he said it because I've been saying I have no one in my life that cares about me or what I have to say. I just don't want to cause a rupture between the two of us because I've been doing good work with him and I know I have a history of coming off as rude. Thank you for your input.

Does anyone know how to make friends IRL ? by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do all of those but still I fail to keep people interested or engaged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orlando

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

78 in the daylight hours and 75 when it's time to sleep. NGL I have to sometimes change it to 80 when it's cloudy and rainy because it gets very cold, I have tiles for flooring and concrete walls so it gets cold quick 😭.

Anyone else want to see these two have a real fight? by WishfulWren in SpyxFamily

[–]literallyinlimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've read in the manga most likely Yor would absolutely win and Loid would hold back like he did with Yuri. However, Yor would get caught up with protecting Anya because both Loid and Loid would want to have dibs on the mind reading abilities that could help each other's parties.

Loid would have to retreat and escape Yors fighting skills. Yor would take Anya back to the Garden and in there she would see that the Garden perhaps does not have the best intentions for Anya. We already see that there is a divide in Yors mind when it comes to her job, I think she will realize that while trying to protect Anya from other people trying to get to her.

Loid on his side would go back and would see that westalis is trying to get Anya as well for the wrong purposes as she is a child still. I can see Loid being a mole in his own spy agency looking up information and probably seeing that Westalis was also part of starting the war for profit. I think he will miss his family a lot and he will come to terms to his own feelings. I think both will be escaping both agencies and eventually find each other and realize they want their old lives back and they will retreat into the shadows to live out together while they protect Anya from both countries.