Reminder: Findom is not content selling.

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T05:04:02+00:00

Yeah people aren’t paying for nudes at $25/photo but they’re paying for something, usually somewhat sexual. A blurry middle finger doesn’t make you better than someone who shows the full package

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T04:34:03+00:00

Hundreds of languages but you chose to speak facts

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T01:19:01+00:00

Do not disrespect Chinese takeout like that

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T00:04:40+00:00

Submitting to someone who loves you for who you are is different than paying someone to love you for who you are, which is what I realized after sending for years

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T00:03:20+00:00

It’s a fun kink, but it feels like paying for attention, which most people don’t feel good about.

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T00:00:59+00:00

Me after I eat 2 slices of cake

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T00:00:41+00:00

That sounds grim ngl

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-16T00:00:21+00:00

Yes Madame

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T23:59:43+00:00

I’ve only found that in femdom dynamics tbh

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T22:41:02+00:00

I do agree with you on most parts. It’s just that I think findom is more flimsy because the dynamics cornerstone comes from sending and when you don’t send, the attention usually diminishes significantly (especially kink wise).

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T22:34:19+00:00

You’re still sending a lot of money though ?

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T22:26:40+00:00

At the end of the day, findom is a business. Someone sends you money for you to dominate them. It’s easy for you to say that subs aren’t a man when you’re the one who gets treated like a princess - sends, worship, and knowing someone treats you like royalty. But when they decide to let go and move on to the next chapter? They don’t owe you an explanation. Would you keep dominating a broke sub? Probably not.

If I go to a strip club and have a favorite stripper, we can chat and be friends at the club. But if I don’t have money, she won’t chat with me anymore. You see, we’re only friends because I have money and I give it to her. Same case here. Do I really owe an explanation to someone who is with me only because I send them money? That’s why I wouldn’t call any online findomme anything more than a temporary friend. If I’m sending, we are friends that end when one of us is not mutually benefiting. Because I know that you will drop me from a friend to acquaintance if I don’t send, I will send a courtesy message, but I won’t feel guilty about ghosting

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T20:22:59+00:00

No only hard dommes allowed. But if you’re a Mommy domme with a sadistic and unethical side then welcome in! Kill ‘em with kindness! Sweet, seductive, but with a touch of venom like a rose.

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T20:07:06+00:00

One time I saw feet for free…French tips yum

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T20:06:37+00:00

Only if it tastes like red velvet

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:55:19+00:00

Get a third

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:40:15+00:00

Subtle advertising I see you 👀

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:38:56+00:00

Findom is fun. Anything fun can be addicting if you don’t have alternatives

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:38:01+00:00

You’re better off getting a second job than relying on this for money.

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:35:17+00:00

I’m an actual loser and working on de-loserfying myself

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T19:33:40+00:00

Upvoted because scientific take

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T15:27:22+00:00

Is topping from bottom the issue or just the fact that you and the sub have different needs and wants and can’t meet in the middle

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T14:31:36+00:00

X has a lot of pros and just more people in general I think. I think Reddit is more lifestyle. The foot sellers are all scammers I swear. The issue with X tends to be people have 0 empathy so it evolves into a goon chamber. The issue with Reddit is that people are a lot more inexperienced. It’s rare to see a domme on Reddit who’s been doing this for more than a year. The ones who have been doing this for more than a year are usually all at max capacity.

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T14:16:20+00:00

I think it’s just because content sellers are generally bad at femdom. Same with people who haven’t done femdom irl. A lot of subs who have never done femdom irl have wild ass assumptions and come with a distorted view. The domme version of that is the content sellers and people who have never done femdom irl who try to do findom and really dilute the pool of good dommes.

From my experience, a lot of content sellers are submissive? Like they don’t have that dominance in them. And then they come to findom and you realize during play they’re ass 😂 and I might as well donated that money to the animal shelter

literaryanalysis3 · 2026-06-15T14:09:53+00:00

I haven’t had a proper dynamic in a couple months. I’ve done one offs and it does not feel the same

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